Anyone Into Sph

[heky21]

How hung is your boyfriend? Does he treat you like your are equal the rest of the time?

17 cm (6,7 inches). And he his clearly a shower with a massive flacid cock compared to mine! I know it's not a porn star size, but for me it is allready realy big !

We have periods during which we stay in this dominant/submissiv relation yes. But not always. And we are not like this when
coworkers, family (except one person) and most of our friends are around, obviously ^^.
But for exemple during two wholes weeks in june i was acting as his servant for him, his particular friends and his sexfriends. That was awesome.

 

[bobbyjo92]

His sexfriends? What are his sexfriends like?

17 cm (6,7 inches). And he his clearly a shower with a massive flacid cock compared to mine! I know it's not a porn star size, but for me it is allready realy big !

We have periods during which we stay in this dominant/submissiv relation yes. But not always. And we are not like this when
coworkers, family (except one person) and most of our friends are around, obviously ^^.
But for exemple during two wholes weeks in june i was acting as his servant for him, his particular friends and his sexfriends. That was awesome.

 

[heky21]

His sexfriends? What are his sexfriends like?

We speaks about 4 peoples and some one night stand. Mostly around his age (+-27 years old) or younger (one is 22), slim, not shaved and, except one, taller than me. I have not seen all them naked, but my boyfriend tell me they were all better hung. The biggest must be around 8 inches.
One is my former apprentice from years ago (during this years we never know that the other one was gay), and this situation made the whole things realy hot.

 

[Jdubyaa007]

I’m in the same boat - love comparing with all kinds of different sized cocks, love friendly teasing from better hung guys, etc. but it seems there is an expectation or desire (from both sides) that this results in abuse or belittlement.

I understand it’s a kink, and we all have them, but I wish there was more of a presence for SPT (small penis teasing) rather than outright humiliation.

I agree. Light teasing is fun but I find cruelty a turn off

 

[bobbyjo92]

We speaks about 4 peoples and some one night stand. Mostly around his age (+-27 years old) or younger (one is 22), slim, not shaved and, except one, taller than me. I have not seen all them naked, but my boyfriend tell me they were all better hung. The biggest must be around 8 inches.
One is my former apprentice from years ago (during this years we never know that the other one was gay), and this situation made the whole things realy hot.

Damn they sound like a lot of fun. You reckon your bf wants to fuck them or get fucked by someone as big as Mr 8 inch?

 

[heky21]

Damn they sound like a lot of fun. You reckon your bf wants to fuck them or get fucked by someone as big as Mr 8 inch?

He get fucked by them usualy, and most of all, he likes to suck them ! And he likes to remind me that the last time he suck my dick was more than two years ago. He is realy good for teasing.
On one occasion he orderd me to go have some drink with friends in a local bar as soon as his sexfriend arrived. Something like one hour later, he texted me how awesome it was, and told me that his sexfriend was coming in the same bar. He dare me to offer him some drinks to thanks him for what he did. I did it, but it was one of the time i was the most nervous in me life ^^. I know that we were the only two in the bar to know what's going on, but in my mind everybody knows ^^.

 

[bobbyjo92]

Damn, to be fair bet his sexfriend probably told all his mates about it afterwards. He'll be amazed you complied so easy.

I know if I was your bf I'd want all his mates to know just in case any of them are hung and fancy giving me an ever better time

 

[heky21]

I think that some of them explained to their friends what was happening yes, but in this moment i'm way to nervous and was hopping that he tells nothing. That's one of the paradoxe of sph i think ^^
But it's a huge turn on for my boyfriend that i know and have contact with his sexfriend. When he was successfull with having my previous apprentice in his bed, it was like christmas for him. Seeing them tease me made him crazy horny. For obvious reason we have to put some limits about it trought the years ^^.

 

[LilJock]

I enjoy being teased over size difference providing it’s funny and there’s no malice. I don’t understand why so many smaller guys become subservient and enjoy being treated like dirt.

Just a comment. I don't think it's a case of the guy actually being subservient or enjoy literally being treated like dirt. I think it's mostly "role playing".

It's acting out a fantasy, similar to other fetishes like S&M, bondage. or shepherd and shepherdess. It's playing off the concept that the guy with the bigger cock is "more of a man" than the smaller guy (and therefore dominant), and the one with the smaller cock is "less of a man" than the guy with the bigger cock (and therefore subservient). What takes place is acting out these roles. This may not represent the true feelings of either, just a sexual fantasy. Out of the sexual context, the guy with the smaller cock may actually be an alpha male with a perfectly normal-sized ego.

It may become a problem when either confuses the situation and assumes it's reality. This would be unacceptable to the other.

In fact, it's frequently the case that the "smaller" guy may not have a small cock at all. It may be perfectly average, even above average. It's just a turn on for him to fantasize such. Frequently these guys may "flip" depending upon the situation. I doubt whether most of them truly feel subservient or would enjoy being treated like dirt outside of the sexual situation.

But I may be wrong. I haven't had much dealing with SPH and may be projecting my own feelings.

 

[BigDickHunter1]

Just a comment. I don't think it's a case of the guy actually being subservient or enjoy literally being treated like dirt. I think it's mostly "role playing".

It's acting out a fantasy, similar to other fetishes like S&M, bondage. or shepherd and shepherdess. It's playing off the concept that the guy with the bigger cock is "more of a man" than the smaller guy (and therefore dominant), and the one with the smaller cock is "less of a man" than the guy with the bigger cock (and therefore subservient). What takes place is acting out these roles. This may not represent the true feelings of either, just a sexual fantasy. Out of the sexual context, the guy with the smaller cock may actually be an alpha male with a perfectly normal-sized ego.

It may become a problem when either confuses the situation and assumes it's reality. This would be unacceptable to the other.

In fact, it's frequently the case that the "smaller" guy may not have a small cock at all. It may be perfectly average, even above average. It's just a turn on for him to fantasize such. Frequently these guys may "flip" depending upon the situation. I doubt whether most of them truly feel subservient or would enjoy being treated like dirt outside of the sexual situation.

But I may be wrong. I haven't had much dealing with SPH and may be projecting my own feelings.

You're right on the money. Well said.

 

[deleted10500801]

It's acting out a fantasy, similar to other fetishes like S&M, bondage. or shepherd and shepherdess...

I've never heard of that fetish before, what is it about?

 

[love2compare]

I think that some of them explained to their friends what was happening yes, but in this moment i'm way to nervous and was hopping that he tells nothing. That's one of the paradoxe of sph i think ^^
But it's a huge turn on for my boyfriend that i know and have contact with his sexfriend. When he was successfull with having my previous apprentice in his bed, it was like christmas for him. Seeing them tease me made him crazy horny. For obvious reason we have to put some limits about it trought the years ^^.

How come you had to take your pants down in front of your friends, how did this exposure start and did you get excited/erected in front of them?

 

[LilJock]

It's acting out a fantasy, similar to other fetishes like S&M, bondage. or shepherd and shepherdess.

I've never heard of that fetish before, what is it about?

I can't remember which one, but I'm sure it's from a Mel Brooke's film. Or, at least, it should be!

 

[heky21]

How come you had to take your pants down in front of your friends, how did this exposure start and did you get excited/erected in front of them?

It takes some years and a few steps to get there (and once again, it was not with all our friends!). But after the first time that my boyfriend speaks about our sex life in front of them, and especially the fact that i'm now strictly a bottom and that i like beeing submissiv to him, the biggest part was done !
For some of this friends, it was particularly funny to ask more and more details. Especialy when you add some alcool to the evening. In this situation, it's easy for me to have a bonner...
So it happened a few times at home or at our friends apartment.

 

[love2compare]

thanks, that's really horny man, would be fun to see such exposing event hehe... did you get any hot teasing from them?

 

[heky21]

thanks, that's really horny man, would be fun to see such exposing event hehe... did you get any hot teasing from them?

Switzerland is not so big

And yes i have had some teasing from them, depends of the guy. On of them found funy to give some new ideas to my boyfriend. For exemple, to go and clean the apartment of a sexfriend of my boyfriend, and wait their for his return.

 

[Inshape69]

I am married and my ex used to like to make fun of my small cock. At first i was offended and eventually I discovered that it was a bit of a turn on depending on the situation.

 

[deleted10500801]

I am married and my ex used to like to make fun of my small cock. At first i was offended and eventually I discovered that it was a bit of a turn on depending on the situation.

You. Are. Not. Small.

 

[Inshape69]

Camera angles do wonders

 

[Kevjs35]

I have a tiny penis and love small penis humiliation. More from women but also from bigger guys witch is most of you. I love being laughed at and teased about it. It’s such a turn on to me. My wife knows I love it and teases me all the time, she wants to fuck other men. I told her I would love to watch that[album=medium]182958[/album]