Yes. I do know the word no but rarely use it when it comes to sex. I enjoy being rimmed or fingered. With fingers I prefer some lube, spit, or cum versus dry. My problem with anal play is I am eager to move on from it to fucking.
Well rimming is good - but thats just an early gate to the temple of orgasm.
I dont like rimming or anusplay only - its just a secondary pleasureing thing -