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EvilFairy
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So recently I started dating this guy from the South. We get along great, have hella awesome conversations, he treats me very well. He is sweet and always complimenting me and makes me feel wanted. We have lot in common with interests in music and such. I am very attracted to him, and the sex is great. He looks a lot like Edward Norton in American History X... Complete with the swastika tattoo, and a bunch of other tattoos branding him as a racist, and member of the Aryan brotherhood....
I had no idea about the tattoos or Ab membership until we were having sex for the first time. I admit it shocked me a lot. I am mixed race, Mexican, French, Spanish, Italian, and Norweigen. I had told him this when we first started talking. He never indicated it was an issue. As a matter of fact his children are mixed race, as is his ex wife.
I kinda freaked out when I saw them. He noticed and told me he grew up in a very racist and close minded town. He said that he grew up with that way of thinking, and was a AB member for a long time. He says that as he grew older he out grew his former way of life and thinking, and only sees people now not color. I want to believe him.
I am so confused and conflicted over this. This guy is honestly like almost perfect in everyway for me, but I don't know if I can get over the tatts. I know he can always cover them and he has mentioned he wants to do so. He has already covered some of the more extreme ones, but I know they were there.
I don't know much about skinheads/neo nazis/ the KKK or AB, but I do know that the are very strict in their beliefs. I don't know if it's possible for someone to really stop being racist. Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated.
I had no idea about the tattoos or Ab membership until we were having sex for the first time. I admit it shocked me a lot. I am mixed race, Mexican, French, Spanish, Italian, and Norweigen. I had told him this when we first started talking. He never indicated it was an issue. As a matter of fact his children are mixed race, as is his ex wife.
I kinda freaked out when I saw them. He noticed and told me he grew up in a very racist and close minded town. He said that he grew up with that way of thinking, and was a AB member for a long time. He says that as he grew older he out grew his former way of life and thinking, and only sees people now not color. I want to believe him.
I am so confused and conflicted over this. This guy is honestly like almost perfect in everyway for me, but I don't know if I can get over the tatts. I know he can always cover them and he has mentioned he wants to do so. He has already covered some of the more extreme ones, but I know they were there.
I don't know much about skinheads/neo nazis/ the KKK or AB, but I do know that the are very strict in their beliefs. I don't know if it's possible for someone to really stop being racist. Any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated.