Rights & Responsibilities of Marriages in the USA

A post in the Prop8 Boycott thread made me realize that while I knew some of the rights conferred by marriage I didn't know all of them. I always suported gay marriage; but now I have a much better idea about what is at stake. I also don't get what makes some straight people feel threatened by gays having the right to be legally married. As near as I can tell this takes nothing away from straight people . . . so what's the deal with the hatefulness. :confused:



Rights and benefits
  • Right to many of ex- or late spouse's benefits, including:
    • Social Securitypension
    • veteran's pensions, indemnity compensation for service-connected deaths, medical care, and nursing home care, right to burial in veterans' cemeteries, educational assistance, and housing
    • survivor benefits for federal employees
    • survivor benefits for spouses of longshoremen, harbor workers, railroad workers
    • $100,000 to spouse of any public safety officer killed in the line of duty
    • continuation of employer-sponsored health benefits
    • payment of wages and workers compensation benefits after worker death
    • making, revoking, and objecting to post-mortem anatomical gifts
  • Right to benefits while married:
    • employment assistance and transitional services for spouses of members being separated from military service; continued commissary privileges
    • per diem payment to spouse for federal civil service employees when relocating
    • Indian Health Service care for spouses of Native Americans (in some circumstances)
  • Larger benefits under some programs if married, including:
  • Joint and family-related rights:
    • joint parenting rights, such as access to children's school records
    • family visitation rights for the spouse and non-biological children, such as to visit a spouse in a hospital or prison
    • next-of-kin status for emergency medical decisions or filing wrongful death claims
    • custodial rights to children, shared property, child support, and alimony after divorce
    • domestic violence intervention
    • access to "family only" services, such as reduced rate memberships to clubs & organizations or residency in certain neighborhoods
  • Domestic violence protection orders
  • Regulation of condominium sales to owner-occupants exemption
  • Funeral and bereavement leave
  • Joint adoption and foster care
  • Joint tax filing
  • Insurance licenses, coverage, eligibility, and benefits organization of mutual benefits society
  • Legal status with stepchildren
  • Making spousal medical decisions
  • Spousal non-resident tuition deferential waiver
  • Permission to make funeral arrangements for a deceased spouse, including burial or cremation
  • Right to change surname upon marriage
  • Right to enter into prenuptial agreement
  • Right to inheritance of property

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As far as I'm concerned, If you love sombody (man or woman) and your willing to spend your life with them, sacrafice for them, share all your responsibilities with them, then the same benifits which married persons (traditional) become should be given to same sex marriages. Where the difference should be is if they have Children, their own or adopted. I think marriages with children should receive extra benifits. Why, because they have produced a taxpayer, isnt that where the only difference is?

just me
 
Well this why I have been posting to those forums against gay marriage NJ.
It is utterly ridiculous to think that marriage between same sex couples will somehow lead to people wanting to marry their cars or cows and whatever nonsense the opponents always try and bring up.
It will not lead to teaching about sex education in schools,or molesting by gays or anything else harmful to children which they like to claim.
I ask them always "how does it change your life personally"?
Not one has ever come up with an answer. They do try and go on a tangent about everything else except the original question though.
Sheer lunacy!
Really disapointing that people in every state aren't better informed and are so scared of nothing.:mad:
cigarbabe:sasmokin:
 
I have absolutely no idea how Fred and Terrance committing matrimony is going to hurt my marriage one iota. Now Lisa and Julie, weeeeellllll... Sorry, damn chauvinistic gene rearing up again.

Seriously, my wife, while not homophobic, just does not cotton to the whole idea. But when we moved down the street from an all-female couple whose kids quickly became her daughter's good friends, things started to change. We'd invite them over, had drinks and dinner together often, and found at that their values are pretty much the same as ours.

Well, except that I found that one of them was a bit too conservative for my tastes. No, I'm serious. She was a true Republican, and I'm a staunch Independent with Libertarian leanings. We had more arguments about politics than anything else.

Stupid, stupid voting public. Wish I would be alive when the history books will paint this time as another of the "can you believe how close-minded we were back then" eras.
 

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