Being A Bottom. Tips?

[Humll]

I think that being relaxed and horny is key to enjoy when you are a bottom, but I want you to share tips or something you've discovered that has improved your experience when you bottom!

 

[deleted10699801]

Vers guy here.

Making sure that neither my top nor myself rushes foreplay is definitely a key tip I've learned. Having that extra minute or two of rimming and/or fingering definitely makes it feel a whole heck of a lot better as it's going in. Also, jacking myself off as the top is going in in addition to that.

 

[deleted6505551]

For me it's knowing what make me comfortable beforehand. As an example, I cannot relax without knowing I am clean inside. Douching before a date is an absolute necessity for me. Finding those things that help you relax and seeing to them is the big. Beyond that learning how to fool my inner sphincter so it opens on command was huge. As Rainbow Strength said, foreplay helps tremendously, especially fingering in my case.