I need to know the best way too go about asking her to get into the swingers life sytle because i think she is going to feel like she not good enough i. Bed for me its just gotten boring and ive talk to her aboit that and she doesnt change anything my wife is very attractive blond 5'5 120 tan fix boobs its not her looks i have high sex drive and she dosent turn me down for sex i just rather take care of myself. Are kids are grown and out of the house were still fairly young 48 and i think we should get ouside of our confort zone alittle and check it out PLEASE HELP ME