Any new massage stories?

[kcdave]

Thanks for the nice comments about my writing. Would be glad to chat with you about Kansas City restaurants and the vibe in the city. Feel free to private message me.

 

[Adrimollers]

To preface, I am not generally looking for a happy ending. I like a good, therapeutic massage, with a bit of attention to my glutes, maybe the occasional brush against my balls etc.
So I was visiting a new city and found a masseur that offered a sensual massage or sports massage. I booked the sports massage.
His website and instagram gave a bit of mixed messages. It mentioned the sensual massage, but also had an FAQ that said, yes it’s fine to get an erection, but don’t take it any further, it is still a massage. It was clear from his insta that he liked working on glutes.
He was very friendly on arrival, and left the room while I got undressed, but then came back before I was fully undressed and stayed there while I took off my underwear. He didn’t offer any draping.
He said he would work on my back for a while and then offer the option to switch to front or continue on the back.
Massage was good, some deep tissue work and lots of long flowing strokes, sometimes spreading the cheeks of my ass.
After a while he asked if I wanted to turn over. I said he could continue on my back. He asked if I wanted him to focus on back or legs. I said back and glutes. That is when it all took off.
He put oil on my back, but then spread my ass cheeks wide apart. He vigorously massaged my glutes, and then I felt him hold my cheeks apart and drop oil directly onto my anus. I thought, ok, that’s nice, but I presume he is not going to finger me or anything like that. I had thought about this in advance and hadn’t wanted anything that intimate on the first appointment.
So he continued working my glutes, his hands and fingers now moving over my anus.
It felt so good.
Then he pushed against my anus and then his finger was inside me. As I said, at the outset, I definitely wouldn’t have wanted that and if he has asked me before, I would have said no. But when he did it, it felt amazing. It was like the thing I didn’t know I needed until it happened. He pushed deeper inside me and it felt so right. Deeply pleasurable.
After that my brain found it very hard to keep up with what was happening. I love having my balls touched so I raised myself up on the table to give him access. But that opened up my ass more and next thing I knew he had two fingers inside me. That was a real stretch for me. Then he was pushing them in and out of me, like he was fucking me with his fingers. He was really going at me hard. Then I felt him spread his fingers inside me, and I don’t know if he put a third in. At this stage, I just wanted it to be over. For some strange reason it never entered my head just to say stop. Instead I thought, if I cum, he will stop. Soon, between double fingering, caressing my balls and stroking my cock, I came.
I was on top of the table on all fours for about 5 minutes afterwards, trying to process what had happened. He was very nice afterwards, I think he was a bit concerned about me. We also exchanged by email the day afterwards.
It left me with a lot to figure out.

 

[J32]

So I was visiting a new city and found a masseur that offered a sensual massage or sports massage. I booked the sports massage.

Was he draped? Did he say anything while he was fingering you?

 

[Adrimollers]

Was he draped? Did he say anything while he was fingering you?

Draped? Well he was wearing shorts and a T-shirt if that’s what you mean.
No he didn’t say anything while fingering me. I was shouting “oh f**k” so loudly I wouldn’t have heard him if he was. His English isn’t great.
At one point, it felt like he had just put his elbow inside me, and I said “how many fingers is that?”, he held up two fingers to communicate by sign language!

 

[Nick hull]

Did you get to keep the watch!

 

[J32]

Draped? Well he was wearing shorts and a T-shirt if that’s what you mean.
No he didn’t say anything while fingering me. I was shouting “oh f**k” so loudly I wouldn’t have heard him if he was. His English isn’t great.
At one point, it felt like he had just put his elbow inside me, and I said “how many fingers is that?”, he held up two fingers to communicate by sign language!

The first time I had a prostate massage it also caught me by surprise. But thankfully she only did one finger. I booked a tantra massage because I wanted the lingam massage but then at one point she got knuckle deep into my virgin hole. Took a few minutes to get used to it but then I blew one of the best loads of my life.

 

[hugedownunder]

So I went for another massage on Saturday afternoon. Long story but left with mixed emotions I was hoping i would see the same girl again but they told me she doesn’t work on Saturday but I went ahead and booked a 90 mins session anyways since my Sunday was busy.

I walk inside and I’m greeted by an older chinese lady (lates 50s). Not gonna lie I was a little disappointed but went into the room and undressed and laid down on the bed, only covering myself with the small towel. She came in, dimmed the light and started to press down on my body, starting from my feet.

She did have magic hands, she wasnt as strong as the young girl but her hands were very rhythmic. She started on the legs with the oil, using this stroking motion with both hands in a very specific way. She got up to my hamstrings and removed the towel completely, and started to do the same motion on the inside of my glutes. At this point I was hard as a rock, and the motion she was doing felt so good that I thought I was going to cum right there. Felt like i was in a trance of sorts

I started to make conversation with her in order to avoid cumming and making it uncomfortable for everyone lol. The feeling of cum in my dick finally left and she began to work my ass, letting her fingers get right near my asshole. (Ive only done a bit of self play and never been a big fan of it). I lifted my ass up really hoping she would put her finger inside. Unfortunately she didnt but she did mention how I had really nice bum and I prolly walked a lot. I told her I did my fair share of squats lol. She even stroked her finger up and down between my cheeks. She moved onto my upper back, working my trap and arms all equally.

At this point she asked me if I wanted the hot stones so I said sure. She began to rub my body down with the hot stones, one at a time. She rubbed them till they went warm and then left one on my upper back, the next one went on the top of my glutes. I thought they were just going to go on my back, was surprised when she told me “up” and lifted my hips up with surprising strength and put the third stone right on my pubic area. She grabbed my semi flaccid cock and put the hot stone right there. Asking me if it was too hot which I responded no its good. She grabbed two more stones and worked my entire back and legs with them while the three other stones remained there. The one on my cock slowly radiating heat into my dick and it felt really nice.

After she was done with stones she wiped me down and told me to flip over. I let the small cloth fall down exposing my dick in the dark room. Told her im sorry and she didnt mind, and kept working my chest and shoulders. Which i enjoyed because ive got some past injuries that creep up and started paining at random times. She started to work my legs and put the cloth on my dick, just having the bottom of the shaft exposed. She did a good job on my calves but really focused on my hips and groin, pressing down on what I think are trigger points and releasing tension in the pubic area. At this point i was soft, between her pressing down and me laying on my back (possibly because i pumped my dick) I couldnt maintain a crazy hard on

I saw we had about 5 mins left when she asked me if I wanted another 30 mins. I said sure thinking it would be her working. She said okay no problem another girl will come. At this point I’m like hmm wtf is going on here. Im laying here butt naked with a small towel covering my junk. She sent another much younger girl in, this girl was a bit chubby but had a bubbly personality and started to work on thighs. She was using a lot of oil stroking my thighs back and forth, pushing blood into my cock. Definitely “accidentally” brushing my dick, asking me if im single etc, about 5 mins into this she’s asking me if i want an extra massage. I told her Ill think about it, after a couple mins of her pouring oil all over my legs and stomach mins I told her go ahead and do it.

She removed the cloth and took her time with my dick and balls, pouring oil all over them. Telling me I needed to release as I had too much tension, I told her Im going to cum quickly and she grabbed a hold of my cock with both hands. Gripping the base and stroked the head with her other hand ( im uncut but my skin pulls all the way back). I prolly lasted about 15 seconds before I blasted what i think were 15 ropes. Some them even hitting her, she laughed and said I definitely needed that. She wiped me down and asked for $60 cash and to pay for the rest of massage outside.

I had some shame come over me, as Ive never paid for anything sexual. Put my clothes on , thinking about why I agreed to that while I’m in married relationship etc. the horniness came over me. We havent done anything for 2-3 months now, and my wife does have a much much lower sex drive than me. She doesnt want to do blowjobs (if she does its for a few seconds) or any oral really. Im just trying to rationalize my actions I guess. And I think if it just happened out of the moment Id be okay with it, the fact that I paid gives me weird feelings.

I walked out and paid the old chinese lady at the reception. The girl who just stroked me to completion was sitting on the couch with her friend. She was like jason my friend thinks you very handsome, I gave them a smile and told them thanks. Walked out side and got into my car driving home in silence.


I did feel relaxed and better a couple hours later and my feelings did not change at all for my wife but just going to try to take a break for a bit from massages. If you guys got any advice would be appreciated

What you went through is completely natural and entirely ok. It's natural for men to seek relief elsewhere even if they have regular sex with their partner. Women are allowed to indulge in validating pursuits like social media, Instagram, etc, men should be allowed to too! My advice is to go when you need it and keep it to yourself. In Australia we call it ' secret mens business ' . There's also secret women's business but we live in a world where women have been brainwashed into never understanding men. I'm a massage therapist and I've had this conversation a thousand times with men.

 

[hugedownunder]

Hey everyone, this may surprise some of you, but I’ve been a massage therapist for over 20 years. Over that time, I’ve noticed what feels like a shift in how many straight men relate to touch, comfort, and exploration in a massage setting.

From what I’ve observed, straight men—married, single, or in relationships—seem increasingly open to experiencing forms of physical connection or sensation with another man during massage. I want to be clear: this openness doesn’t make someone “not straight.” It’s simply part of how some men explore comfort, trust, and their own bodies.

It's a GUY thing NOT a gay thing.

I’ve also come to think this shift might be connected to broader social changes. In some ways, radical feminism has reshaped how heterosexual men view themselves, often challenging or minimizing traditional masculine identity. As a result, some men may be seeking new forms of affirmation or connection that feel natural to them.
Here in Australia and more the South Pacific Islands, I’ve noticed that it’s historically been common for young men—especially in their late teens and early twenties—to have some level of physical or intimate contact with each other before eventually going on to build relationships, families, and typical adult lives with women. I don’t think this is unusual; it seems more like a natural adaptation to social circumstances. Many men need to feel desired or validated, and certain experiences provide a biological sense of affirmation. This has nothing to do with losing attraction to their female partners or questioning their orientation.

What I’m seeing now is that men may be returning to what feels instinctive or natural for them emotionally and physically. Interestingly, the men most comfortable with this tend to be very self-assured “alpha” types, who don’t feel their masculinity or sexuality is threatened. Their confidence actually gives them permission to explore without fear of judgment.

When I talk with men who are open about this, they often reflect on their marriages, friendships, or emotional lives, and many eventually realize that what they’re experiencing is normal and okay—especially given the pressures men face today. The cultural climate and the impact of modern feminism on male identity seem to play a role.

I’ve also found that it’s often difficult for women to fully understand the inner physical needs of men. Because of this I've, on occasion, even advised men NOT to tell their female partners because they simply don't or refuse to understand.

Men need to protect themselves and will always seek to get their needs met which is perfectly ok.

 

[Boywatch200]

Hey everyone, this may surprise some of you, but I’ve been a massage therapist for over 20 years. Over that time, I’ve noticed what feels like a shift in how many straight men relate to touch, comfort, and exploration in a massage setting.

From what I’ve observed, straight men—married, single, or in relationships—seem increasingly open to experiencing forms of physical connection or sensation with another man during massage. I want to be clear: this openness doesn’t make someone “not straight.” It’s simply part of how some men explore comfort, trust, and their own bodies.

It's a GUY thing NOT a gay thing.

I’ve also come to think this shift might be connected to broader social changes. In some ways, radical feminism has reshaped how heterosexual men view themselves, often challenging or minimizing traditional masculine identity. As a result, some men may be seeking new forms of affirmation or connection that feel natural to them.
Here in Australia and more the South Pacific Islands, I’ve noticed that it’s historically been common for young men—especially in their late teens and early twenties—to have some level of physical or intimate contact with each other before eventually going on to build relationships, families, and typical adult lives with women. I don’t think this is unusual; it seems more like a natural adaptation to social circumstances. Many men need to feel desired or validated, and certain experiences provide a biological sense of affirmation. This has nothing to do with losing attraction to their female partners or questioning their orientation.

What I’m seeing now is that men may be returning to what feels instinctive or natural for them emotionally and physically. Interestingly, the men most comfortable with this tend to be very self-assured “alpha” types, who don’t feel their masculinity or sexuality is threatened. Their confidence actually gives them permission to explore without fear of judgment.

When I talk with men who are open about this, they often reflect on their marriages, friendships, or emotional lives, and many eventually realize that what they’re experiencing is normal and okay—especially given the pressures men face today. The cultural climate and the impact of modern feminism on male identity seem to play a role.

I’ve also found that it’s often difficult for women to fully understand the inner physical needs of men. Because of this I've, on occasion, even advised men NOT to tell their female partners because they simply don't or refuse to understand.

Men need to protect themselves and will always seek to get their needs met which is perfectly ok.

Thanks man! I would also love to read some stories, from the masseur perspective, this can really interesting.

 

[VladtheImpaler]

After being asked not to return to the Korean spa I searched the web for another place to get a massage. I found what looked like a nice legitimate place and booked a ninety minute massage for yesterday. I arrived about ten minutes early and saw a sign that said. " no sexual favors. Don't even ask " I was fine with that. I was greeted by an older Asian woman around late fifties she seemed surprised to see me I explained I had an appointment and she asked me how long. And what kind. I told her she led me to the back and I asked to use the toilet. When I finished she asked for the payment and told me to go inside undress and lay face down. There was no drape on the table just a towel folded on the bottom. So I stripped naked and laid face down with my cock and balls between my legs which were spread. She came in and covered me with the towel.

She rubbed my back neck and shoulders on top of the towel threw the towel down on to my knees. She started using lotion to work on my back shoulders neck and arms. Several times she ran her hands all the way down my back and over my glutes. She then switched to my legs and thighs frequently brushing up against my cock and balls. Each time she did I spread my legs a little more.

She told me to turn over and I did laying face up with no covering. She worked on my face shoulders neck and chest running her hands down my chest and I could feel her fingers in my pubic hair. She sat and pulled my arm onto her lap and worked on them. My finger tips were right against her crotch so I started to rub them up and down but didn't get a reaction. She then moved to my lower legs feet and thighs putting her hand between my balls and inner thighs to massage my groin. She left the room and when she came back there the towel over mid section covering my cock and balls. She then worked only on my feet and lower legs. I, am not sure why the sudden change although I thought maybe someone else had come in the facility. I was finished so I stood up and faced her across the table still totally naked. I asked if I could use the toilet and she just pointed towards it. She asked how it was and I said great then asked if I could come back and she said yes then I got dressed and went to the toilet

I rechecked the website and found there are the staff members. I don't know if I want try one of the other therapist and see if they require draping or stay with the one I know is comfortable with me being naked.

 

[drewsilv]

I recently did the whole Turkish bath thing while on vacation. The therapist was completely professional during the whole thing as I wasn't always trapped or covered. Lots of dead skin was removed during the scrub....and I just repositioned the "big guy" to the opposite side while getting massaged.
He likes to flop over my thigh and peak out if I don't move him each time, the therapists definitely know what is going on but ...

We need to see the big guy!

 

[jackedfibres]

After a grueling workout, I woke up def needing a massage. I booked in with the old chinese lady as her massage was actually really good, a good mixture of therapeutic and pressure. Came to terms with myself that a massage here and there and occasional release is probably better for my mental. I can't expect my wife to be on the same sexual level as me at all times, nor do I want to pressure her.

Went into the massage said hi to the Chinese lady and went into the room to get undressed and laid on the table nude with small towel covering me. The massage started off the same with her pressing all along my body and then she grabbed the oil started with one leg at a time. She would start from the feet, moving up to the calves and hamstrings. When she got to the hamstrings she removed the towel completely, I opened my legs to allow her to get access to the groin.

The waves she moves her hands back and forth is very relaxing, its a very quick but smooth motion. And by the time she's reaching into the inner leg, I'm 90% sure shes touching the tip of my cock with this motion. She then moved onto my glutes, getting very deep near my asshole, running a finger up and down but never actually putting it in.

I raised my hips to allow her more access, she was doing the same motion beside my balls with her fingers. She was basically massaging my perinuem, I felt like I was on the moon , pretty sure I was leaking all over the sheet. She was asking me if its okay to go deeper and I told her def yes.

She moved onto my back, traps and shoulders, working them all with the same care before she asked me to turn around. I had the towel covering only my semi-hardon the entire while she started to massage my upper body, moving from my chest to my stomach. She spent a lot of time on my pubic area, doing various pressure holds on certain spots. It was actually super relaxing as I would feel my cock fill up with blood as soon as she released spots. She did the same on my quads and groin before moving to my calves.

This time she didn't ask me if I wanted extra time or the other girl to come in which i actually enjoyed because I was in this weird state of horniness and complete relaxation. She finished the massage with some stretches before sending me on my way. I think next time she's working on my ass, I'm going to ask her to go deeper and see where that goes.