advice on bjs

[celtic12]

for personal reasons I'm thinking of changing my sexual preference when trying to deep throat how do I get past this gaging thing I only tried once need to try again to be sure of myself and if this is what I really want?

 

[AlteredEgo]

Every blowjob doesn't have to be deep. Flavored lube is a great way for a beginner to deep throat though. Think about it. Would you try to cram a dick into any other tight space without lubung it up first? I think not. Stick your tongue all the way out. Do not attempt to breathe. If you have the head right at your throat and it is stuck, twist your head from side to side until it pops in. Take a moment to adjust to how weird it feels to have your airway completely obstructed. Push deeper. If you feel like gagging, but can still hold your breath, masturbate. Even if you cannot deep throat, you can still enjoy giving fantastic head. Watch his reactions. That will tell you what to do.

 

[celtic12]

thank you for your advice I hope it brings me comfort when I need it!

 

[AlteredEgo]

Sex should be fun. I hope you have a good time playing whether you find it is for you or not.

 

[celtic12]

thanks again if it's not for me i'll know you can't even be a failure if you don't try!

 

[Betty_Cocker]

AE gave you some good advice .. I've used something called "deep throat spray" it comes in mint an chocolate mint flavors. It acts as an anesthetic. I have found I can take much more using it without gagging.

try it. you might find it helpful

oh.. and no it doesn't take away from the total sensation of the blow job. (I find it enhances it.)

 

[celtic12]

thank you by the way you have really nice legs luv em!

 

[celtic12]

where can I get this spray from

 

[celtic12]

I've had some really good bjs from women and 2x wives to shy to ask them thanks for any advice!

 

[Betty_Cocker]

I buy it at Spencer's..but you can get it online (I'll find a link)

 

[celtic12]

thank you very much

 

[Betty_Cocker]

here is one link. you can google "deep throat spray" and just check it all out

Spearmint Comfortably Numb Deep Throat Spray 1 FL Oz | eBay

 

[AlteredEgo]

Have you asked the gay and bisexual men for advice I this subject t too, celtic?

 

[celtic12]

yes I asked one guy he told me it takes a lot of practice

 

[Betty_Cocker]

Might consider posing this question in those forums, too. (Pretty sure that's where AE was going with that question. )

 

[AlteredEgo]

Might consider posing this question in those forums, too. (Pretty sure that's where AE was going with that question. )

Yes. That was my drift.