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I was in college in the early 90s. HIV treatments were rudimentary and PrEP was a science fiction fantasy. There were no hookup apps and if you wanted porn you had to buy expensive magazines or rent a video from a store.
I went to a very liberal school with an active LGB (no T in those days) group and being gay was not a big deal among students. However I didn’t much sex on campus. There was a lot of slut shaming. The emphasis was on monogamy and safe sex. Hookups were frowned upon, or at least not discussed.
I’m curious how that’s changed with advances technology and medicine. Are lots of guys on campus taking PrEP nowadays? Do your parents know? I used to fantasize about bareback sex parties on campus, but obviously never experienced them. I’m curious about what it’s like now. Of course, the most sordid details you can share the better.
I bet around 30% of guys are on PrEP, though many are in relationships or not actively hooking up. Among those on Grindr and Sniffies, the rate is probably closer to 50%. I believe our student insurance covers PrEP. Yes, my parents know I am gay.
I once had a threesome with a buddy of mine and a guy we picked up at a bar. We were both 21 and had hooked up casually a few times before. Late one night, this guy in his early 30s came up to us and asked if we were students and said he was in town for work. We chatted, he bought us shots, and we ended up back at his hotel.
We sat against the headboard, and took turns making out. Shirts came off, and the guy had a fat bulge in his shorts. My friend immediately reached over and slid his hand inside and pulled out the guy’s thick, uncut 8 inch cock. Without hesitation, he wrapped his lips around the head and started spitting on it.
I grabbed the back of my friend’s head and pushed him further down on the cock. The older guy moaned loudly. I wanted my turn, so I took hold of the shaft while my friend moved up to make out with him. I licked around the foreskin, teasing the tip with my tongue. We kept switching like that, taking turns sucking him, stroking him, and making out, until my friend started blowing me too.
I grabbed my friend’s head and started face fucking him. The older guy moved behind him, spread his ass, and started eating him out. My friend was moaning around my dick, pushing back against the older guy’s face. Then the older guy gets on his knees, rubs his thick cock on my buddy’s hole, and pushes in. I keep face-fucking him from the front while the guy rails him from behind. We kept using him like that until we were all close.
We both walked home pretty shocked but super turned on. Ended up hooking up almost every day for the next two weeks after that.
I wish I could regale you with a story about bareback sex parties. There’s this gay sex party every few weeks on Sniffies that attracts 20 to 40 guys, all under 40 and a bunch of them in college. I've yet to go, but I’ve recognized a few who RSVP’d from their profile pics. It was hot seeing some of my classmates’ cocks.
I once had a threesome with a buddy of mine and a guy we picked up at a bar. We were both 21 and had hooked up casually a few times before. Late one night, this guy in his early 30s came up to us and asked if we were students and said he was in town for work. We chatted, he bought us shots, and we ended up back at his hotel.
We sat against the headboard, and took turns making out. Shirts came off, and the guy had a fat bulge in his shorts. My friend immediately reached over and slid his hand inside and pulled out the guy’s thick, uncut 8 inch cock. Without hesitation, he wrapped his lips around the head and started spitting on it.
I grabbed the back of my friend’s head and pushed him further down on the cock. The older guy moaned loudly. I wanted my turn, so I took hold of the shaft while my friend moved up to make out with him. I licked around the foreskin, teasing the tip with my tongue. We kept switching like that, taking turns sucking him, stroking him, and making out, until my friend started blowing me too.
I grabbed my friend’s head and started face fucking him. The older guy moved behind him, spread his ass, and started eating him out. My friend was moaning around my dick, pushing back against the older guy’s face. Then the older guy gets on his knees, rubs his thick cock on my buddy’s hole, and pushes in. I keep face-fucking him from the front while the guy rails him from behind. We kept using him like that until we were all close.
We both walked home pretty shocked but super turned on. Ended up hooking up almost every day for the next two weeks after that.
I wish I could regale you with a story about bareback sex parties. There’s this gay sex party every few weeks on Sniffies that attracts 20 to 40 guys, all under 40 and a bunch of them in college. I've yet to go, but I’ve recognized a few who RSVP’d from their profile pics. It was hot seeing some of my classmates’ cocks.
Awesome. I’m jealous but glad boys are having fun. Many of my jackoff fantasies are imaginary scenes I wish had happened in college. Time flies. Enjoy it while you can.
Are there a decent amount of gay colleges guys who aren’t into participating in the “gay lifestyle”?They’re not in the closet, but they don’t go to gay bars, don’t show their face on Grindr. No judgement here. Just trying to understand what the younger gays are like.
Also, if you are into 40+ guys, what is something that they tend to do that’s totally a turn off for you?
Also, if you are into 40+ guys, what is something that they tend to do that’s totally a turn off for you?
It’s hard for me to give you a direct answer to this question because there's not one "gay lifestyle" on campus. There's guys in frats and athletic teams who are openly gay. Some students join LGBTQ organizations. There’s maybe 10 gay guys that most of the queer students know—usually because we all talked to or hooked up with them freshman year
A good chunk of hookups happen from Tinder and straight bars. It wouldn't be uncommon to make out with a guy at a straight bar and end up going home with him. Similarly, I've matched with guys on Tinder, briefly chatted on Snapchat, and end up hooking up that night.
I feel like most guys don't show their face on their Grindr profile. They usually share it by request in DMs or Snapchat. Most guys aren't regularly on Grindr either. The most attractive guys that everyone is interested in are usually only on during popular times—like the start or end of the semester.
As for older guys (I don’t really pursue 10+ years older myself), one thing I’ve noticed is that some will ask pretty early if age is an issue—like “Are you into older guys?” or “Is it okay that I’m older?” If I’m talking to you and showing interest, I’m not sitting there thinking about your age. Bringing it up can come across as a bit insecure. Another thing that kills the vibe for me is when someone starts talking about past relationships—sometimes right after hooking up. Hearing about other guys is an instant turn-off.
My first year in college was a new beginning .. a few guys from high school went to same one but other than that it was all new people.. so had to make new friends .. and of course find out a way to let others know I am not in the closet .. without waving a flag.. I didn’t want girls flirting with me as the only way I had seen a female naked was in porn and when I saw their snatches I wasn’t impressed at all ..
Few weeks went by and got used to classes and I stayed in one of the dorm rooms as I swore I was going to stay there until I get an apartment or a house to rent or buy ..
My room mate was kind of sexy and didn’t care to be in his underwear’s or even naked in front of me .. I was pretty much same way.. .. there was nights he’d start jerking off under the covers and then toss the covers off when he was about to shoot.. I laid there pretending to be asleep ..
One day we talked and agreed that I’d had plans to bring someone in the room that let each other know and have the room to ourselves .. which didn’t take him long . Which was fine .. I went visited couple friends and an older man I took care of for few years .. went to store — cleaned his house mowed his grass stuff like that. To save money for college plus get stuff whenever needed it in high school ..
I arranged to come to his place and do like I did before starting college .. he has three sons but they went to college and moved to other states with their wives and doesn’t get to see them any .. his wife died years prior from breast cancer .. and we kind of met when I started mowing grass and doing other jobs ..other jobs was to mow yards on apartments he owned and rented out .. he owned a couple houses but the people in them mowed the grass themselves ..
He tells me he appreciated everything I did for him.. and I told him that’s what we are here for.. to help each other ..
Anyhow. I met a guy and told my room mate I was needing the room Thursday night he says that’s fine — he can go visit his parents after classes and come back about midnight .. which was a good time..
Thursday comes up .. my friend and I were getting into it pretty good.. .. but I was on my back legs up getting screwed when my room mate comes back at 10:30 or so .. shuts the door . Covers his eyes .. says ignore him .. pretend he wasn’t there ..
So we kept on going as he’s laying in his bed facing the wall.. bitching how he decided to go over to his girlfriends house just to find her with another guy.. .. .. I was grunting n moaning as I told him sorry to hear that ..
All I was wanting was a blowjob at least .. if she didn’t want to do anything else .. .. I didn’t know what to do or say.. but I figured sooner or later he was going to find out I was gay .. so I told the guy doing me pull out real low .. .. I carefully got on the floor hands and knees and my buddy got behind me and slid his dick back in as I was facing my roommates bed .. and I said I’d give you one if that would help .. ..
He starts saying.as he rolling over .. what would that girl you’re with say.. .. he sees my buddy doing me .. and he says he wouldn’t say a thing ..
He probably thought about it 30 seconds — or maybe it was when I said he can jerk off after I go to sleep it’s his choice .. he took off his close turned to where his feet were on the floor and I took his cock in my mouth which was already 3/4 hard .. he leaned back onto his elbows and watched me suck on it and his balls .. back and forth . Definitely moaning a lot .. and was saying oh fuck yeah ..
Then he says .. he doesn’t fuck with a condom on.. my buddy says he doesn’t either .. .. .. says he was getting close to cumming as he holds my hips and pulls on them as he shoved in.. .. and stops and lets out a deep breath and says fuck yeah .. ..
My room mate ( his name was Chris) asked if was his first time fucking me he says no that we did it quite often.. ..
My buddy says he had to get dressed and leave Chris says he’d take care of it.. I said thanks for coming .. .. Chris opened and shuts the door and locked it.. and begins to tell me about how he jerked off all the time when I could been sucking him off .. I was like hey you were with that girl so you were straight .. . .
He had me scoot forward so rest my chest on his bed and slid his cock inside me .. which felt thicker in my ass than in my mouth .. and he begins fucking me and he felt so good .. not sure if was where the cum was there for lube or it was him but he definitely knew how to work it..
.. he slammed it hard in and out few times and I could feel him cumming as he kept doing it. All I can do was do was say was harder and he did it few mores times and he was done .. ..
He says now he didn’t have to worry about sneaking a girl in.. I said sneaking he says yeah no girls are allowed in the dorm.. I was like oh shit.. I didn’t know that ..
We got pair shorts on went couple floors downstairs where showers were and took a shower and I cleaned out and all ..
When we got back to the room .. he’s asking me how many times did you watch me jerk off.. I said.. several.. I’d see you do it under cover then uncover to shoot on chest n stomach ..
He’s like how often do you like sucking dick .. I asked how often you want sucked .. couple times a day maybe 3 unless gets to fuck and most girls don’t wanna fuck .. I said I wasn’t one of the girls ..
So we kind of created a fwb bond that night
Few weeks went by and got used to classes and I stayed in one of the dorm rooms as I swore I was going to stay there until I get an apartment or a house to rent or buy ..
My room mate was kind of sexy and didn’t care to be in his underwear’s or even naked in front of me .. I was pretty much same way.. .. there was nights he’d start jerking off under the covers and then toss the covers off when he was about to shoot.. I laid there pretending to be asleep ..
One day we talked and agreed that I’d had plans to bring someone in the room that let each other know and have the room to ourselves .. which didn’t take him long . Which was fine .. I went visited couple friends and an older man I took care of for few years .. went to store — cleaned his house mowed his grass stuff like that. To save money for college plus get stuff whenever needed it in high school ..
I arranged to come to his place and do like I did before starting college .. he has three sons but they went to college and moved to other states with their wives and doesn’t get to see them any .. his wife died years prior from breast cancer .. and we kind of met when I started mowing grass and doing other jobs ..other jobs was to mow yards on apartments he owned and rented out .. he owned a couple houses but the people in them mowed the grass themselves ..
He tells me he appreciated everything I did for him.. and I told him that’s what we are here for.. to help each other ..
Anyhow. I met a guy and told my room mate I was needing the room Thursday night he says that’s fine — he can go visit his parents after classes and come back about midnight .. which was a good time..
Thursday comes up .. my friend and I were getting into it pretty good.. .. but I was on my back legs up getting screwed when my room mate comes back at 10:30 or so .. shuts the door . Covers his eyes .. says ignore him .. pretend he wasn’t there ..
So we kept on going as he’s laying in his bed facing the wall.. bitching how he decided to go over to his girlfriends house just to find her with another guy.. .. .. I was grunting n moaning as I told him sorry to hear that ..
All I was wanting was a blowjob at least .. if she didn’t want to do anything else .. .. I didn’t know what to do or say.. but I figured sooner or later he was going to find out I was gay .. so I told the guy doing me pull out real low .. .. I carefully got on the floor hands and knees and my buddy got behind me and slid his dick back in as I was facing my roommates bed .. and I said I’d give you one if that would help .. ..
He starts saying.as he rolling over .. what would that girl you’re with say.. .. he sees my buddy doing me .. and he says he wouldn’t say a thing ..
He probably thought about it 30 seconds — or maybe it was when I said he can jerk off after I go to sleep it’s his choice .. he took off his close turned to where his feet were on the floor and I took his cock in my mouth which was already 3/4 hard .. he leaned back onto his elbows and watched me suck on it and his balls .. back and forth . Definitely moaning a lot .. and was saying oh fuck yeah ..
Then he says .. he doesn’t fuck with a condom on.. my buddy says he doesn’t either .. .. .. says he was getting close to cumming as he holds my hips and pulls on them as he shoved in.. .. and stops and lets out a deep breath and says fuck yeah .. ..
My room mate ( his name was Chris) asked if was his first time fucking me he says no that we did it quite often.. ..
My buddy says he had to get dressed and leave Chris says he’d take care of it.. I said thanks for coming .. .. Chris opened and shuts the door and locked it.. and begins to tell me about how he jerked off all the time when I could been sucking him off .. I was like hey you were with that girl so you were straight .. . .
He had me scoot forward so rest my chest on his bed and slid his cock inside me .. which felt thicker in my ass than in my mouth .. and he begins fucking me and he felt so good .. not sure if was where the cum was there for lube or it was him but he definitely knew how to work it..
.. he slammed it hard in and out few times and I could feel him cumming as he kept doing it. All I can do was do was say was harder and he did it few mores times and he was done .. ..
He says now he didn’t have to worry about sneaking a girl in.. I said sneaking he says yeah no girls are allowed in the dorm.. I was like oh shit.. I didn’t know that ..
We got pair shorts on went couple floors downstairs where showers were and took a shower and I cleaned out and all ..
When we got back to the room .. he’s asking me how many times did you watch me jerk off.. I said.. several.. I’d see you do it under cover then uncover to shoot on chest n stomach ..
He’s like how often do you like sucking dick .. I asked how often you want sucked .. couple times a day maybe 3 unless gets to fuck and most girls don’t wanna fuck .. I said I wasn’t one of the girls ..
So we kind of created a fwb bond that night
Do parents get their gay sons PrEP these days like they get their straight daughters birth control?
This was years ago and not sure if they soo would say have to be 18 and up to be put on prep .. they act like sex doesn’t begin until then
I can ask few friends of mine if they have theirs on it.
I can ask few friends of mine if they have theirs on it.
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