being a whore

[B_smooth_7]

This is so wrong but I am a whore I think.

I've been in relationships that went sour. Not my fault on either. I was totally monogamous in both but now that I'm single I have no interest in "dating" but prefer to just whore around. I don't want any BS talking, dating, let's-meet-for-drinks crap.

Come over, do me and leave.

It's probably wrong on many levels but am I alone in this behavior? And how to stop it?

 

[Infernal]

You're responsible for your own behavior. It's only wrong if you think it is.

 

[ryan25yo]

You're responsible for your own behavior. It's only wrong if you think it is.

Sorry, man............but to say "it's only wrong if you think it is" leads to all sorts of ridiculous conclusion. It's relativism on steroids! There are some things that are wrong....always, everywhere and for everyone.....eg, murder.

 

[craigsmith]

I personally love it when a guy comes over just so I can get him off. Suck him, he fucks me silly - and more. I love the feeling of taking his cock in me and him using me and then leaving. I love to be rode hard and put away wet - dripping wet with man spunk, piss, spit etc. I just LOVE it all. Cant get enough - I know I am a whore! And I love it!!!

 

[B_smooth_7]

I personally love it when a guy comes over just so I can get him off. Suck him, he fucks me silly - and more. I love the feeling of taking his cock in me and him using me and then leaving. I love to be rode hard and put away wet - dripping wet with man spunk, piss, spit etc. I just LOVE it all. Cant get enough - I know I am a whore! And I love it!!!

Maybe it's an age thing?

 

[dong-in-khakis]

I have an online friend like that.. calls himself a whore.

Gonna meet him in person on day I hope.

 

[B_smooth_7]

I'd rather just meet a guy on line, have him over and that's it. If we get together again, that's good too.

 

[Infernal]

Sorry, man............but to say "it's only wrong if you think it is" leads to all sorts of ridiculous conclusion. It's relativism on steroids! There are some things that are wrong....always, everywhere and for everyone.....eg, murder.

I'm only speaking to him thinking he's a whore. His actions there are wrong only if he thinks it is. Anyone using that train of though to justify other actions has more problems than any of us can give advice on.

 

[MickeyLee]

sounds like ya might be a bit burned by ya previous relationships. ya point out that ya did nothing wrong, so maybe ya blame the actions of the other folks? is nickle shrink, and a bit dismissive of the intricacies of human emotions.. ya don't seem open to giving another person the chance to hurt ya. ya get want you want/need and move on. whore = lack of intimacy?

but, ya know, i think a period of rebellion and out of character behavior can be good for a person. specially if they feel they maybe lost something of themselves through a few life ass whippings.

if ya taking care of/respecting yaself *safer sex, screening ya man friends for possible "will kill you" impulses, not hurting/misleading ya partners* nothing wrong with getting ya man whore on.

ya might just wanna steep in being slutty for a bit, might not be ready for the work and dedication/risk an actual relationship entails.

just.. when ya done with this phase.. be done with it. if the behavior becomes compulsive, and is no longer fulfilling, if ya start adding risks *unsafe sex, not screening ya partners* ya might wanna take a deeper look at what's driving ya actions.

hmm last.. don't close yaself off from the possibility of someone ya meet being worth more/you wanting more. :smile:

 

[203602]

the first step is admitting that you DON'T have a problem. be safe and if you want to fuck 10 guys at a time, three times a day...DO IT. again, just be safe. this is nobody's business but yours. if, indeed, it does make you feel ashamed or cheap, THEN you may have a problem. but in my opinion, that problem would be in your head, not in what you are doing.

 

[Countryguy63]

the first step is admitting that you DON'T have a problem. be safe and if you want to fuck 10 guys at a time, three times a day...DO IT. again, just be safe. this is nobody's business but yours. if, indeed, it does make you feel ashamed or cheap, THEN you may have a problem. but in my opinion, that problem would be in your head, not in what your doing.

I 2nd this with a sprinkle of ML's response as a bonus!!!

 

[Gisella]

This is so wrong but I am a whore I think.

I've been in relationships that went sour. Not my fault on either. I was totally monogamous in both but now that I'm single I have no interest in "dating" but prefer to just whore around. I don't want any BS talking, dating, let's-meet-for-drinks crap.

Come over, do me and leave.

It's probably wrong on many levels but am I alone in this behavior? And how to stop it?

I think you are going through a "normal" phase after a brake up from long term relationship. You are not ready for any relationship any time soon.

I do not think it is wrong being honest at all.. if you clearly tell others that is what you want and nothing else, that is good of you.

I generally do not date anyone recently separated, divorced and etc..it took me a while to date anyone after divorce and couple brake ups.

 

[203602]

I think you are going through a "normal" phase after a brake up from long term relationship. You are not ready for any relationship any time soon.

I do not think it is wrong being honest at all.. if you clearly tell others that is what you want and nothing else, that is good of you.

I generally do not date anyone recently separated, divorced and etc..it took me a while to date anyone after divorce and couple brake ups.

great thoughts and advice IMO.

 

[D_BenJo_Ahanakokolele]

This is so wrong but I am a whore I think.

I've been in relationships that went sour. Not my fault on either. I was totally monogamous in both but now that I'm single I have no interest in "dating" but prefer to just whore around. I don't want any BS talking, dating, let's-meet-for-drinks crap.

Come over, do me and leave.

It's probably wrong on many levels but am I alone in this behavior? And how to stop it?

I might get shit for this but you're 56. does it make a difference on what you do now?

Cause I slept with a guy who and i quote. "I love bareback sex now. I never did it when i was younger cause i didn't want to catch anything but now that I'm 48, I really don't care."

 

[bighosenow]

This is so wrong but I am a whore I think.

I've been in relationships that went sour. Not my fault on either. I was totally monogamous in both but now that I'm single I have no interest in "dating" but prefer to just whore around. I don't want any BS talking, dating, let's-meet-for-drinks crap.

Come over, do me and leave.

It's probably wrong on many levels but am I alone in this behavior? And how to stop it?

I like to think of myself as a slut. A whore does the same thing as a slut but gets paid for it in some form (cash, jewelry, clothes, etc). A slut does it for fun.

 

[invisibleman]

This is so wrong but I am a whore I think.

I've been in relationships that went sour. Not my fault on either. I was totally monogamous in both but now that I'm single I have no interest in "dating" but prefer to just whore around. I don't want any BS talking, dating, let's-meet-for-drinks crap.

Come over, do me and leave.

It's probably wrong on many levels but am I alone in this behavior? And how to stop it?

You aren't a whore. You sound like you are jaded. (Angry...so you rebel by wanting just "no-strings attachments" because men have let you down.) OR...you are so tired of the dating "interview" and going through the motions of getting to know someone...you just want sex.

Maybe you need some men to treat you right the way you want to be treated for a change. That will probably turn things around for you. (That is the hardest part of dating...trying to figure men out...and all. Trying to find the right guy.)

 

[helgaleena]

I like to think of myself as a slut. A whore does the same thing as a slut but gets paid for it in some form (cash, jewelry, clothes, etc). A slut does it for fun.

^ ^ ^ this. Let us be clear upon our terminology, always. :wink:

 

[Phil Ayesho]

the first step is admitting that you DON'T have a problem. be safe and if you want to fuck 10 guys at a time, three times a day...DO IT. again, just be safe. this is nobody's business but yours. if, indeed, it does make you feel ashamed or cheap, THEN you may have a problem. but in my opinion, that problem would be in your head, not in what you are doing.

Its not only your own business.

Its also the business of EVERYONE with whom you have sex.
And the business of everyone with whom THEY have sex.

Knowing next to nothing about the people you have sex with, you have no idea if they are sneaking around on some other guy or a wife who is unaware of their escapades. You have no way of knowing if they are a liar about their HIV status or some other affliction to which you may expose yourself.

And then you will blindly and without any knowledge bed someone or several someone else's in the coming days?


Sorry... the notion that its nobody's business but your own is self centered idiocy of the worst kind.


Being shit ignorant of who you are having sex with is irresponsible, no matter how many condoms you have layered on.

You don't get a pass for the damage you might do unwittingly when the slightest amount of wit might suggest you should be more discerning.

 

[203602]

Being shit ignorant of who you are having sex with is irresponsible, no matter how many condoms you have layered on.

You don't get a pass for the damage you might do unwittingly when the slightest amount of wit might suggest you should be more discerning.

yes, it's become quite obvious that you know all about being shit ignorant.

and actually, yes, it does matter "how many condoms you have layered on." so i stick by my opinion that it's NOBODY'S business but his own (and yet AGAIN i say) as long as he's safe and i'll add honest with his partner(s).

 

[sgtrock]

I think if your practicing Safe Sex and your not creating any unecessary head games or drama and your ok with everything I dont see anything wrong with it.