My penis is considerably bigger than average, even though comparing it to many super well hung guys here makes it seem pretty typical by LPSG standards. In general males are focused on our penises way more than we probably need to be or should be. Our society has decided that bigger is better. As a guy who is bigger than average I will be honest and say I am grateful for my size and understand guys with smaller penises face more ridicule and sometimes even challenges because of their size. Today I want to share my observations about penis size confidence, from my own perspective, as well as guys I know.
ME
When I first had to change clothes in a locker room I was probably as embarrassed having a big dick as the guys who were small. I didn't know enough to be proud of it. I only noticed I was different. In those years from about 12-16 when puberty hits boys at different times, it was a time I just wanted to blend in and be average.
By the time I was 18 and became a nude model, posing in front of a lot of people I knew, I realized my penis size was an advantage. I became proud and loved being nude and showing it off. Ever since then I would rather be out of my clothes than in them.
Sexually, my size of 6"x6" flaccid and 7.5"x6.5" hard has been much more of a positive than a negative. My sex partners have never complained about me being too small and only a couple of the many males and females I have fucked have thought I was too big, but for those couple it was a real,issue.
MY BEST FRIEND JAY
I think many of you know my friend Jay became my fuck buddy a couple years ago after knowing each other 20 years. His penis is at least an inch and a half shorter than mine when soft, but outgrows mine when he gets hard. He is considerable thicker. He seems almost oblivious to guys being different sizes. He isn't cocky about having a big cock. Prior to getting married he dated a lot of women (I am his first man) and said his thickness prevented some women from allowing him to have sex with them. It was really frustrating for him to get as far as the bed and start making out only to be turned down when he got hard and women freaked out. He went through a time when he lacked confidence even though he is hung.
MY UNCUT FRIEND
Here in the U.S., for many decades it was customary to routinely circumcise newborn.males. That practice has slowed down some, thankfully, but for a friend of mine who is older than my 47 years he grew up being ashamed to be seen nude in the locker room because he was different. Now he is grateful to have his foreskin and is confident in the locker room, but he had to work on himself to learn to be proud to be uncut.
MY SMALL FRIEND
I dated and lived with a great guy for a couple years who had a true Micro Penis and he shared many stories about how much he was teased because of it and lost potential sex partners who were turned off by his size. But here I am talking about a different friend who is a grower and very small flaccid, but says he is average hard. When he gets out of the pool when we swim laps there is not much there. I applaud him for overcoming his fears and he will strip down and not turn to face a corner or wrap in a towel. His retracted penis is on full display. He just decided his penis doesn't define him and he doesn't care.
THE BIG DICK IN THE LOCKER ROOM
At my gym the guy with the biggest dick is a complete dick about it. He tries to intimidate smaller guys by showing his junk way more than he needs to. Many guys wish they had big cocks but even though I realize many guys have penis envy when they see it, they also feel sorry for him that he is a big dicked asshole because of it.
I look at it like I did nothing to earn a big dick and my small friends did nothing to deserve what they got. Let's just all chill out and love each other for the total person. I learned early on that sex with a small dicked man can be as good or better than one who is hung. I also know insecurities run rampant among many males of all sizes. My philosophy, not just for accepting myself, but also for accepting others is, "it is what it is." Enjoy the blessings of how great it feels to touch our cocks, etc. what I am saying is there is more to a man's life than penis size.
ME
When I first had to change clothes in a locker room I was probably as embarrassed having a big dick as the guys who were small. I didn't know enough to be proud of it. I only noticed I was different. In those years from about 12-16 when puberty hits boys at different times, it was a time I just wanted to blend in and be average.
By the time I was 18 and became a nude model, posing in front of a lot of people I knew, I realized my penis size was an advantage. I became proud and loved being nude and showing it off. Ever since then I would rather be out of my clothes than in them.
Sexually, my size of 6"x6" flaccid and 7.5"x6.5" hard has been much more of a positive than a negative. My sex partners have never complained about me being too small and only a couple of the many males and females I have fucked have thought I was too big, but for those couple it was a real,issue.
MY BEST FRIEND JAY
I think many of you know my friend Jay became my fuck buddy a couple years ago after knowing each other 20 years. His penis is at least an inch and a half shorter than mine when soft, but outgrows mine when he gets hard. He is considerable thicker. He seems almost oblivious to guys being different sizes. He isn't cocky about having a big cock. Prior to getting married he dated a lot of women (I am his first man) and said his thickness prevented some women from allowing him to have sex with them. It was really frustrating for him to get as far as the bed and start making out only to be turned down when he got hard and women freaked out. He went through a time when he lacked confidence even though he is hung.
MY UNCUT FRIEND
Here in the U.S., for many decades it was customary to routinely circumcise newborn.males. That practice has slowed down some, thankfully, but for a friend of mine who is older than my 47 years he grew up being ashamed to be seen nude in the locker room because he was different. Now he is grateful to have his foreskin and is confident in the locker room, but he had to work on himself to learn to be proud to be uncut.
MY SMALL FRIEND
I dated and lived with a great guy for a couple years who had a true Micro Penis and he shared many stories about how much he was teased because of it and lost potential sex partners who were turned off by his size. But here I am talking about a different friend who is a grower and very small flaccid, but says he is average hard. When he gets out of the pool when we swim laps there is not much there. I applaud him for overcoming his fears and he will strip down and not turn to face a corner or wrap in a towel. His retracted penis is on full display. He just decided his penis doesn't define him and he doesn't care.
THE BIG DICK IN THE LOCKER ROOM
At my gym the guy with the biggest dick is a complete dick about it. He tries to intimidate smaller guys by showing his junk way more than he needs to. Many guys wish they had big cocks but even though I realize many guys have penis envy when they see it, they also feel sorry for him that he is a big dicked asshole because of it.
I look at it like I did nothing to earn a big dick and my small friends did nothing to deserve what they got. Let's just all chill out and love each other for the total person. I learned early on that sex with a small dicked man can be as good or better than one who is hung. I also know insecurities run rampant among many males of all sizes. My philosophy, not just for accepting myself, but also for accepting others is, "it is what it is." Enjoy the blessings of how great it feels to touch our cocks, etc. what I am saying is there is more to a man's life than penis size.
