Well it's over. Again.

Sounds like you are given into sentamentalism, which I understand, since I have had those kind of feelings for past girls.... but then i found a girl who is 1000x better than them, and did not need to break up with her once. Of course, this type of girl is hard to find (she's from Asia, but then again, so where the other girls;; but you have to think, if you are breaking up with her this much during relationship time, what will happen during marriage? Two people meant to be together do not seperate constantly....

What is it about her that you can't give up? Specifically.

The question is, what was it that caused the break up anyway?

Sometimes it's hard to let go. But, you've got to ask yourself, is being with her worth whatever issues you were having?

koval;bt18466 said:

The question is, what was it that caused the break up anyway?

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It was because of an argument over my phone bill. I said that I couldn't call her as much, because I was concerned about my phone bill and then she said that I was being cheap and that if I really loved her I would find a way to pay for our frequent and long phone calls.

My last phone bill was over $200.

Notthe7;bt18464 said:

What is it about her that you can't give up? Specifically.

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I don't know. I think it's the fact that she's interested in me that really makes me interested in her. I usually don't have too many female suitors, so finding a woman with an honest attraction to me is very rare and hard to give up.

Update

We are talking again. Although she hasn't said that she wants to get back together yet, she is still talking to me. Most of our conversations revolve around her saying that she's found some other guy, who's very cool and much better than me.

This is a favorite ploy of hers, that she uses to make me jealous or something.

The rest of our conversations have been her telling me that she never really loved me, how disgusting I am and that she never wants to talk to me again. Mind you, she is the one that contacts me.

I wonder if I like the abuse.

Wow...my phone bill at a minimum hovers above 150/mo.
Anyway...I say ditch her.

Plenty of other fish in the ocean. You can make the mistake, once or twice, but third times a fool.