Bathhouse experience

[92philip]

So I went to a bathhouse for the first time, and let me just say that my experience was incredible, and amazing. I went to Steamworks Berkeley in California, and I wasn't in the building 30 seconds before two young guys (my age) came over and asked if they could show me around then suck my cock. I gave them both a good look and found that they were clean and sexy so I said yes. So they gave me a guided tour then brought me into the steamer. We began making out and sucking each other which attracted a huge crowd. then some random guys began playing with my nipples and sucking me off. I didn't like that so much because I could see who was sucking me. However, I had spotted one man on my way in who looked really sexy and I found that he was in the steam room jerking off to me. So me and my two friends and this guy decided to go into the jacuzzi. We all began making out and groping and sucking. I was in heaven, and people were gathering around watching us and and jerking off. Then the man I met in the steamer took me to his room and we fooled around until we both came.

Then the two guys who were my age asked me if I wanted to go to dinner, so I said yes. We ate in downtown Oakland and the taller thin one asked me if I wanted to spend the night with him and his boyfriend. I said yes and so I spent the night with them. I didn't have sex with either of them but we definitely fooled around and cuddled. It was one amazing experience.

 

[Florida Boy]

Does this post sound like a combination of all the bathhouse fantasies you've ever heard or read? That is not to say the most incredible of events, coincidences can't happen. Think of the odds.

 

[sexplease]

Nice! remember, Have fun and Play Safe. I always assume everyone has something to share, and some of those things you never want to receive.

 

[EdWoody]

Told you you'd be popular.

 

[LeftCoast]

Thanks for the report, 92philip. I knew you'd do alright.

 

[F_Man]

A very sexy guy in your gallery, nice to look at! But one sentence in your excited report made me think twice:

I gave them both a good look and found that they were clean

Aren't you happy go lucky :smile: To know from a glance that someone is "clean" is overly optimistic, and qualifies you as very young at heart. In the mode of Famous Last Words: "Oops, I just realized I drove off the edge of the canyon."

Cheers, FinnMan

 

[92philip]

@ Florida Boy, actually jackass, it did happen okay, Why the hell would I make something up. Plus my story was not all that unlikely. Have you even been to a bathhouse? Seriously get a life.

 

[92philip]

@ F-man, obviously I could not have been totally and completely sure if they were clean or not, however, I did not see any obvious scabs, rashes, or scars so I figured that was the best I could expect.

 

[alwayshornyatl]

Gents,

One of my hottest memories is in a bathhouse. It was in the sauna at Club Ft. Lauderdale. I was sitting on the top bench. The guy on my left was giving me a blowjob. The guy on my right was nibbling on my nipples. And there were 6 guys standing on the opposite wall jacking off watching us.

In that same room on another occasion there were 2 muscle guys, one black, one white. The black guy worked his big dick up to a full hard on. The white guy worked his up, put a rubber on the black guy and rode that big dick. This time I was one of those on the opposite wall jacking off.

While not the same story I've seen and done enough in bathhouses that it could easily be true. I'm giving the benefit of the doubt.

 

[shaguar]

Does anyone ever get gang-raped in these places? With all the small cameras around, can one reasonably expect the visit to be private and confidential?

 

[Snozzle]

I wish people wouldn't use "clean" to mean "free of disease" especially HIV. Guys with HIV are not dirty, just foolish (at least briefly) and unlucky.

 

[Snozzle]

Does anyone ever get gang-raped in these places?

The walls are thin and there are often no ceilings to the cubicles, so you can shout and be heard.

With all the small cameras around, can one reasonably expect the visit to be private and confidential?

Many saunas have a strict rule against using cellphones, let alone cameras (or you get thrown out), but privacy is never certain anywhere these days.

 

[thebesthotsex]

hot story... you got the total package so it's no surprise to me all these guys were all over you. glad you had a great first experience. never been to a bathhouse myself but your story is really enticing me.

 

[SR_ArthurRimjob]

love your story

 

[hairyversmuscle]

Hey Bud,

Great story, so glad you had a great time. I remember the first time I went I was so nervous. I have only been to Steamworks in Chicago. What I like about that chain is that no matter where you are, there is always someone cleaning. Having a clean bath house is important.

I don't know why that bastard said it was fantasy up above, I have had similarly great experiences. I have been about 10 times and all but one was a great experience just like yours. The time it wasn't was when they had no hot water, so no steam, no tub, no shower! UGH! There was only about 15 people as a result and no one I was interested.

Last time I was there, I met a guy, super hot, perfect looking guy, only issue was that we both wanted to bottom so the two of us went and found tops together, had a great time kissing, touching, making out, sucking each other while we got fucked by other guys with huge dicks. Was a blast. I had never had a "partner in crime" before when I went there.

Things I always keep in mind is, go and have fun, not likely to have a relationship develop from an encounter there, and treat everyone like they have every disease... in other words, wear condoms and demand your partners do too. I haven't ever seen anyone who is positive with rashes and scabs so you likely can't tell who is disease free by looking at them. That being said, if you meant "clean" as in good hygene, that is also important! No reason anyone should be dirty, there are showers everywhere!

 

[B_thickjohnny]

Things like that DO happen at gay saunas. I've had that experience once in Chicago and once in Barcelona. The time in Barcelona was incredible. I got off by having so many guys watching me being fucked.

 

[Hawnboi10]

I have always wanted to go to this place. I think the only thing thats holding me back is the potential to get an STD or something. I know condoms are a must but even for oral?

 

[ucfan]

A very sexy guy in your gallery, nice to look at! But one sentence in your excited report made me think twice:

I gave them both a good look and found that they were clean

Aren't you happy go lucky :smile: To know from a glance that someone is "clean" is overly optimistic, and qualifies you as very young at heart. In the mode of Famous Last Words: "Oops, I just realized I drove off the edge of the canyon."

Cheers, FinnMan

I think he meant to say he gave them each a colonoscopy.

 

[F_Man]

I think he meant to say he gave them each a colonoscopy.

LOL

 

[bi_todd]

I've been to Steamworks Berkeley several times, but it has been a few years. The environment is pure sex and it gets the job done, but I would never expect to find a love connection there (though I'm glad if the OP did). From my encounters, the Steamworks experience can get a little raw. In particular, the dark areas in the back (maze, etc) are a haven for unsafe behavior. For instance, I've witnessed a bottom guy bent over a bench accepting all loads - completely unaware and unconcerned about who will be topping him next. Management ensures that the place is clean and that condoms are plentiful, but the behavior of individuals is not-so-easily governed. Because of things like that, I'm always nervous about visiting Steamworks and the concern about diseases is never far from my thoughts while I'm there. From their website, I see that Steamworks is nearing completion on a year-long renovation, so perhaps I will need to give it another try. Berkeley - Steamworks Baths

By contrast, just down the road in San Jose is the Watergarden bath house. The environment is lighter (literally, lots of windows) and less-raw (literally, sex is prohibited in most of the public areas like the lounges, hot tub, and pool). The Watergarden actually feels like visiting a spa. There is still plenty of naked fun to be had, but the approach is not so animalistic as Steamworks (whether you consider that better or worse is perhaps personal taste). I have had some really great encounters there, and a couple have turned into connections outside the bath house. In some ways, I wish I didn't like the Watergarden environment so much (so I wouldn't be tempted to visit as often). Gay and Bisexual Men’s Club & Baths » The WaterGarden

Bath house clientele can be hit-or-miss. Be prepared for plenty of older gents (especially on weekdays). Weekend nights attract a distinctly different (and younger) crowd - especially after the bars and clubs close. Regardless of the day/time, a few desirable guys can be found and I'm always flattered when my big dick attracts their attention (it doesn't always happen, but complete strikeouts are rare for me). Guys are generally respectful if you say 'no', but expect to be watched and even groped when having sex in open areas like a steam room (if you find that objectionable, then take it to a private room).

I think the SF Bay Area is lucky to have these two high-quality bath houses. The few bath houses I have visited in other cities were dirty, run-down, and just plain creepy (never tempted to return). Your experience may vary.