Being an exclusive bottom

[Gecko4lif]

why is that selfish? is it selfish that your wife/girlfriend doesn't top you?

My wife/girlfriend doesnt have a penis

 

[D_GlennFeckless]

Love the feeling of making love to my woman's nest, and all the good masculine stuff that accompanies that, but when with a guy I'm 100% bottom.

Mutual oral with a guy is never discouraged, but I find no attraction to a man's ass other than as a convenient handle to grab onto and pull him deeper, or perhaps to tongue and finger a little if that'll get him fired up more.

 

[ericbythebay]

Just a thought I had today, is it natural to be an exclusive bottom?

No,this is not a post to inflame people, but part of male psychology (especially sexually) is to pound:biggrin1: Whether straight or gay, a man per his sexual role gets the urge to penetrate. the whole purpose of penises is to penetrate.

but if somebody is an exclusive bottom, then his penis is not being used to fuck. is it then a waste of cock usage?

It's natural for some guys to be exclusive bottoms. Your confusion arrises from attempting to apply heteronormative stereotypes to gay men.

 

[B_bottom3inch]

im a bottom only when with a guy, i like getting fucked on my back legs on the tops shoulders, or doggystyle. i love it when a tops cock is alot bigger then mine.

 

[B_bottom3inch]

http://www.lpsg.org/members/bottom3inch/albums/my+nude+pics/603659-please-comment-on-my-nude.jpg ..........
im a bottom only when with a guy, i like getting fucked on my back legs on the tops shoulders, or doggystyle. i love it when a tops cock is alot bigger then mine.

 

[psguy64]

I am exclusive as a power bottom with an exclusive top.

 

[TexasTail4U2Use]

I am a 100% total bottom because that is what I prefer. A dominant masculine man fucking me like his bitch. Prefer the face to face, or missionary position. But also enjoy a hard cock entering me from behind.
Seems most of the so called straight guys that I have hooked up with ended up being bottoms as well. Sort of a let down when a hot cowboy wants you to fuck HIM instead of throwing you down and ramming your ass. Tried it a time or two and as someone mentioned here, went flat as a pancake pretty darn fast.

 

[jameslpsg]

depends on the relationship, in a lot its best if both are versatile. Others they guys prefer to be one of other, Its up to the guys. whatever you/they prefer.

 

[B_thickjohnny]

I've tried topping - had a BF who was totally versatile and we fucked each other rotating depending on the mood. But the truth is I like being fucked. I feel awkward fucking a guy - like I can't find the right position or just get tired of all that thrusting... I hope I'm not the only guy that feels that way. I just like being an aggressive bottom

 

[B_Nia88]

i am 100% bottom no greater joy than seeing your mans face as he pounds into you

 

[D_GlennFeckless]

One disadvantage of being exclusively a bottom is when you meet someone in a non-sexual situation, like a hotel bar, and head up to your room to "continue the conversation" without being clear on your role beforehand. I come across as confident and somewhat alpha, kind of rugged and outdoorsy (especially with the winter beard on), and it's not uncommon for someone to assume I top. Unfortunately, I've tried it and found it does nothing for me whatsoever.

 

[Charles Finn]

yes I am all top i usually do not like my ass messed with plus so many bottoms so little time i did bottom years ago but never liked it so I became a top and had a lot of great bottom teachers

 

[Kaden27]

i don't have a massive cock, but i think it's about average sized -6.5 inches, so i think that if i was on top it would be an okay size. and even though i have never had sex before, i know that i would be more a bottom, if not exclusively a bottom.

 

[Kaden27]

i agree. the thought of being controlled by a man on top is good enough for me to bottom!

 

[Spiritual Bliss]

:tongue:
Not an 'exclusive' bottom but 90 percent of the time tho. Some guys simply can't 'get it up' so are bottoms because of necessity. I like both. Especially when I bottom I like riding on top with the fucker face-up laying on his back, so I can be K-Y Cowboy.

Wish you were closer because That position is the position I prefer my bottoms to take!!!

 

[B_cockluv10]

I'm a total bottom because that's what feels best to me. I'm submissive and I crave being dominated. Flipping just doesn't feel right. I much prefer having a cock in me than to put mine in someone else.
The thing I absolutely love most of all is sucking cock. There is nothing that feels better than being allowed to worship a big cock.
As much as I love getting fucked and as good as it feels for my ass to be filled up with cock, having my mouth filled with cock is better. Sometimes I cum without touching myself when I'm sucking cock.