i am fascinated by, and often surprised by, the people I am attracted to. First, just the fact attractions come in various types, such as appreciation or envy of physical attributes. I may have a more emotional attraction to people I get to know more about. The type of attraction that mystifies me most is sexual.
I have learned over the years there is no rhyme, reason, commonalities, or logic to the types of people I am sexually attracted to. After more than 20 years of marriage I am still highly attracted to my wife. In fact, my attraction is stronger because of our history. She has somehow managed to defy the odds and maintain her figure after having our three kids, but far more important to me is her unconditional love and seeing the type of person she is with everyone else she encounters.
As many here know, I have a sexual relationship with my best friend Jay. While he is handsome, well built, and well hung, I think my biggest attraction with him is our emotional bond and his trust in me to fulfill his sexual needs, while also building upon our already strong friendship.
Here at LPSG, there are man guys I am sexually attracted to. That doesn't mean I have any intention of having sex with them. I get plenty of sex from my wife, Jay, and the special relationship between me and my own body, and that one runs deep. My sexual attractions here on this site cause pre-cum, sometimes I get a semi, and at times I even get a raging hardon. I have to take action to bring myself out of my state of horniness when that occurs.
In my first sentence I said I am surprised by my attractions, I am attracted to guys who good looking or not, well built or not, well hung or not, hairy or not, etc. The race of the person or color of their skin is irrelevant. Anything goes.
With some of the men here my attraction is more lust-filled than it is with others. I have some fantasies about what I want to do sexually with them and sometimes think about a guy from here when I masturbate. There are some guys here who I consider to be out of my league, for one reason or another, but I am proven wrong sometimes by their messages to me. Attractions are difficult to understand but wonderful to experience.
I think it is healthy to allow myself to have all types of attractions, and to have them without guilt. I am not going to share which men here I am attracted to, but if I lined up a few pix of each guy here to show you, you would likely be confused by the variety.
I am highly attracted to confidence, but there have been a couple guys here who I am attracted to because they seem more vulnerable and I want to support them and build them up.
Can you relate to this or does attraction work differently for you?
I have learned over the years there is no rhyme, reason, commonalities, or logic to the types of people I am sexually attracted to. After more than 20 years of marriage I am still highly attracted to my wife. In fact, my attraction is stronger because of our history. She has somehow managed to defy the odds and maintain her figure after having our three kids, but far more important to me is her unconditional love and seeing the type of person she is with everyone else she encounters.
As many here know, I have a sexual relationship with my best friend Jay. While he is handsome, well built, and well hung, I think my biggest attraction with him is our emotional bond and his trust in me to fulfill his sexual needs, while also building upon our already strong friendship.
Here at LPSG, there are man guys I am sexually attracted to. That doesn't mean I have any intention of having sex with them. I get plenty of sex from my wife, Jay, and the special relationship between me and my own body, and that one runs deep. My sexual attractions here on this site cause pre-cum, sometimes I get a semi, and at times I even get a raging hardon. I have to take action to bring myself out of my state of horniness when that occurs.
In my first sentence I said I am surprised by my attractions, I am attracted to guys who good looking or not, well built or not, well hung or not, hairy or not, etc. The race of the person or color of their skin is irrelevant. Anything goes.
With some of the men here my attraction is more lust-filled than it is with others. I have some fantasies about what I want to do sexually with them and sometimes think about a guy from here when I masturbate. There are some guys here who I consider to be out of my league, for one reason or another, but I am proven wrong sometimes by their messages to me. Attractions are difficult to understand but wonderful to experience.
I think it is healthy to allow myself to have all types of attractions, and to have them without guilt. I am not going to share which men here I am attracted to, but if I lined up a few pix of each guy here to show you, you would likely be confused by the variety.
I am highly attracted to confidence, but there have been a couple guys here who I am attracted to because they seem more vulnerable and I want to support them and build them up.
Can you relate to this or does attraction work differently for you?
