Age

[CuriousK]

Does age mather for attrection? are there woman here that can say they can find a man at least 10 years younger still atrractive? and who have had sex with someone that much younger? Or older....

 

[AlteredEgo]

I used to fuck a guy 10 or 11 years younger. He was so much fun. We'd hang out and laugh, even gossip a little, fuck each other into drooling stupidity, hydrate, droOlinger stupidity, and then part ways. Once or twice a week for a year. He was so, so pretty. So pretty. I was surprised how knowledgeable and skillful he was. Fast forward to now. He's happily married, and I'm happily taken. We sometimes chit chat through Facebook. We now have conversations that are much less shallow. And you know what? I don't like him. LOL He's about a decade behind in thinking things through. If I were his age, I might also be. However, I'm not, and I really don't like him as a man. Like...at all.

When he first approached me I told him I didn't think what he suggested was appropriate. He (rightfully) a cued me of ageism and said I should at least have a conversation with him and allow him a chance to win me over. He was adorable, and since all I wanted from him was sex I didn't look too deeply. Now I just need a polite way to tell him we don't need to stay in touch. Ignoring him hasn't quite worked so far.

Five to ten years older, and the dudes are basically okay. I mean the friendships are legit, the sex is fantastic as a result, and they don't have a lot of trouble with sticking with just casual if we agree upon that in the beginning.

Fifteen or more years older, and they think I have Daddy issues. They seem to think I'm looking for some paternal affection and direction. I'm not. I hate being treated like a child. I do like the uninhibited sex though.

 

[918177]

There are some younger men with maturity and there are older men with no maturity.

Every now and again you find a younger man (or even an older man)
who has been put through the crucible of life and come out
the other side a tempered blade.
No PTSD, no bitterness, no baggage, totally free of artifice - just rock solid, deep down character.
Those guys are gems without price.

For the rest younger guys annoy the fuck out of me.
They're dumb, they have no life experience and
I simply have nothing in common with them.
I need more than a hungry dick and a firm body and I've done
my stint as sexual school ma'am and I'm now officially retired.

 

[CarlaM]

I have been with a lover who is >10 years younger than me. He's one of the most attractive men I've ever seen and a very passionate lover. I would describe our lovemaking like what Ms. AlteredEgo described. Very joyous and just amazing. It does help that he's very mature. I can't believe someone his own age hasn't locked him down in marriage yet. That generation of women is truly letting a good one slip away!

 

[693987]

From a recent thread about the exact same thing. Copy/paste of the pertinent shit.

When I was 19 I had a partner who was 33. When I was in my early 20s I had a partner in his late 40s. The latter, it was primarily a BDSM-based relationship. The former, we were fuck buddies. He remains to this day one of the top 3 lovers I've ever had.

I forgot to mention that it's incredibly unlikely I would go younger than myself. I'm not saying it's impossible, just not very prone to happening. Given my lifestyle, personality, etc preferences it would probably not happen.

And to elaborate on people older than myself, I tend to stay within a ten year age range of my own.

I mean, I'm not looking anyway, but as far as in the past, it's very rare for me to find someone younger than myself of interest/compatible. As far as currently, while we're 4 months apart, Remington and I are both the same age.

Original thread:

https://www.lpsg.com/threads/age-gap-between-partners.453110/

 

[LaFemme]

From a recent thread about the exact same thing. Copy/paste of the pertinent shit.

When I was 19 I had a partner who was 33. When I was in my early 20s I had a partner in his late 40s. The latter, it was primarily a BDSM-based relationship. The former, we were fuck buddies. He remains to this day one of the top 3 lovers I've ever had.

I forgot to mention that it's incredibly unlikely I would go younger than myself. I'm not saying it's impossible, just not very prone to happening. Given my lifestyle, personality, etc preferences it would probably not happen.

And to elaborate on people older than myself, I tend to stay within a ten year age range of my own.

I mean, I'm not looking anyway, but as far as in the past, it's very rare for me to find someone younger than myself of interest/compatible. As far as currently, while we're 4 months apart, Remington and I are both the same age.

Original thread:

https://www.lpsg.com/threads/age-gap-between-partners.453110/

See my answer in the above thread.

 

[nailz]

Most of the sex I've had with guys under 30 has been pretty awful. I don't even mean "not quite as experienced" or "not quite as good", but more like a complete disaster Like passing out drunk, lasting 5 seconds, "accidentally" ramming it in my butt, sales pitches on why they can't use condoms, being rough in a totally unsexy way, etc. Usually they're focused on themselves and getting off as quickly as possible while ticking off as many things on their sex checklists as possible.
They haven't even given me one orgasm but they want me to do all these kinky things for them

I know I'm really generalizing here and there are exceptions, but a guy under 30 would have to totally radiate maturity and attentiveness for me to be remotely interested.

 

[Mercurygirl]

At this stage of my life, mid 20's, I wouldn't date a man more than a couple of years younger than me. As far as older men it would depend a lot on how healthy he was. Some guys in their 40's and 50's are in better shape than men much younger than them. I wouldn't be opposed to dating a guy much older than me if he was active and healthy, that is, in combination with other important qualities such as personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc..

 

[EllieP]

I've never been into younger men, sorry, guys. The biggest age difference where I was older was by three years. It was fine while it lasted. I never went looking for younger though. Now older? Oh yeah.

 

[rtg]

Does age mather for attrection? are there woman here that can say they can find a man at least 10 years younger still atrractive? and who have had sex with someone that much younger? Or older....

Pretty sure I fucked a guy 10 years younger a year ago (he lied about his age..thought he was older). It was shit cos he was only 18 and small haha. But if it was with someone who knew what they were doing, weren't selfish and were hung; then no issues. I also fucked a really hung guy last year who was 10 years older than me. I thought he was a douche so there was not too much pleasure in it... I was moreso just fascinated by his monster cock.

 

[C41ara]

I'm 23, so is not easy feel attracted to men much younger than me, a couple of years is ok, but otherwise they don't look like men. Older men is another thing, but my range could be 15 years i think, not too older, i don't see myself right now with a 40 years old man.

But maybe i need to separate real attraction to sexual desire. A real attraction, more general attraction, i think hasn't any age difference issue.

 

[Betty_Cocker]

When I was playing around age was not a factor. Maturity was. I had some guys that were as much as 30 years younger... Don't judge! They knew my age. They were mentally and emotionally much more mature that their 20- something age. And it was purely physical. I never looked for someone my age. Always younger by at least 10 years.

Would I want a LTR with someone that much younger! Unequivocally no!

 

[AlteredEgo]

I have spent most of the last 27 years taking care of adults. I have the mixed blessing right now of no more adults to take care of. I do find older men attractive, but if I were single, I wouldn't allow for too much attachment to a man more than a few years older so that he doesn't become one more in a long list of adults I'll have had to provide care for in my life. I'm really tired of the caretaker role. As it is, I know I'll feel compelled to look after my future in-laws if I can. They're good people, gave the world a good man, and sacrifice so much for family. They deserve the best golden years.

 

[1031939]

Does age mather for attrection? are there woman here that can say they can find a man at least 10 years younger still atrractive? and who have had sex with someone that much younger? Or older....

Well I am 32 so someone 10years younger is a safe age to look at and think he's hot. But assuming I wasnt very married I might give someone a thorough looking over and if single I would be willing to sleep with someone that much younger if they could handle the fact that I was that much older. However I tend to not like the idea of just being a random encounter so anyone that I would have hooked up in the single scenario, I would hope, would be willing to make me not so single.