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Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by rts8, Jun 21, 2005.

  1. rts8

    rts8 New Member

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    ok today was wierd. i had 2 guys say something to me about my wang in restrooms today, and i was really offended by one of them. first was at work today, (i am a server) and i was using the urinal. i had it snaked out under my apron and the guy next to me says "too bad that thing cant get you tips here"... i didnt know how to respond. thank god he wasnt at one of my tables. then later i was eating out with the family and a guy in that urinal said "bet that thing gets huge" i responded with "you would think so..." (i hang at 6-6.5 but only get to 8 hard so its not huge but just large) just strange cause ive never had a comment, and i found the one at work very inappropriate and offensive.
     
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    People say amazingly stupid things often not realizing the potential effect.
    Dont sweat it!
     
  3. Alley Blue

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    I hate it when guys try to make a complete stranger's penis a conversation piece at the urinals. Then suddenly everyone lookin trying to get a glimpse........
     
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    For some reason there's never anyone around to have a conversation with when I'm at the urinal.
     
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    Why are you so offended by this? They are a) complimenting your size, and b) possibly coming on to you. The comment about tips was implying that if you were a gogo boy you'd make money showing that thing. Why does that offend you?

    If it bothers you so much, don't show it. Sorry, but it is possible to pee in a urinal while getting close enough to it so that no one can see--especially when you have something like an apron on, which you can hide behind.
     
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    Some people are open about that sort of thing, quiet a few aren’t. Only when your familiar with the person and know him will you have a idea of what sort of reaction you will receive.
    A compliment ( or comment) on a private body part, that happens to be visible for a moment, can provoke a negative response.....especially if its from a complete stranger.......
     
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    Agree totally w/alleyblu...Definitely see how it could offend or embarrass someone...
     
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    I think whether these bad boys were gay or straight, it was still a compliment. However, I can see that your sense of appropriateness in the situation can make you feel the way you do. It's sixes with me, I suppose. I wouldn't mind someone making a complimentary remark like those made to you, but if others were in ear shot, I would be embarrassed.

    I would like, sometimes, to make complimentary remarks, but it seems inappropriate to state something so personal to a stranger, at a urinal, or shower or somewhere public. Although, I do enjoy noticing, on ocassion. And that's not hitting on a person, in my book, it's just a way of enjoying their "uniqueness."
     
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    I'm not a guy, but when I'm going to pee, I am there for that only. I would find that a highly inappropriate time for someone to be looking at my junk. I can just see some woman saying, "wow that's one hot vagina" when I'm pissing, I think I'd deck her! Gay or straight, give compliments at appropriate times and you might find they are received better. A man is not putting himself on display just because he needs to take a leak.
     
  10. Alley Blue

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    That was the word I was looking for "inappropriate"!
    Its like a guy walking up to another guy at a park and saying "I just gotta tell you, you really have a great ass. So big and round".

    Depending on the person, the reponse would either be "what the fu** you doing lookin at my ass" or "your place or mine honey :* :loveya: "
     
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    god that was so incredibly needed! hilarious, i litterally laughed for 5 minutes... haha
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    Why are you so offended by this? They are a) complimenting your size, and B) possibly coming on to you. The comment about tips was implying that if you were a gogo boy you&#39;d make money showing that thing. Why does that offend you?

    If it bothers you so much, don&#39;t show it. Sorry, but it is possible to pee in a urinal while getting close enough to it so that no one can see--especially when you have something like an apron on, which you can hide behind.
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    ok well here it is:
    A.) i know my penis is a decent size, it is freaking attached to me&#33; i dont need someone else to tell me that...
    B.) im not gay, so i would find it kinda offensive to come onto somone in a restroom, cause it wouldnt happen in my world of sexual experience. also, i was at work. how innapropriate can you get? i had to take the man a drink and help bus his table after that. if he were at one of my tables i would have had someone else take the table. how could you make the situation any more awkward? im not a gogo dancer, im a freaking waiter. i dont care about glances, its expected. but its not expected of anyone to start a conversation on my cock when im takin a piss. especially at work.
     
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    Exactly...I guess some guys don&#39;t take that in consideration before they make comments like that...Very inappropriate while you are taking a piss...Don&#39;t have a problem w/someone looking but be discreet and avoid conversations of a sexual nature...
     
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    What I usually do in a situation like this is turn towards the guy making the inapproptiate comment and ask him "why are you making remarks about my dick" all while pissing on his leg. THAT usually takes care of things. :evilgrin:
     
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    nrax-nicely done.....I think there is a role for you to play in resolving some of the government bureauracy&#33;
     
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    dont sweat compliments. ive been asked to be a porn star. it should all be flattering. just consider your penis as a conversational piece.
     
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