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Was wondering your thoughts. Im in a good relationship but my boyfriend isnt very sexual. I am. Im wanting to be spit roasted. A friends wants me to join him and his boyfriend in a threesome. He knows Im sex starved. Im seriously thinking of discreetly joining them next weekend. I love my boyfriend but frankly Im really craving dick. I need a good lay. Should I go for it?

How should I go about bringing them into our sexual relationship?
 
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Talk it out with him. Let him know that you love him but want more sex and you have this opportunity. Monogamy is overrated. It’s just sex.

where you get in trouble is with secrets. That’s the poison gayvercam was talking about. If you’re both open and clear about what you want, you’re golden.
 

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My ex never asked for a threesome till the night we broke up when he said my refusal for a threesome was part of the reason.
He didn't get enough sex, most nights wasn't enough for him and after 12 years apparently hadn't been satisfied with the number of times which was why a few times a week he went to a sauna to get laid as many times as possible. Don't think a threesome would have sorted out the problem as he still wouldn't have gotten enough cock. Did leave me feeling that somehow I was inadequate but can honestly say I've not had complaints about performance since or before him.
The only time I nearly got into a threesome was when I met this guy on line and he suggested I come over to his house for "fun". Admittedly he said he was married and 50 50 but being all horny I went over. We enjoyed some really long intense foreplay, so much so I didn't know which ay I'd turn but he soon sorted that out and as I opened the cheeks of his ass and pushed in the door opened and his wife, naked,playing with her breast, came in and walked towards saying did I want to suck her pussy...as I pulled out, pulled on clothes and fled.
 

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I had a long talk with him and he told me he understood as long as I tell him everything. My friend and his boyfriend invited me for the weekend next weekend. Im gonna take them up on it. I feel bad but I need sex as I said. Gonna have a sexy time with them. I need it. Six months without sex. I need to make some decisions.
 

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I had a long talk with him and he told me he understood as long as I tell him everything. My friend and his boyfriend invited me for the weekend next weekend. Im gonna take them up on it. I feel bad but I need sex as I said. Gonna have a sexy time with them. I need it. Six months without sex. I need to make some decisions.
My husband and I have not, with a few rare exceptions, had sexy for years. I want it, he doesn’t. We’re working on it. But we stay together because sex isn’t the most important thing in our relationship. In every other respect we’re a perfect match.

And we’ve never been totally monogamous. We never expected that from each other. So I go to sex parties and he works on his issues that keep him from wanting sex. I’m hopeful we will eventually get there, but for now we’re both happy and we continue on.
 
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My husband and I have not, with a few rare exceptions, had sexy for years. I want it, he doesn’t. We’re working on it. But we stay together because sex isn’t the most important thing in our relationship. In every other respect we’re a perfect match.

And we’ve never been totally monogamous. We never expected that from each other. So I go to sex parties and he works on his issues that keep him from wanting sex. I’m hopeful we will eventually get there, but for now we’re both happy and we continue on.

You’re a lucky man. I wish my partner were open to me going to sex parties.
 
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How'd it turn out?? Did you get spit roasted? I hope it's yes!

It was a DEFINITE YES. Very hot weekend. Spit roasted, DPed. I needed it. Going to do the same next weekend. It was nice to have intimacy again. My ass got a workout haha.
 
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