For most guys, learning to suck a small dick is pretty intuitive. But if you want to go for the really big dicks, it is going to take some training. I wrote about this in my little blog I keep. I thought you might want to see how I go about training someone to suck a big dick.
I had a guy contact me and asked if I would be willing to give him lessons on how to deep throat big dicks. He had seen some photos of me online and thought I would definitely be a challenge for him. John is in a relationship with a guy who I have also never met. Their relationship is only kinda open. If John wants to mess around with another guy, he has to ask his BF's permission. I guess they talked about John improving his oral skills and his boyfriend gave him permission to find a deep throat instructor. John thought I would be the perfect choice. If he could learn to deep throat my dick, he could certainly deep throat his partners dick.
The evaluation — I asked John a few questions. Could he deep throat his boyfriend (no). How big is his boyfriend (about 7”). How was his gag reflex. (he can’t take anything down his throat without gaging). It seemed like a fun adventure and John seemed like a nice guy. And after all, it is training to ultimately help their sex life. So I agreed to be John’s deep throat instructor.
Requiring trust — I had a few conditions. I wanted John to leave his door unlocked and be face down butt naked on the bed when I came over. Training a guy to deep throat requires that they have complete trust in you. This is one way to instill that trust in them. If they are willing to leave their door open and be bare ass naked face down on the bed for someone they had never met, there is a good chance they will be willing to trust the instructor and do what is asked.
Anticipation — I go over to their condo, and the door is unlocked just like I asked him to. I walked in without knocking and wandered around his condo. I found him butt naked in the bedroom lying on his bed with his face down in the pillow and blindfolded. I didn’t want him to see my dick. I wanted him to do this all just on feel and trust. So I whispered in his ear a reminder for him to not peek. Then I took all my clothes off and just dragged my dick on his back and down his very firm ass. John has a beautiful tight body. Not an ounce of fat on him. Smooth white almost translucent skin, no tan line, blonde hair, I would guess about 5’6”. And damn, that ass of his.
I still wouldn't let him touch my cock or look at me. Then I went in and took a shower, just leaving him there to think about what just happened and to make him want more. The longer the anticipation, the more hungry for cock you make them
I came back out and laid on top of him still dripping wet from the shower. I whisper in his ear, asking him if he can feel my big cock sliding up and down his smooth firm ass. He was almost whimpering. He wanted to touch my dick so bad. But I wouldn't let him. I turned him over and dragged my dick across his lips. He tried to grab it, but I held his hands down over his head and just touched the very end of my dick on his lips. He lifts his head up as high as he can to try and capture more of my cock. Slowly I let him take about 4 inches in his mouth. It was so hot watching him be so hungry for dick. He was so turned on. His dick was rock hard and he hadn't even touched it. This whole time, the blindfold is still on him. So he still has no real idea what he is about to swallow. It is all about feel.
We begin — I took my dick out of his mouth and whispered in his ear asking if he was ready for the rest of my big dick. He was so excited. At this point he really wanted to feel any cock down his throat. I am still holding his hands above his head and I slowly lower my dick again into his eager mouth. This time testing just how much he can take. I need a baseline to know exactly where that gag reflex is kicking in. Just at the back of his throat he gags a little, I pull back enough for him to catch his breath before pushing deeper down his throat. I am pretty good at telling when a guy can take more or if they are about to gag. So each time I just push a little deeper, telling him what a good boy he is and how good he is doing. He has to have complete trust in me so he can relax enough to take more down his throat. In the end the most he could take was about an inch of my cock down his throat. Not bad for our first lesson. It’s a start. And about an inch more than he could take before the lesson started.
The reward — After that, I had him put both hands on my dick so he could feel how massive that dick is and the work ahead of him. I finally let him take the blindfolds off and we ended up sucking each other off. That was our first lesson. You have to want that dick down your throat really bad.
Over the next couple of weeks, I would go to his condo and give him another lesson. I would have him do various deep throating exercises like me lying on my back and him lowering his mouth down on my dick, trying to go deeper with each attempt. I would put my hand around my dick at various levels and told him his lips had to touch my hand before he could go on. Each time he did a little better. He got to the point where he did manage to control his gag reflex. By the time we were through he could take about 8” of my dick which was more than enough needed for him to deep throat his boyfriends 7” cock.
The Results — I got a really nice email from his boyfriend thanking me. (You gotta love a thank you email from a guy who has been sending his boyfriend for deep throat school.) He wrote that John can now give him an amazing blow job and loves feeling it down his throat. It is like they got a new lease on their sex life. And he added that he will always be in my debt for making that happen.
The Epilogue — I did see John a couple of years later. He was in town on business and we met at his hotel. He told me his deep throating skills have only improved. I was wondering if he was going to see if he could finally take my whole cock down his throat, but he didn’t offer. Knowing their playing with other guys rules, I suspect he hadn’t cleared that with his boyfriend. I do still get the occasional email from him. So who knows, perhaps one day he will be ready for the Masters Degree. Anyone else want to sign up for lessons?
