Anatomy question

[chiseledblackmale]

Ok may be a stupid question as I am not an expert in female body. I recently spent time with a petite woman. We have been messing around with oral, handjobs, etc. When eating her pussy and fingering her, I feel she is unusually small, soaking wet so I know she is aroused and has orgasms but feels like her vagina is surrounded by bone. So not like she would stretch to accommodate. We have not tried intercourse yet but I am certain it would not work. I think she is fairly limited in her experience. Is there something I should recommend she get checked out for? My best guess is she has narrow pubic bones? Maybe nothing wrong but just won’t accommodate some men?

 

[AllieHeidi]

I think she is fairly limited in her experience.

Based on...?

 

[chiseledblackmale]

Based on...?

Based on her telling me that. I take her on her word.

 

[AllieHeidi]

Based on her telling me that. I take her on her word.

Okay. Most women 21+ have had (or should have had) a pelvic exam. Maybe ask her how that went for her and if they had "challenges" with the procedure.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Ok. Anatomy is a big part of my day to day work.

The vagina is indeed surrounded by bone.

The pelvis has foramen, which are openings, and the word is used body wide.

In this picture, we are viewing from slightly above.
The foramen has muscle, ligaments, tendons and the vagina and rectum.
It’s a busy place!

If the connective tissue (ligaments, tendons) and musculature are rigid, there’s going to be a sensation of not a lot of room.

 

[SubbySlutForBigDick]

Okay. Most women 21+ have had (or should have had) a pelvic exam. Maybe ask her how that went for her and if they had "challenges" with the procedure.

That must be an American thing as I most definitely have never had a pelvic exam nor heard of such a thing

 

[AllieHeidi]

That must be an American thing as I most definitely have never had a pelvic exam nor heard of such a thing

I'm not sure about other countries, but the ACOG (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists) has always recommended it.

In 2014 the American College of Physicians — an influential group of internal medicine specialists — issued a recommendation against routine pelvic examinations for women who aren't pregnant and have no unusual risk for or symptoms of pelvic diseases. However, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) has stood by its longstanding policy recommendation — annual pelvic exams for women ages 21 and older — based on expert opinion. In March 2017, the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force — the pre-eminent medical guidelines organization — ruled that there is insufficient evidence to recommend either for or against annual screenings.

Source(s): Should you have an annual pelvic exam? - Harvard Health

 

[chiseledblackmale]

Ok. Anatomy is a big part of my day to day work.

The vagina is indeed surrounded by bone.

The pelvis has foramen, which are openings, and the word is used body wide.

In this picture, we are viewing from slightly above.
The foramen has muscle, ligaments, tendons and the vagina and rectum.
It’s a busy place!

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If the connective tissue (ligaments, tendons) and musculature are rigid, there’s going to be a sensation of not a lot of room.

Very helpful.

 

[chiseledblackmale]

Okay. Most women 21+ have had (or should have had) a pelvic exam. Maybe ask her how that went for her and if they had "challenges" with the procedure.

Ok - need for find a way to not make her self conscious as we don’t know each other that well yet

 

[Scarletbegonia]

That must be an American thing as I most definitely have never had a pelvic exam nor heard of such a thing

You have never had a Pap smear/cancer screening?

 

[SubbySlutForBigDick]

You have never had a Pap smear/cancer screening?

I do have a pap smear but not a pelvic exam as to ke they are both different ie pelvic to me is checking the bones not the cervix

 

[KayleynScott]

I'm not sure about other countries, but the ACOG (American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists) has always recommended it.




Source(s): Should you have an annual pelvic exam? - Harvard Health

Key words from the article “has been routine for decades, but recently its benefits have been called into question.”

It’s because doctors have been using this excuse to basically sexually abuse very young girls. It’s been in the news a lot over the last 10 years where even the doctor for US gymnastics women’s participation required that as part of their physicals as early as age 10 WITHOUT parental oversight! More and more doctors have been let go by colleges across the country for the same thing but trying to brush it under the rug to save face and keep donations and enrollment up.

 

[AllieHeidi]

Key words from the article “has been routine for decades, but recently its benefits have been called into question.”

It’s because doctors have been using this excuse to basically sexually abuse very young girls. It’s been in the news a lot over the last 10 years where even the doctor for US gymnastics women’s participation required that as part of their physicals as early as age 10 WITHOUT parental oversight! More and more doctors have been let go by colleges across the country for the same thing but trying to brush it under the rug to save face and keep donations and enrollment up.

This is why I have never, and will never, have a male gynecologist. I honestly never understood why male doctors chose that specialty in the first place. My grandmother was an OB-GYN RN and told me that a lot of the male OBs stated they chose the specialty because they enjoyed the OB portion (delivering babies). Even with that, even she never had a male gyno and advised her daughters and me to stick with females, also.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Just have to say... The doctor who advocated for me and genuinely listened to me when I needed a hysterectomy at a fairly young age was a man.

He found a woman who could perform the procedure and genuinely listened to me. Never once making me feel victimized or unheard.

I'm not dismissing or minimizing the experience others have absolutely had. But good doctors exist regardless of gender.

I truly wish everyone could feel as helped as I was by that human. He's a good ape. Bonobo fo sho yo

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I do have a pap smear but not a pelvic exam as to ke they are both different ie pelvic to me is checking the bones not the cervix

Which is encased in the pelvis.