average sex session

how long do you typically last during intercourse?


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It's been so long I've forgotten.


The last time was about 15-20 spread out over my couch, my shower, and my bed. Had to keep moving because the roommates kept getting up and wandering around the apartment. Not exactly good for the mood or the hard-on but hey, you do what you got to do. Of course I'm talking about just straight penis in vagina penetration. I've had some mutual oral/fingering/hand-job sessions go on for hours but I'm guessing that's being counted as foreplay here.
 
The question is about intercourse right, not a sex session. Therefore it's kind of a hard one to answer. Are we talking about constant intercourse, from penetration till completion, or what exactly. I'd say the longest I can perform intercourse with any sort of effort is around 10 minutes. But obviously shorter sessions mixed with variety can make a session last however long is wanted.
 
I usually last at least twenty or thirty minutes before cumming when having sex, thats right about average for me as I have always taken a long time to cum from penetration alone. It is not unusual for me to have sex for 45 minutes to over an hour either, me and the miss usually have those long sex marathons on the weekend when the kids are out.
 
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kinda depends on the girls for me. with my wife, we usually go around 25min, but that is because that is about all she can handle before it is too much for her and she asks me to cum. she will have cum several times byu then anyways. with other girls, they can handle longer so i go longer. i think if it were just up to me and not pacing to meet a girl's desires, either shorter or longer, i would probably go around 45 min
 
It all depends on how tired I may be.... It depends on how aroused I might be.... I may just want to cum and go again....
 
I chose something in the midrange because some days we just have time for a five-minute quickie, while other times we go at it for quite a while. It probably averages out to 15-20 minutes.

Up until my early 20s I had difficulty cumming during sex (performance anxiety), so there were a LOT of sessions lasting half an hour or more. I honestly don't think it was much fun for either of us. I've gotten a lot better with my timing, so we can be quicker now when we want to be.

Steve :smile:
 
I don't know really. If our session is on average 30 minutes, how long is actual penetration? Probably 10 minutes? Not sure, but I will go with 10 minutes.