Am I actually… gay? Lol

[Winniethebear]

I have been trying to get into using dildos and anal stimulation as it has been a while since I last had sex and I figured maybe this was a way to keep myself preoccupied besides just always jerking off. However, as many times as I have tried over the years to get into fingering myself, using a dildo or a vibrating butt plug I still have not managed to get any pleasure out of it. It always just feels like a pressure when I stick anything in there but even when I try to wiggle things around and hopefully bump into my prostate, nothing happens. I always stay flaccid and sometimes I cant even get hard while doing it. I have only ever bottomed before but it’s really only happened once and if I’m being honest it didn’t do much for me either even with the real thing inside me. I’m really confused because so many people talk about anal and how good it feels but I feel like i’m missing something. PLEASE HELP. Also i’m def gay but I fantasize about bottoming so it’s just shocking that once I finally do it it does nothing to arouse me

 

[theplayerking]

I have been trying to get into using dildos and anal stimulation as it has been a while since I last had sex and I figured maybe this was a way to keep myself preoccupied besides just always jerking off. However, as many times as I have tried over the years to get into fingering myself, using a dildo or a vibrating butt plug I still have not managed to get any pleasure out of it. It always just feels like a pressure when I stick anything in there but even when I try to wiggle things around and hopefully bump into my prostate, nothing happens. I always stay flaccid and sometimes I cant even get hard while doing it. I have only ever bottomed before but it’s really only happened once and if I’m being honest it didn’t do much for me either even with the real thing inside me. I’m really confused because so many people talk about anal and how good it feels but I feel like i’m missing something. PLEASE HELP. Also i’m def gay but I fantasize about bottoming so it’s just shocking that once I finally do it it does nothing to arouse me

For me, 80 percent of the pleasure of getting fucked is psychological rather than physical. I use butt plugs for training purposes but not to get off. I need a real dick inside me for that.