The problem is that Rourke is not the fiancé anymore, he’s the “bestie” now. That means Zilv will be around all the time, not letting Rourke deal with all this in his time and with space. He’ll be there to keep Rourke dreaming things will get back to the way they were. Obviously, that also means all the videos will stay up because Rourke doesn’t want to hurt Zilv more.
PS: Would I be besties with someone that supposedly doesn’t respect my family and has done all this bad shit? I would not, but that’s just me...