A long penis in cowgirl position

[albert2006]

Can any of you clarify my doubts?
My wife reaches orgasm ONLY in cowgirl position grinding her clitoris against my pelvis and being on the lower side in length(5,5 inch) she can take my penis all the way in easily.
My wife isn't a size queen but once admitted that a longer penis works better than a shorter one in some positions( Spooning,reverse cowgirl) and so,i think,her "perfect penis"Is slightly above average in length and thick(She prefers girth over length by far)
Unlike me her ex- husband was really well-endowed expecially in length(about 9 inches)and most times he hurted cervix during intercourse with significant pain.
My wife didn't specify any details(maybe she didn't want to upset me) but once ,talking about him,said that a " having sex with him was really painful and most times i couldn't take his penis all the way in.I enjoyed him only during ovulation days and,i must admit,he made me crazy""In any case,then you get used about It"..
In fact my wife reached orgasm regularly in the same way(grinding her clitoris against pelvis)and so something Is not right..
The question Is for those of you who experienced a long penis (above 8 inches).I don't understand how it's possibile say"the sex with him was painful" and reach orgasm regularly.If she could accomodate aprox 7 inch ,how was possible to grind her clitoris moving back and forth with a 9 inch penis?

 

[LaFemme]

Hmm. Obviously, I can only speak from my own experience. My ex was big. Like your wife says, you get used to it, you learn to accommodate. I orgasmed regularly. But that doesn’t mean that sex couldn’t be painful. Regular sex seemed to help. If we had a break of a week or more, then it would hurt pretty bad. If I wasn’t completely ready, it would hurt. If I didn’t have control over penetration, it would hurt.

But this was the man I loved. I learned to deal with the sex. I wouldn’t have wanted sex with anyone else. His body was the only one I wanted.

If I could pick a penis out of a catalog? I’d choose an average size. But no one chooses a partner that way. You pick the man. His characters, his qualities, the way he makes you feel is what’s important.

 

[TinyPrincess]

1. Ask your wife
2. What @LaFemme said
3. To me the grinding might indicate a wish for a little extra girth (yeah, I know - my go-to position ). Why not simply talk with her - and try a sleeve or something to see if it makes a difference.

 

[Holly Doors]

We're all different in shape and size and what we can accommodate.