RoysToy said:
Hey, Stronzo:
I agree with your summations, Buddy, and I'm glad to see details of the show brought to light. Justin's mother's being shown only on tape was so foreign to Oprah's usual methods of covering subjects caused me to wonder about the reasons.
Agred RT. That video taped interview with his mother (who- as it happens -is in the business of couselling abused children) was unprecedented in my experience with her show. I think it was to safeguard her from random pot shots from Oprah's audience.
Do his entrepreneurial skills lead you to think he had help along the way?
RT? It was very clear to me from the start of the interview that Justin's a bright boy. Indeed his mother said she "never knew what was going on" since Justin was so proficient on his pc and when he scurried off to Las Vegas ostensibly to go to "computer conventions" she never once questioned him... HUH??
If you recall Justin only stopped his hometown-based porn enterprise (in an apartment only several blocks from his mother's home rented FOR HIM by one of his clients) once one of his schoolmates got hold of a video perfomance of his and he was "outed" at school.
Yes, sure the vast majority of adolescent boys are inclined to like showing as well as seeing their newly found ways for having fun and I can certainly relate to your confessions of enjoying showing when you were that age.
In all honestly I was whacking my 9 year old boner with three of my male friends in my mom's barn nearly every week ... and indeed my first real sexual encounter was when I was 15 and the guy who "showed me the ropes" was 23. Does this constitute abuse? Not to me it doesn't. I see the guy still regularly as a friend and I can still get wood thinking about it today. Bbut by law it would.
Further, I cannot reconcile random attachments of chronological age to sexual maturity. To believe that magically at 18 someone is "sex ready" is absurd to me. I was busting a nut regularly at 12 and I would have willingly gone further than handjobs if I'd dared suggest it then. What confounds me about the tone of the Oprah show in the Justin Berry episode is that it seemed to promote further that "cry abuse" mentality. Oprah, in fact, "applauded [his] courage" for coming on her show to expose the pedophilia so rampant on the internet..
Ummm OPRAH?? Jason
opened the PayPal account. He flew to Las Vegas "hoping it wasn't about sex" to claim his thousand dollars for his company. Come on dude.... did you think those men were interested in your life experience?? Justin's certainly intelligent but he's no Einstein. He's just a twink with a dink.
Isn't it interesting that the NYC reporter took such an interest in Justin, even being willing to travel to Mexico for the story? The way he first learned of this particular website wasn't approached on the show, and it leaves a lot to be wondered about.
Exactly what I got out of it. That part was conveniently omitted.
I suppose there are many payments being made daily to get kids to remove clothing for internet showings and I can see that the fifty dollars to remove the shirt is just a step in reaching the final goal of getting naked and having access to the main subject at hand! The affluent guy hungry for sex wouldn't hesitate to let a few hundred dollars stand in his way of getting off.
I don't know. When I sign on to Yahoo I'll get, on occasion, the random individual pming me to see say "hey, wanna view my cam?" I've been known to frequent cam chat so I'm assuming I'm located there. I mean OUT OF NOWHERE will come a pm from someone I've never met. When I ask age and sex and I'm given the legally permissable age I'll take a look (only when it's male cuz I'm a big homo) and when I'm asked if I'm male or female and I say "male" 80% of the time these ostensibly heterosexual young dudes keep right on stroking. Is it hot? Yes. Do they care who's watching them? Nope. Do they ask me for money? Nope. Have any asked to meet me when they find I live in close proximity? Yes. Have I done so? Nope.
I'll tell ya .... all is not what it seems. Since I'm in a committed relationship I'd not meet up with any (though one dude I watched on his cam is a hot 22 year old guy in the same town I am). However, were he to ask me to give him a blow job and I was NOT involved (much as he claimed to be "mostly straight") I'd be hard-pressed to refuse it.
We've created this phenomenon known as the home computer and the technology allows indiscriminate use of a webcam. I think we'd better simply deal with it. But to suggest (as Justin and his reporter did) that all "Parents!! Go immediately and throw out all your kid's webcams!" is more than a bit naive it seems to me.