average/small penises and sex

Since everyone on this board, and other boards that I frequent have repeatedly drilled into my head, not all women find a large cock sexually pleasing, there are even some who might find sex just as satisfying with a average cock as they do with a large cock and there are some women who might, possibly find even a small cock enjoyable.

I understand that now and I’m sorry for generalizing about the desires of all women. Every person is different. I recognize that now. This is one of the greatest changes in terms of my perception of sex and sexuality since I first learned of the act.

But if we’re being honest with ourselves, what does that change? Sure if you’re average or small, you might still be able to sexually pleasure a partner, but does that matter in the end? My answer is no. Small and average cocks are inherently inferior to large cocks. While large cocks might not be sexually superior, they are culturally superior.

Large cocks have a special place world culture. All over the world large cocks are a sign of virility and fertility. On this Earth a man is judged by the size of genitalia and in most cases, not all, it is the larger genitals that are seen in a more positive light. Sexually, even a women who doesn’t gain greater sexual pleasure from a large penis will often find a large cock more visually satisfying than average or small cocks. Why is this? If large cocks are not superior, why does society and basic sexual attraction continue to tell us otherwise? The answer is simply this: big cocks are superior. Sure, they are not sexually superior, not for all women at least, but they do hold a higher position in our culture and give the owners of said large members higher rank and privilege within society as a whole.

What about the reverse? What about men with small cocks? Now, moving away from the field of sexual pleasure, which I admit is totally dependent on one’s partner and not automatically decided by one’s cocks size, a small cock is inferior. Take this for example; one of the most basic insults you can throw at a man is that he has a small cock. What’s more, having a small cock is commonly cited as the source for various kinds of asshole behavior. Everything from driving like a jerk to 9/11 has been traced back to the perpetrator having a small cock. Now, in some instances this was done for laughs, South Park linked 9/11 to Osama’s small genitals, but the fact remains that in US culture a small cock is seen not just as a physical failing but as a sign of weak character and morals.

This should be the final proof that while someone with an average cock might be able to please their lover, a small cock is always inferior because the person holding that cock is inferior.

Now, I know that some of these viewpoints might seem extreme to some, but please keep in mind that I’ve come to these conclusions after careful consideration and thought. And please understand that I don’t say these things lightly, because I have a small cock. I have come to these conclusions using my own life as the main source of information and as I have reflected upon my life I have come to realize that I am inferior. Now I don’t know if my failings as a human being have shriveled my cock to the point of uselessness or if my small cock made me scum, but I, like all men with small cocks, am inferior. That is a fact. It is unarguable.

I must thank the members of this board for continuing to beat into my head the fact that some women do not prefer large cocks. Without this, I might have never truly understood the worth of a large cock.

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For what it's a worth...I know at least two extremely hot women who do not like large cocks (and they don't mind saying so either !)
 
DexterMorgan;bt27015 said:
For what it's a worth...I know at least two extremely hot women who do not like large cocks (and they don't mind saying so either !)

Yes, I've admitted that small and average penises can sexually satisfy women. I admit that I was wrong in saying otherwise.
 
This should be the final proof that while someone with an average cock might be able to please their lover, a small cock is always inferior because the person holding that cock is inferior.

Your view on reality is skewed: just because you have an inferiority complex does not, technically, make you inferior. Though it does signal a neurosis that can make you less desirable, thereby continuing a vicious circle.

Your worth as a man has nothing to do with anything materialistic (and that includes a larger penis): it's in your ability to give and receive love, openly and with a full heart. You have no fewer chances of displaying generosity of spirit that anyone else, but taking fewer risks and allowing your heart to close would/will most definitely make you (momentarily) inferior.

All that can be changed with an open and more welcoming heart and spirit. But that's your work, and just your work, not mine.
 
"in US culture a small cock is seen not just as a physical failing but as a sign of weak character and morals." Really?
 
cool.guy.bang;bt27018 said:
"in US culture a small cock is seen not just as a physical failing but as a sign of weak character and morals." Really?

Yes. Really. If you look at things honestly, you will see that what I'm saying is true.
 
wallyj84;bt27020 said:
Yes. Really. If you look at things honestly, you will see that what I'm saying is true.

I'm skeptical of that too....it's been my observation, that extremely well hung men are less likely to be faithful in relationships....or as an old girlfriend once said, "Men with big dicks usually are....(big dicks)"
 
So I lack context. Is this a small guy indulging in a bit of self internet sph? If so, okay. But if it is serious then it is the worst case of "1 + 2 = apples" logic I've ever seen.
 
You seem intent on self humiliation, self recrimination -- are you trying to get others to acknowledge you're not worthy?

STOP YOUR SELF HATRED AND ACCEPT WHAT YOU ARE AND LOVE YOURSELF, BE KIND AND GENTLE WITH YOURSELF. OR NO ONE ELSE WILL. THE END.

There, that feels better. ;)
 
To Nekoman:

I just want for people to acknowledge the truth about penis size and how it relates to a man's value as a human being. I also have to ask you, shouldn't you hate yourself if you're worthless? If you don't hate yourself, where will the impetuous to improve come from?

To Isus:

In what way is my thinking circular?
 
DexterMorgan;bt27021 said:
I'm skeptical of that too....it's been my observation, that extremely well hung men are less likely to be faithful in relationships....or as an old girlfriend once said, "Men with big dicks usually are....(big dicks)"

I don't think that's true.Although, really isn't it better for society for hung men to spread their seed as wide as possible? Hung guys are superior. Shouldn't they create a large number of offspring so that society can benefit from a large number of superior citizens.
 
OK. This is officially freaking me out. Can there really be a serious debate about the size of a man's cock having any relationship whatsoever to their value as a person? If someone is making this ludicrous leap, then they need a qualified therapist, not a message board.
 
Nekoman;bt27041 said:
No don't hate yourself. The impetus to change penis size is irrelevant.

My comment about helping yourself isn't related to penis size. That can't change. But, it is related to other parts of your body or personality, like weight or looks. If you don't hate yourself for being overweight, why will you want to lose weight? If you don't hate yourself for being uninformed, why will you want to learn? Self hate is necessary to better yourself.
 
ErikKimber;bt27044 said:
OK. This is officially freaking me out. Can there really be a serious debate about the size of a man's cock having any relationship whatsoever to their value as a person? If someone is making this ludicrous leap, then they need a qualified therapist, not a message board.

Why do you think it's ludicrous?
 
Hate is not the best motivation to change, love of self is. Just think about being KIND to yourself, you'll automatically change. Self hate just makes you do self destructive things, not constructive change.
 
1. To the extent that there's really such a thing as the 'value' of a man, it is a judgment made by a man's community (in the case of most men, this includes friends, family, co-workers, acquaintances; in the case of public individuals, it can include a larger portion of society).

2. A man's community can only judge his worth based on characteristics of which they have knowledge.

3. In general, a man's community has no information about the size of his penis.

4. Therefore, in general, the size of a man's penis cannot have any bearing on his worth. QED.
 

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