I'd say men are more visual than women. Physical, I don't know.
You can believe that if you want, I believe the opposite. I'd also say american culture is much more obsessed with breast size than, for instance, the culture where I'm from.
You're missing the point. It's not about *how much* women care about penises, it's about it being a factor among many rather than the sole reason for seing or not seing a man, as you previously tried to argue it would have to be, in order for women to care about size.
Anyway, if you mean that women don't care about penis size in any significant way, you're saying that most heterosexual women wouldn't care if the man they're with has a micro penis, which is so small that he can't even penetrate her. Nor would they care if he's so large that intercourse becomes impossible due to it being too painfull. I'd say your dead wrong. I'd say most heterosexual women would probably actually find above scenarios to be deal breakers.
How ever, as long as the penis is within the normal range size wise (slightly smaller, average, slightly larger), most women will not fuss over it, in the same way that most men would not fuss over a woman having normal-plus-minus sized breasts. Come to think of it, I actually think there are way more women who would reject a man with a micro penis, than there are men who would reject a woman who is flat as a board (there is even a subset of men who find that attractive, I've never heard of a subset of women finding micro penises a turn on, though I'm sure they exist).
1. I don't know what kind of women you date, but most women I've been with has never asked me that question. Nor do they slap or throw drinks in the faces of other people just because the other people ask slightly inappropriate questions.
2. But as you yourself is getting at, talking about dick size is considered inappropriate. That's one reason that kind of talk doesn't come up. Another reason is that many men are insecure about the subject and women are sensitive to that insecurity. Finally, most people would (i'd say correctly) assume that women prefer bigger penises over smaller. Given that assumption, the question is superfluous. Kind of like asking a man if he prefers ugly or beautiful women.
3. However, I have actually been asked my penis size by one women I was about to date. I have also been told in advance by another woman that she had a feeling (as well as a hope) that I would be big. I've further more spoken to a large quantity of women who in one way or other professed to prefer bigger penises. Both because of how it feels (primarly thickness, very few seem to get anything physical out of lenght, unless they're into pain, which some are) and how it looks and what it signifies.
Hardly any (looking at google maps I find a grand total of three). I live in a city with a metropolitan population of about 2 milion.
None.
Try thinking outside of your american bubble.
No. Caring about how a penis feels or looks when *HAVING SEX* is not the same thing as wanting to see a limp penis flop about on a guy getting paid to dance for you.
Similarly, I care about the looks of women I have sex with. But I have never in my life been to a strip club, nor do I want to go to.
Where do you get all this juvenile shit from? Seriosly? No, "every guy" will not try to get the number of a woman wearing a string bikini just because of what she's wearing. And where I'm from, most won't stare either, because that's considered impolite and rude (though, that's probably a cultural artefact as staring seem to be much more accepted in other cultures).
oh man
You're priceless. Have you no knowledge of cultural norms at all? Showing up in a Borat style bikini to show off your "donkey dick" and then thinking that the fact that women find that offensive is a sure sign that no woman could have any preference what so ever when it comes to dick size? Jezus christ. And you've also talked to a lot of women, wearing that string bikini. Let me guess, it wasn't them who initiated contact...
What I get is that you are socially inept to the point of having a "letter combination" (don't know if that direct translation works in english, but screw it).
That all depends. If you're talking about a boyfriend or a husband, then the size will not be a deciding factor for most women, at least as long as he's not too small or too big for them to have pleasurable penetrative sex.
If you're just talking a hook up or other forms of purely sexual relations, then it becomes more important to a lot of women. But still not so important that it becomes the be all, end all, or for them to hook up with Borats autistic cousin, just to be able to sample "the donkey dick".
