Can i ask a legit no shade throwing question? Why do people want to know the real names porn actors? I look at them as sexual entertainment only, their not my friends or anything of the sort. So outside of sexual enjoyment, why know their real names if they are not wanting to give it?
Because their real name is who they actually are, if that makes sense. When you see a really handsome porn star and you feel attraction to them it kinda feels nicer to get off to them when you know their actual name instead of their porn name. Like you ever think of or say out loud a hot guys name while youre masturbating? Yeah its not so hot when you know the names fake lol- to me anyway.
It would be the same as watching a movie/tv show, having a crush on a hot guy in the movie, and wanting to know what their name is- because their character name is obviously fake.
Also seeing photos of a porn star outside of porn is a cool way of getting to know more about them- their personality/background its like getting a fuller picture of them that involves more of who they are, rather than just the piece of meat or the fake persona/character they play on screen. And it just humanises them if that makes sense. Porn is so fake/its not normal to see hot guys naked having sex that youve never met before, that seeing a normal photo of a porn star makes them feel more like an actual person.
Sometimes you also want to know if the person's doing well, if theyre still alive, maybe youre hoping to see they have had a successful life and have started a family- finding this out is just genuinely something that makes me happy. Sometimes its just good to know theyre not in any trouble- that theyre not in jail or sick. And if they are sick maybe youd want to know that so that you could consider donating anonymously to their gofundme or something why not.
Is this creepy/wrong? I dunno. But I would definitely say its different to going overboard and being obsessed with figuring out every detail of their life, stalking them irl, or messaging them (espcially if the message is inappropriate). I do think if you find out their real names you should just keep it to yourself lol
Having said that it probably is a bad idea to share porn stars real names like the BCH's names on a public forum to other strangers on the internet because they obviously could be the type to do the overboard stuff.