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So a few weeks ago a new friend I made sometime in the last 8 months invited me to a party at her place for the first time. While there I met a pretty hot guy who was also quite interesting to talk to. Me being the oblivious idiot that I am did not pick up at all on the fact that he was flirting with me the entire night; I found out after I left the party with another friend and she told me the half way through the night "hot guy" texted the friend hosting the party asking if I was gay.
This is where it gets "complicated", she does not know that I'm bi, and told "hot guy" that I'm into girls. (Side note: she doesn't know not because I don't want her to know just because I don't parade my sexuality, I don't like labels.) So fast forward to the next day and I texted my friend and asked for "hot guy's" number. I texted him, asked if he'd be up for drinks sometime and he said yes. We then chatted a little bit that night through text.
Now fast forward again to the Friday we said we'd meet up. I showed up at the pub for drink and he never showed... I had (obviously) texted him to see if he was running late or what was up. He then replied about two hours later saying that he felt terrible he had forgot about our plans and sounded sincerely apologetic I told him not to worry these things happen... I have since texted him twice (once the next day asking for a rain check and once a week later (i.e. this Friday) asking if he is still interested in going out for a drink but he has not replied to me since he apologized.
At this point I'm not an idiot and can see that he is not going to reply and I'm not going to waste my time. But my question is do you think that he's embarrassed about standing me up or was I misled into thinking he was more into me than he actually is?
This is where it gets "complicated", she does not know that I'm bi, and told "hot guy" that I'm into girls. (Side note: she doesn't know not because I don't want her to know just because I don't parade my sexuality, I don't like labels.) So fast forward to the next day and I texted my friend and asked for "hot guy's" number. I texted him, asked if he'd be up for drinks sometime and he said yes. We then chatted a little bit that night through text.
Now fast forward again to the Friday we said we'd meet up. I showed up at the pub for drink and he never showed... I had (obviously) texted him to see if he was running late or what was up. He then replied about two hours later saying that he felt terrible he had forgot about our plans and sounded sincerely apologetic I told him not to worry these things happen... I have since texted him twice (once the next day asking for a rain check and once a week later (i.e. this Friday) asking if he is still interested in going out for a drink but he has not replied to me since he apologized.
At this point I'm not an idiot and can see that he is not going to reply and I'm not going to waste my time. But my question is do you think that he's embarrassed about standing me up or was I misled into thinking he was more into me than he actually is?