Bareback / Breeding

[PK38]

Super sexy. Most intimate thing seeding someone/taking cum. Miles apart from condoms use. I wouldn't have sex now if there was a condom involved

 

[chicogayba]

I love bareback, the skin-to-skin feeling, the fact that there is no barrier between me and the top. The condom is unnatural. Still, when the top is not a regular or I'm not sure he's taking sufficient precautions, I use the condom.

 

[chrisrobin]

Super sexy. Most intimate thing seeding someone/taking cum. Miles apart from condoms use. I wouldn't have sex now if there was a condom involved

Oh dude, I found some in my bottom drawer, think it was when they had a best by date - which had vanished in time. Opened one packer and this dried thing from the last century fell out. Rubbers, johnny or French letter or whatever all relegated to the bottom drawer years ago. Top or bottom a load get deposited and that feeling of leaving it behind or having it left is awesome.

 

[Infernal]

I had a fuck buddy that I used to give loads to in a regular basis. I loved pounding him hard and then exploding deep inside. Unfortunately there came a time when i wasn’t the only one giving him regular loads so I stopped. As for letting someone give me a load, it’s been a very long time.

 

[cutie123]

Anal always ends with breeding when I am in a monogamous relationship. No exceptions. I make sure to bury my seed as deep as I can in his fat ass. There is no better sensation for me, and there is not a more intimate act I can do with a man than breeding him/being bred.

 

[9038421]

If HIV was a "straight disease", no doubt there would be a vaccine by now. For now, yes, we need to take whatever precautions to stay healthy.

The thing that bothers me is that we are made to feel guilt or shame for doing something that straight couples take for granted every day. Bareback is the way nature intended. It's not a fetish or a kink.

There will never be a vaccine for HIV, a) it mutates too often and b) ART treatments are cheap and you have a normal life expectancy.

 

[jpk338]

If HIV was a "straight disease", no doubt there would be a vaccine by now. For now, yes, we need to take whatever precautions to stay healthy.

The thing that bothers me is that we are made to feel guilt or shame for doing something that straight couples take for granted every day. Bareback is the way nature intended. It's not a fetish or a kink.

Nobody makes me feel guilty or shameful. That's on you.

 

[cedarizzo]

Nobody makes me feel guilty or shameful. That's on you.

Good for you, but I totally agree with @Brodie888 on this. For many years gays have been taught it is wrong and undesirable for us to have bareback sex.

 

[9038421]

Only after being in a relationship and both on Prep. As a doctor HIV is still spread in approx: 51% of the gay male population so people are still infected without knowing. If you don’t know you can pass it on to others. Bareback sex is very dangerous, especially ransoms meets. You don’t realise the risk or know the person is HIV positive people don’t access PEP from A&E or GUM clinics.

 

[malakos]

As a doctor HIV is still spread in approx: 51% of the gay male population...

???

That's way higher than any estimate I've seen before.

 

[malakos]

Good for you, but I totally agree with @Brodie888 on this. For many years gays have been taught it is wrong and undesirable for us to have bareback sex.

Which is correct, generally speaking. Given how much more conducive unprotected anal sex is to the spreading of blood-borne diseases, it's irresponsible and socially harmful to not go into it without a great level of care and caution. Pretty much the only way that anal sex works ethically with regard for one's health and that of others is by using protection.

 

[9038421]

???

That's way higher than any estimate I've seen before.

Despite this, half of all new HIV diagnoses (53%) in 2017 in the UK occurred among gay, bisexual men and other men who have sex with men, while 18% and 24% of diagnoses occurred among heterosexual men and women respectively.

HIV and AIDS in the United Kingdom (UK)

is a website for medical professionals.

 

[malakos]

Despite this, half of all new HIV diagnoses (53%) in 2017 in the UK occurred among gay, bisexual men and other men who have sex with men, while 18% and 24% of diagnoses occurred among heterosexual men and women respectively.

HIV and AIDS in the United Kingdom (UK)

is a website for medical professionals.

How does ~50% of new HIV diagnoses being gay men mean that ~50% of gay men have HIV?? Or is the latter not actually what you were implying in the first place? "X is spread in % of population Y" intuitively reads as "% of population Y has X" for me.

 

[9038421]

How does ~50% of new HIV diagnoses being gay men mean that ~50% of gay men have HIV?? Or is the latter not actually what you were implying in the first place? "X is spread in % of population Y" intuitively reads as "% of population Y has X" for me.

All new cases of HIV are caught by gay or bisexual men. The UK ran the most successful AIDS campaign in the 1980’s dramatically reducing HIV and other STI’s just through condom use. Now, with Prep HIV is going down, but all other STI’s are rising as other methods are no longer used. We had a patient who came to use with neurological syphilis (late latent) and he was blunt. He thought condoms were no longer needed as the rest can be treated, my colleague who runs our GUM clinic is hearing those words a lot. Prep is amazing, but it can fail. He was left paralysed, blind in one eye and unable to care for himself. At 39. That’s why I urge people to stay safe, I have seen what HIV and other diseases does and it’s horrible.

 

[bravesoldier]

My BF and I are tested and clean so yes, definitely. Random, no. BB, if he's a trusted friend and tested and clean, but no seeding. Too bad there has to be HIV. I can get animalistic when it comes to seed.

 

[ArabicBottom]

Never have I heard a guy say he likes condoms.. EVER. I definitely prefer bareback since the texture of the condom doesn’t feel as good. Prep was very liberating from this aspect. I rarely ever use a condominium unless the top wants to. As far as being bred, it’s become the norm for me especially with guys I do it with regularly

 

[9038421]

Never have I heard a guy say he likes condoms.. EVER. I definitely prefer bareback since the texture of the condom doesn’t feel as good. Prep was very liberating from this aspect. I rarely ever use a condominium unless the top wants to. As far as being bred, it’s become the norm for me especially with guys I do it with regularly

Well that’s your choice, what did you do before Prep? I’m just pleased in the 1980’s people listened and those condoms you hate have saved millions of lives.

 

[ArabicBottom]

Well that’s your choice, what did you do before Prep? I’m just pleased in the 1980’s people listened and those condoms you hate have saved millions of lives.

I used condoms and got tested regularly. Would bareback with people I trusted only. You’ve made a point to acknowledge I hated condoms, do you like using condoms during sex instead of going bare (if there was not risk involved)??

 

[9038421]

I used condoms and got tested regularly. Would bareback with people I trusted only. You’ve made a point to acknowledge I hated condoms, do you like using condoms during sex instead of going bare (if there was not risk involved)??

I used condoms and condoms and prep. Wasn’t until 5-6 months into dating and both of us are on prep and tested regularly. But my boyfriend is the first person I have gone bare with.

 

[Cian85]

I personally find it the more natural way to fuck, I usually bottom, and definitely want the guys cock in me bare and to pump his load in. Just doesn’t compare to condom