It's a toss-up where to put this, since it's equal parts safe space & health and fitness. Has anyone experienced permanent social separation from people they knew who became gym addicts, and essentially junked their pre-gym friends for good?
What I find so hurtful about being victimized by this at two entirely different stages of my life is that when I got briefly bit by the fitness bug, for these former "friends" of mine, my level is too below theirs for them to have any interest in giving me the time of day.
We all see it, particularly in the younger guys, of a full-blown obsession of themselves, showing off all the time, and acting as if their past didn't exist prior to looking so attractive in the body. Self-absorbed cockiness is seen as an enamoring quality rather than a lousy one.
What I find so hurtful about being victimized by this at two entirely different stages of my life is that when I got briefly bit by the fitness bug, for these former "friends" of mine, my level is too below theirs for them to have any interest in giving me the time of day.
We all see it, particularly in the younger guys, of a full-blown obsession of themselves, showing off all the time, and acting as if their past didn't exist prior to looking so attractive in the body. Self-absorbed cockiness is seen as an enamoring quality rather than a lousy one.