Anonymous Grindr chat with a friend

[97DS]

Hi guys, really need some advice. I am a 26 yo guy and I have known one of my best gay friends since I was 18. From both sides it never has been any sexual, we are platonic friends, even though we both know that he is top and I am bottom.

However, a few weeks ago out of nothing I had a sex dream about him and ever since then he turns me on like crazy. Of course I didnt tell him because I dont want this to get between us or something.

Last Friday I was horny about him AGAIN and decided to make an anonymous Grindr account and talk to him. He has a faceless profile but based on stats and location I knew it had to be him. We had a nice chat and after a while I sent him an ass pic. The thought of showing off to my friend without him knowing it was me turned me on like crazy haha. His response was hot (he kinda worshipped my ass) and sent me a pic of his dick. It was HUGE and HOT. Haha. We had some hot chats, I refused to sent a face pic because i said i am discrete and he didnt sent one of him either. So there we are now… what the fuck should I do?!! Haha… of course it is bad to have this anonymous chat, but I dont want him to find out its me AND the ‘bad’ vibe of doing this somehow turns me on. I want his dick but at the same time think I should stop this. I just dont know lol. Any advice???

 

[theplayerking]

Ditch the app. It’s too creepy to stalk a friend anonymously. If you want to take it to the next level, do it the old fashioned way: have a couple of drinks, start talking about sex, if he looks in to your eyes a few seconds longer than usual, lean in for a kiss.

 

[Overdbus]

Hi guys, really need some advice. I am a 26 yo guy and I have known one of my best gay friends since I was 18. From both sides it never has been any sexual, we are platonic friends, even though we both know that he is top and I am bottom.

However, a few weeks ago out of nothing I had a sex dream about him and ever since then he turns me on like crazy. Of course I didnt tell him because I dont want this to get between us or something.

Last Friday I was horny about him AGAIN and decided to make an anonymous Grindr account and talk to him. He has a faceless profile but based on stats and location I knew it had to be him. We had a nice chat and after a while I sent him an ass pic. The thought of showing off to my friend without him knowing it was me turned me on like crazy haha. His response was hot (he kinda worshipped my ass) and sent me a pic of his dick. It was HUGE and HOT. Haha. We had some hot chats, I refused to sent a face pic because i said i am discrete and he didnt sent one of him either. So there we are now… what the fuck should I do?!! Haha… of course it is bad to have this anonymous chat, but I dont want him to find out its me AND the ‘bad’ vibe of doing this somehow turns me on. I want his dick but at the same time think I should stop this. I just dont know lol. Any advice???

Show him your phone

 

[97DS]

Show him your phone

Why??

Havent talked to him since Monday, but the need is growing again haha

 

[LilBigWang]

i would just send him a face pic and let him decide if he wants to tell you its him or not. Its the least you can so since you baited him...

 

[DutchGay120]

Hi guys, really need some advice. I am a 26 yo guy and I have known one of my best gay friends since I was 18. From both sides it never has been any sexual, we are platonic friends, even though we both know that he is top and I am bottom.

However, a few weeks ago out of nothing I had a sex dream about him and ever since then he turns me on like crazy. Of course I didnt tell him because I dont want this to get between us or something.

Last Friday I was horny about him AGAIN and decided to make an anonymous Grindr account and talk to him. He has a faceless profile but based on stats and location I knew it had to be him. We had a nice chat and after a while I sent him an ass pic. The thought of showing off to my friend without him knowing it was me turned me on like crazy haha. His response was hot (he kinda worshipped my ass) and sent me a pic of his dick. It was HUGE and HOT. Haha. We had some hot chats, I refused to sent a face pic because i said i am discrete and he didnt sent one of him either. So there we are now… what the fuck should I do?!! Haha… of course it is bad to have this anonymous chat, but I dont want him to find out its me AND the ‘bad’ vibe of doing this somehow turns me on. I want his dick but at the same time think I should stop this. I just dont know lol. Any advice???

I think there are 4 options:
1. Be honest to him about it. Maybe you will become fwb, maybe he gets mad and you've ruined your friendship.
2. Stop and never think or talk about it again.
3. Keep going like this. Contact will probably die soon since you dont send face.
4. If you are good at acting/pretending: Continue the conversation and agree to send a picture but keep it discrete. Then send a picture of yourself and act like you are as surprised as him about it. It will either be awkward or you're going to have sex.

There is the possibility that he thinks the same as you. That he finds you hot and wants to have sex, but is afraid you wouldn't want that and it will ruin the friendship.

 

[97DS]

Thanks for now i stick with the 3rd, because of the excitement and because those dick pics make me hungry lol

 

[coklvr83]

If he DOES send a face pic. Reply with something along the lines of “I do want you to know that we know each other. I would be down for friends with benefits, but I don’t want it to destroy our friendship” and see what he says.

 

[coklvr83]

Thanks for now i stick with the 3rd, because of the excitement and because those dick pics make me hungry lol

Problem with this option is that it’s going to make you want his dick, and it may never materialize. You need to just have coffee or a drink and bring up sex to see you have a chance.

 

[deleted1360704]

Sounds like you two could be friends or fwb on the side but anyway good luck

 

[ILoveGames48]

I quit using Grindr .. because I went to meet one guy one time and things about him he lied about so I left..

Few weeks later I get a message and we talk and we arrange to meet .. all gonna do was sit in car and suck each other off ..

We met at the place he wanted to meet .. it was him again.. and I told him he lied about everything especially couple things and one time going to meet someone and they are goi g to beat his ass..

I deleted my account created a. New one and this guy sends me a message and we chat and it was him.. apologizing for lying and all he was wanting to do was have his first blowjob ..
We talked and he was open and honest this time but I deleted Grindr and said wasn’t going to use it again

 

[dreamer20]

I'm 26. My friend's a top, I a bottom. A few weeks ago a sex dream about him turned me on. Of course I didn't tell him because I dont want this to get between us or something. Last Friday I made an anonymous Grindr account to talk to him. I sent him an ass pic..him not knowing it was me turned me on like crazy. His response was hot and he sent a dick pic..was HUGE and HOT. Haha. We had hot chats..I said I'm discrete and he didnt send a face pic either..what should I do?..the ‘bad’ vibe of anonymous chat turns me on but at the same time think I should stop it..I want his dick.. Any advice???

Tell him you want to talk to him privately about something important. When you do, tell him you dream about him, that he turns you on and ask if he's interested in having sex with you. You've known him for 8 years and you are compatible. Hesitate no longer and see if you can make your dream a reality.

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