I'm not sure if there is already a thread on this or not. Was curious if any other well equiped men suffer from this: I grew up that chubby kid who did not do much towards excercise. In my early 20's I went on a fitness kick, and have been trimed, tight and toned now for the last 12 years. When I was heavy, the only time I ever got any physical attention from people, was if they saw or heard about the size of my dick. After the wieght loss, I noticed I got a lot of heads turning at me now, noticing the whole body, when clothed. But as soon as I get naked with someone, and they see my dick, it's like the rest of me becomes invisable. And then thats all they care about touching. I'm not saying the attention I get with my dick is bad, but the rest of my body starts feeling very rejected again, like when I was heavy. I'm only in my early 30's now, but starting to get bored with sex. I always pay attention to the persons whole body whom I am with. The last few times I have been with someone, I fight very hard to just make out with clothes on now. I guess in a way to force the other person to notice my whole body. Hoping that eventually I will share with them about my endowment. Does anyone else suffer from this? How do you deal with it? I really need advice. Thank you.