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So, a week or so ago, I bottomed for my FWB (wrapped). He's about 7 cut and thick. I had never bottomed before, but wanted for some reason to try it, so I did. Let's just say that things are still not normal back there yet. "Things" are not coming out normally, as they did before I bottomed for this guy. I'm wondering how long it takes for things to return to normal and if there is anything that I can do to aid in the process of returning to normalcy?

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I'm not 100% sure what you mean about things not returning to normalcy, but I'm assuming you don't mean bleeding, because if you'd been finding blood in the toilet, I would expect you would have long since gone to the doctor.

Frankly, things should to back to normal pretty fast. If you've had diarrhoea, cramping, or anything else for a week now, I'd suggest it's probably not because of anal, and that you should see a doctor. If you're talking about a chapped butthole, maybe try rubbing some polysporin on it (on the outside, obviously) and use more lube next time. And still see your doctor.
 

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You should be back to normal the next morning. Maybe a bit of discomfort if it was your first time but that's about it. If you're experiencing diarrhea and it's more than a day it's something more that anal sex. You might have an allergy to the lube your used OR the condom. Get checked.
 

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I get fucked a lot and LOVE IT. You should be back to normal the next day. After I get fucked, I enjoy the feeling of the fullness and having my hole stretched. I hope the guy was gentle with you and went slow and did not just pound away. Try astroglide the next time and change the type of condom you used. I always put Neosporin or polysporin on my hole after I get fucked. If you have hemroids then there may have been some blood and still hurt. If that is the case - go to the Dr. Your hole is very elastic and will stretch. You just have to get used to that full feeling when getting fucked and by all means have the guy be gentle at the start. Slide in little at a time and let you get used to the feel and allow your hole to get used to the size, he needs to slide in a little at a time, pull out slowly, and slide in slowly again and again. Once everything gets limber and loosened up he can pick up speed. I hope since this was your first time, the guy fingered you with lots of lube and played with your hole a lot before he shoved that 7 incher in. You need a lot of finger play with lube before you start the first few times. Have him start with one finger, then two then three slowly , Once he can get in 2 or 3 fingers and get you loosened up and really lubed up, your ready for his cock. You have to take things slow. No slam bam than you mam for your first time. Hope this helps.
Once you get used to it - you can open your hole like your taking a dump as he slides in, then clamp down as he pulls out, This will give you the chance to milk his cock and drive him crazy and give you a great feeling down there. If his cock can hit your prostate as he goes in - you can actually cum without touching yourself. I actually prefer a rock hard cock that is only about 5 or 6 inches long- Hits my prostate every time
 

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Basically, it's been very hard to poop since getting fucked. Since that point, it has been soft too. I'm wondering if I am allergic to the lube...
 

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dude...ever thought that your innards may be all swollen up? Try taking an anti-inflammatory drug (advil prob. the best) for a few days and see if things get better
 

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dude...ever thought that your innards may be all swollen up? Try taking an anti-inflammatory drug (advil prob. the best) for a few days and see if things get better

I bet that's what it is. That's what it feels like. Off to get Advil now.
 

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Sometimes too much lube can make things feel weird the next day. In a case like that, it really shouldn't last for more than a few hours or the next morning. It may just be your body reacting to this since you haven't done it before. I hope you enjoyed it either way.