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  1. D_Mylor Mentallydaft

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    about how long dose it take for people on here to start warming up tofolks?

    cause its gettin to the point where i can see my breath
     
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    axlx - I know what you mean. It felt like I was perpetually "on the outside looking in" on this site. you'll find that there are some really cool people who will chat about anything. pay someone a compliment and see where it takes you...

    some people, no matter how hard i try to applaud them will continue to ignore me and i've just given up on them.

    and others just come on this site to see their words up on the internet...

    welcome aboard... great pics by the way!
     
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    Well give it some time, join in on some of the ongoing threads that you find interesting, look at some of the social groups and leave a post. Leave a message for someone you feel you may have something in common. It just takes time sometimes.
     
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    Engage people in threads. That's how I started finding pals.
     
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    that and you have a chunk of lumber between your knees..........

    lol
     
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    thank you so much, they worked so hard to make me look good

    and i guess i know what ya mean, i just needed to make sure that was the situation not just me rubbing people the wrong way
     
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    That, "chunk of lumber," got him admirers, not pals. Pals came when he started putting word to page. I'm fortunate to have a ridiculous number of friends here and I'm hung like a hamster so size isn't everything here. Can't say it doesn't hurt though.
     
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    Unless there's some freaky angle-play going on, I'd say you've got as much lumber here as I do :wink:

    :smlove2:
     
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    Fuck off and find out.
     
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    its funny, ya work out to get the girls to want to see your dick, it works and you take your stuff off and your 30 theighs and 24 inch calves make the main attraction look small.... its like god laughing at me.....
     
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    I think the best thing is to join some groups on here so you can meet some people with common interests or send a message to someone whose posting style you like.
    This is a big group with many people with larger than life personalities, it can be hard to get a word in sometimes, but just reach out and people will respond.
     
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    Just keep posting. It took me a few months as well to get to know a couple of people.

    After that, some people messaged me to say they liked my posts.

    You can also send private messages to people who you like to get to know better.
    When they send something back, write back to them etc etc.

    I made some very good friends on here. And it all started with a few simple PMs.
     
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    Anything worthwhile, takes time - all good things come to those who wait.

    Relax and enjoy - it will happen.
     
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    I think we've all been there. I thought no one was talking to me because I had no pix and they all thought I was a fake woman, so I posted a few pix and got plenty of great comments on the pix but no more attention on the fora. It just takes time for people to register a personality from the posts.

    I found my first few pals posting in some of the long running threads in Funny Stuff.
     
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    I'm warm to you!!!
     
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    Too bad he didn't feel welcomed. I miss his contributions. I think he left!
     
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    no sir. had that half ass snow storm and the hail here bout 2 months ago, my office was trashed, i could read everything on my phone but for some reason can't respond.

    thanks for keeping me in mind. gotta love friendly folks
     
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    You have a personality? I need to check out something besides your tits, I guess.
     
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    yeah man........ she got an ass to........
     
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    She has an ass to what?
     
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