Advice Needed Please

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  1. D_Knobby Bare

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    I have been with my girlfriend 4 years now, we dont live together yet so getting the time and space to have full sex is difficult its normally having tio be quiet ot just soft play. My gf is no way as highly sexed as me but she does like to do things ie like she would let me cum anywhere will try anal etc. I have tried to get her into maybe swinging or going on cam and she doesnt want to do that, Im trying to find things we can do to spice up our sexlife? any ideas? thankyou
     
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    Wish I had that much spice. You're a lucky dude.
     
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    i know with that but i crave more lol, shes 27 im 30
     
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    I suppose its like most pleasurable things, if you get it all the time, it gets boring and your need that little bit more to get the kick again.

    Swinging introduces a new element, suppose one of you doesn't like it, what then? I like the fantasy, but not sure about the reality of it.
     
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    yes i like the fantasy to, but just thinking of things we could do in general to spice things up
     
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    Book a hotel room and role play were by you pick her up in a bar (pub, etc) chat her up, bring her back to the hotel and make out when in the lift before falling into the hotel room and getting freaky on the floor (and anywere else ;) )

    Just use your imagination.
     
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    Make love at the beach, being an exhibitionist :rolleyes:
     
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    HEY...on the cam thing...bring laptop to bed...watch some porn...turn on cam....show her the fear is un-warranted...step by step....phone sex is also very hot...can be a foreplay event an hour before you meet for fun....i have been married for 30 yrs...dude we all need the extra help...me i love dirty talk during sex...REAL DIRTY...enjoy
     
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    you get alot anyway but if she doenst wanna do certain things dont force it on her.
     
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    no we dont live together so dont get it alot at all. Just want different things we could do, wats the best cam site were you dont have to pay?
     
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    If you both have yahoo messenger and webcams then you can do it free that way.
     
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    yes but i mean a site were we can go on and others watch we used swingingheaven but have to pay
     
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    try CAM4....many lpsg members play there...a fun place to hang ...the GERMANS...so kinky you will laugh your ass off...and becareful...could have a lube shortage at your house......lol....if that happens...cheaplubes .com....keeps me out of poorhouse
     
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    lol why a shortage of lube
     
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    dude...i use that place for personal enjoyment...which can involve me jacking/edging for long sessions....also wife and i enjoy mutual stroking.....thus CHEAPLUBES.COM
     
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