my first gay experience - hookup with a guy i met on grindr

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just felt like sharing this story, also wanted to hear any tips for future grindr hookups since i haven’t had any since this one. would love to hear about your first time or grindr experiences as well.
Okay to start the story. i had always struggled with my sexual identity and was feeling very strongly attracted to men in a physical way. i had a growing desire for a sexual encounter with a man, but i wasnt out of the closet yet, so i downloaded grindr. i had one faceless photo on my profile of my shirtless torso, and i was having trouble finding other guys to talk to. I started chatting a guy who was 7 years older than me and had a blank profile and then we exchanged snapchats and started talking there. i told him what i was looking for, just giving each other head, and we agreed to meet late one night since i still lived with my parents and had to sneak out. He drove to my house, parked down the street, and i snuck out to his car where we would hookup and we found a secluded area where no one would see. I sat in his car and and we didnt talk much, i felt so nervous i actually told him i couldn’t go through with it and i walked back to my house. he hung around tho and we kept texting, and i eventually felt good to follow through so i went back to his car. we just sat for a little bit and didnt talk much, but then we started making out and he was rubbing my thigh. he asked if i would take off my shorts, so i did, and he started sucking. it was the best feeling ever. he then took his head up and pulled his pants down, so i took the cue to get to work on his cock. i started sucking it, it tasted so good and was pushing hard on the back of my throat. we then went back and forth for a while until while i was sucking him he asked if i spit or swallow, i said swallow of course, and a couple minutes later he busted a huge load in the back of my throat and i sucked up every last drop. this was the moment i dreamed of. i then sat up and continued to jerk myself until i exploded all over his car, but he never offered to help me cum or anything which was kind of annoying. after talking a bit more, i got out of his car and we never talked much again.
So that was my first experience with a man. definitely exciting but could have been better. please share your experiences! ;)
 
Congrats on your first time!

Yeah it can be annoying when the action and pleasure is sometimes one-sided. Sexual experiences can be like that. If there's one thing about sexual experiences is that they are varied. There can be horrible sex, average sex, sex that's good but for some issues and amazing sex that rocks your world. Over time you will learn more about yourself. What you like, what you dont. What turns you on and off.

Also, don't be afraid to communicate when hooking up. Talk with them before and during about what you want them to do or what you want to do. Of course people may not always oblige on certain things and and that's their choice. But its also your choice to pick and choose your partners who match what you want to do and vice versa. Once you know your wants and boundaries and you communicate them respectful, you'll be well on your way.

So have fun! Keep exploring and discovering and learning as you go. Just remember to be careful, stay safe and protect yourself.
 
I don't use Grindr a lot because of all the weirdos and freaks and I was always clear what I wanted out of it but after several attempts I did have the most insane unbelievable screaming orgasms of my life in Vegas a few years ago while smoking weed and then the fucker wouldn't stop sucking it after as I was shaking and starting to see spots. Can't even describe what that was like. It was almost like an out of body experience

Yeah if you can actually wade through the nonsense there are some amazing guys on there but it's just a lot of work sometimes. I've had other dudes who couldn't make me cum at all and proceeded to block me

I don't even keep the app installed full time because yeah sometimes it's just not worth it