Obsession Black Men’s Cock

[MancMilf]

So I’m desperate to suck a black guys cock, I actually find it quite difficult to track down a black man in the NW.

Do you think black guys like having their cocks lusted after or do you think they get fed up with white guys chasing them?

 

[deleted3755901]

Depends on the guy some of us hate and absolutely despise being fetishized but then you have others who find it flattering. But i mean You wanna suck black dick so bad come to FL and suck mine.

 

[MancMilf]

Haha I might just do that.

thanks for your response, it was a genuine question so I appreciate the reply.

 

[dotdotdot]

I actually found this quite hard to read. I really hope you know the difference between sucking a black cock and sucking a black guy's cock because being racially fetishised is so horrible and dehumanising and I sincerely hope you meet a guy that you find attractive rather than indulge in some fantasy fetish that strips the person you find of their humanity
Black people get fed up of being lusted after for being black

 

[MancMilf]

Hi dotdotdot, I’m so sorry that this thread has caused you upset or offended you in any way. I realise now why it could. Ive never thought of it in the way you’ve explained, thank you for replying with integrity.

I actually found this quite hard to read. I really hope you know the difference between sucking a black cock and sucking a black guy's cock because being racially fetishised is so horrible and dehumanising and I sincerely hope you meet a guy that you find attractive rather than indulge in some fantasy fetish that strips the person you find of their humanity
Black people get fed up of being lusted after for being black

 

[Cum_is_Great]

Hi dotdotdot, I’m so sorry that this thread has caused you upset or offended you in any way. I realise now why it could. Ive never thought of it in the way you’ve explained, thank you for replying with integrity.

At least you actually addressed the black man. I've had people say things like "I invited over a BBC and sucked him dry" Like the fuck, they literally reduced the guy to his cock. Like they even referred to him as a "BBC" not a man or guy just BBC. Then there's people who solely want a black guy for his cock. They don't care about him as a person, don't care about his feelings or anything else, just his cock. If they could have the cock without the man attached it would be even better. They'll have sex with a black guy but NEVER date him.

Anyway I'm rambling and there's plenty topics up about this.

 

[MancMilf]

At least you actually addressed the black man. I've had people say things like "I invited over a BBC and sucked him dry" Like the fuck, they literally reduced the guy to his cock. Like they even referred to him as a "BBC" not a man or guy just BBC. Then there's people who solely want a black guy for his cock. They don't care about him as a person, don't care about his feelings or anything else, just his cock. If they could have the cock without the man attached it would be even better. They'll have sex with a black guy but NEVER date him.

Anyway I'm rambling and there's plenty topics up about this.

Hi, I should of done a search before I posted a new thread, I would date a black man without any doubt. I really enjoy sucking cock and making sure the guy is absolutely pleasured is important to me, as much as I said I want to suck a black guys cock there would have to be a connection between us. I think I’ve been naive in posting this thread, but I’m glad I’ve got views back from you guys. It’s definitely made me think more about it.

thanks for your reply

 

[dotdotdot]

We were able to provide this alternative viewpoint and I'm really glad that you are taking it seriously... and clearly you understand the message we're trying to put across and most importantly you'll understand why people reacted to what you said in the way you did so I'm really glad and happy that I was at least able to in some way be a part of that for you

 

[1347983]

You sound like a racist

 

[FDA-APPROVED]

I find it annoying personally, especially when White guys feel entitled to my black dick, like wtf? But I know a lot of my brothers get off on being fetishized by non-black so I’m sure it’s not hard to find one that does.

 

[W4_Hung]

It's kinda the same as when porn says white guy and BBC, BBC is a person not just some tool in a porn scenario.

 

[cedarizzo]

I wouldn't call it an obsession for me. I date 3 black guys within a 3 year period. The first 2 were some of the nicest guys and I felt the most connection to them. They were never all about themselves, they were very polite, we had some really deep conversations and I always felt at ease opening up to them. And the sex was really good. The third one turned out to be a complete asshole and he just made me felt used and unappreciated. I would love to meet a guy like one of the first two black guys.

 

[Enthralled]

"Do you think black guys like having their cocks lusted"
I don't think "black guys" are just one mass of people who all think alike, and porn can quite distort people views on this.

The more you look for this exclusively the lower your chance of finding one, imo. You might sound desperate and that can turn people off. Especially if you're looking to make it about race or looking for the porn archetype exclusively (not that I'm saying you necessary are).

I've been with a congolese before. It happened by "accident", he's the one who actually came up to me, as I'm a bit shy and would never have done the first step. I spent maybe 4-5 weekends at his place while I was between boyfriends, and not one time we made it about race or have I even said the word "black". He did tell me how annoyed he was when "boys like me" were coming to him overeager for "bbc", offering to pay him, etc... So I'm glad I didn't. Sex was great, but not because he was black or anything, it's because HE was fucking good.

 

[3HandsfulofDick]

I find it annoying personally, especially when White guys feel entitled to my black dick, like wtf? But I know a lot of my brothers get off on being fetishized by non-black so I’m sure it’s not hard to find one that does.

There is some truth to what ur saying; however, those black men that don’t mind being fetished by white men (for the most part) care about what whites think of them.... Those that don’t may give white men the dixk but u best believe it will be at a price... And u best believe they will compensate you very well for it ...

 

[Texart]

Personally color does not mean much to me as far as sucking a nice cock. And those come in all colors. I love sucking cock and giving a guy as much enjoyment and satisfaction as I can. I think by now (60+ yrs sucking) I have given head to just about every race on this planet and enjoyed all of them, some to a lesser degree orthers to a much greater degree, but race or color had nothong to do with it. The person mattered to me.

 

[JackM]

I don't believe objectifying people is just a racial thing. I'm white and have talked to a number of people on line who "loved my pictures" but, it turned out, had not in the slightest interest in getting to know me. They just wanted to be fucked by a big cock and mine is bigger than average. If they have that attitude I'm not going to waste any more time on them, regardless of how good looking they are. I think very few of us, regardless of race, are happy to be objectified to that extent.

 

[AVx22]

Idk how people can get upset about being fetishized bit at the same time use people to hook up in order to get their rocks off!

If someone fetishizes me for being Black and having a large dick, I’m not too bothered by it. In the end, if we’re hooking up, we are using each other for sexual pleasure, literally. I’m quite literally fetishizing the male body!

 

[1297396]

Idk how people can get upset about being fetishized bit at the same time use people to hook up in order to get their rocks off!

If someone fetishizes me for being Black and having a large dick, I’m not too bothered by it. In the end, if we’re hooking up, we are using each other for sexual pleasure, literally. I’m quite literally fetishizing the male body!

As a black man I 100 percent agree

 

[deleted6209261]

Idk how people can get upset about being fetishized bit at the same time use people to hook up in order to get their rocks off!

If someone fetishizes me for being Black and having a large dick, I’m not too bothered by it. In the end, if we’re hooking up, we are using each other for sexual pleasure, literally. I’m quite literally fetishizing the male body!

There’s a difference between hooking up with any random individual because you’re horny vs being targeted as a check box or a fetish for someone’s temporary desire.

you’ve clearly switched off your care meter when it comes to the topic of fetishising black men.

 

[AVx22]

There’s a difference between hooking up with any random individual because you’re horny vs being targeted as a check box or a fetish for someone’s temporary desire.

you’ve clearly switched off your care meter when it comes to the topic of fetishising black men.

First of all, don’t imply that I should be offended just because I’m Black. I don’t need you to be offended on my behalf.

Second of all, it’s the same thing! You never know if someone is checking off a box when they’re hooking up with you. It’s a hookup. You don’t know that person or their desires. Hooking up is partly about exploring your fetishizes and desires.

In either situation you are mutually taking advantage of someone for your own pleasure. FOH...