Boy. This whole men's massage thing is NEW to me! I live in southern CA, I've heard of a lot of stuff here but never heard of this.
I've read through most of the comments posted & the idea sounds intriguing. What I take away is that it's supposed to be like a male bonding experience where you strip physically (and emotionally?) and "relate" to each other in a much more intimate environment than you could in the "real" world. (....?)
I am a bit confused though. Some of the threads say the seminar is "non-sexual...completely platonic...no sexual pressure...naked if you choose...standing circle massage....interacting, bonding..." etc.
Then, in other comments I read about "genital massages" & "guys with semis" walking around, if not with full erections.
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isn't it safe to assume that guys with bicurious tendencies would attend these things? Guys that are not yet adventurous enough to experience authentic one-on-one homo-sex, but rather seek a structured setting to achieve many of the same goals, getting a lot of the benefits of homo-sex - minus the ejaculation? I KNOW this type of seminar is supposed to be on a "higher" spiritual plane than guy/guy sex, but it seems to me that the whole POINT of this kind of intense male bonding (exploring "maleness") is always working towards the idea of comfortable interacting, comfortable touching, even comfortable male/male orgasm.