Why do older men become bi-curious

[jimcord]

This thread is dying a quick death if we continue this route.

 

[Frank240]

Please stop bickering. This is not a venue to spout off about religious beliefs. Please keep to the thread topic or find another website to clog.

 

[Iwanthead]

Yo

I am almost 57. I didnt delve in until i was 49. I had an experience with a friend when i was 18 and we were drunk. That story is on here somewhere. i felt guilty of the experience but didnt think i was gay. I still loved looking at woman and boobies, butts, and pussy. If you watch a lot of straight porn, you are going to see hard cocks. Most just deal with it, some are intrigued. most all men enjoy bj's even the bad ones. when wife/girlfriend wont do it and jacking gets boring you start thinking of alternatives. A lot of men have been to adult store, looking for videos, toys, or lingerie. Some of those have theatres and/or peep booths. you start thinking about getting blown or blowing one. most guys know that if you want a bj, you can find a guy to do it. A lot of connection sites, remember the fun of Craigslist? If you want to give a bj, you can always find someone wanting one. I had thought about it for years after accidently watching a bi sexual video. In early 2016, i took off from work on a friday night and went to an adult store. I didnt even know if they had gloryholes. I was very nervous. Had my coins. Went into the back and went in first booth i saw and stayed there. There was two holes. Sat for a while and looked through hole and eventually a cock came through. I had no idea what i was doing. Stroked it a bit and then started licking the head. I basically made out with the cockhead. He came, i spit it out, and sat there. soon came another. I sucked 4 cocks that first night and never looked back. I even swallowed one of their cums. Love looking at gay, bisexual, straight, and lesbian porn. whatever my mood is. I have never had a relationship with a guy but wouldnt be opposed to it for the right one. That's my story.

U are the closest to me geographically. I would sit back or lay back and enjoy your talents no recip.

 

[Iwanthead]

Not sure why, but I"m sure glad they do. I'm always looking for an older guy who wants to lay back and get serviced.

Here I am. But I am in Knoxville Tn area. Many miles apart.

 

[jimcord]

In so many ways, you start to realize that time is running out and yet curiosity, killed the cat eventually anyway. Luckily times it also changed and you realize that no one really cares nearly as much as you thought they did about who you love or play with and finally you also just don’t give a shit anymore and need to know and feel.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Army guys I’ve always wondered what happens with you guys because you’re away for months at a time together

I was in the military. Some people will tell you that nothing ever goes on, then there are others like myself who knows that lots of stuff went on. People generally don't talk about it. All you need is a few beers and then a safe place with no likelihood of being found out and the rest is history.

 

[ManchesterTom]

To be honest, if the dick fairy came to my house... It would be perfect if my wife could grow one on command. Pegging is fine and all... But to have that feedback loop of a living throbbing cock is what would make it for me.

To be perfectly honest, I don't think a woman would know how to drive one.

 

[Anime2]

I was in the military. Some people will tell you that nothing ever goes on, then there are others like myself who knows that lots of stuff went on. People generally don't talk about it. All you need is a few beers and then a safe place with no likelihood of being found out and the rest is history.

Just using logic that's exactly imagine it to be it's no different everyday. Theres what people say and then what really happens behind closed doors. In general theres so much people dont say and in an environment like the army I can imagine hooking up with a guy its literally like nothing ever happened

 

[Jjsurp99]

I do wanna ask while sex with men is easy. Would anyone actually want to be in a relationship with another man. That the biggest question

 

[Burghf_er]

I do wanna ask while sex with men is easy. Would anyone actually want to be in a relationship with another man. That the biggest question

if you're asking whether straight men are married to a woman for, say, 20 years and then act on being bisexual in their 40s and end up in a relationship with another man, yes, that happens. I personally know several.

 

[curtain_swoosh]

if you're asking whether straight men are married to a woman for, say, 20 years and then act on being bisexual in their 40s and end up in a relationship with another man, yes, that happens. I personally know several.

i disagree with that lol.

you dont just get bi over time. either you have had these feelings before or u never will.

the notion that straight men just suddenly turn bi is ridiculous ha.

 

[jimcord]

I agree, there had to be some interest all along or a development at some point to have same sex interests. I think thats what Burghf_er might have been meaning, it just did not get acted on until later in life for various reasons.

 

[Tazman66]

I agree, there had to be some interest all along or a development at some point to have same sex interests. I think thats what Burghf_er might have been meaning, it just did not get acted on until later in life for various reasons.

Being in a sexless marriage drives men to try things they didn't think they would ever do.
Not speaking from experience, only what I've heard from others.

 

[Lover man]

Maybe it’s to explore a different aspect of one’s sexuality

 

[WilliamG]

Being in a sexless marriage drives men to try things they didn't think they would ever do.
Not speaking from experience, only what I've heard from others.

This is a BIG reason... At least from what I see online. I find that when the wife and I are not having sex for a period, my bi side raises its curious head a bit higher.

 

[Anime2]

I do wanna ask while sex with men is easy. Would anyone actually want to be in a relationship with another man. That the biggest question

I think most (not all) bi men end up in relationships with women due to societal pressures. Theres gay men that even say they wish they were straight because it would make life easier. So bi men that actually have an attraction to women I think some just go down the route of having a relationship with women instead of men because its easier

 

[accidenttourist]

Being in a sexless marriage drives men to try things they didn't think they would ever do.
Not speaking from experience, only what I've heard from others.

From my experience with married "straight" men, sexless marriage is often the key driver for them to explore the ignored/suppressed/forgotten/whatever curiosity of male-to-male actions. (Yes, I love making straight guys stray...)

Someone I met through craigslist put it: "I used to pay a whore from time to time, but I don't have much money to spend. It's way better to have another guy who knows how to make a cock feels great to work my junk than to jerk off to porns."

I mean, who wants to eat McDonald's when you have a great cook at home? But then when there's no food at home and you go really hungry, the quick food at McDonald's starts getting enticing...

 

[Jjsurp99]

From my experience with married "straight" men, sexless marriage is often the key driver for them to explore the ignored/suppressed/forgotten/whatever curiosity of male-to-male actions. (Yes, I love making straight guys stray...)

Someone I met through craigslist put it: "I used to pay a whore from time to time, but I don't have much money to spend. It's way better to have another guy who knows how to make a cock feels great to work my junk than to jerk off to porns."

I mean, who wants to eat McDonald's when you have a great cook at home? But then when there's no food at home and you go really hungry, the quick food at McDonald's starts getting enticing...

Bi men

 

[LAguy90046]

I was in the military. Some people will tell you that nothing ever goes on, then there are others like myself who knows that lots of stuff went on. People generally don't talk about it. All you need is a few beers and then a safe place with no likelihood of being found out and the rest is history.

I have to agree. I lived near a military post when I was in Hawaii. I sucked a lot of military cock back then. Those boys were horny and just wanted to get off. Perfect arrangement for me.

 

[thanksforsharing]

I have to agree. I lived near a military post when I was in Hawaii. I sucked a lot of military cock back then. Those boys were horny and just wanted to get off. Perfect arrangement for me.

Said the word, I'll rent a uniform and come over.