Being Bottomed

[al1011]

What does it feel like to get bottomed? As a bi guy, always was curious about what it would feel like to get fucked in the ass..

 

[Brodie888]

You should start by fingering yourself with lots of lube. Then over time try larger objects that have a wide base.

So many people end up in the ER with a coke bottle up their ass it's not funny.... Well, it kinda is

 

[al1011]

You should start by fingering yourself with lots of lube. Then over time try larger objects that have a wide base.

So many people end up in the ER with a coke bottle up their ass it's not funny.... Well, it kinda is

Yeah I tried dildo before but didnt get anything out of it. I assumed a real dick and someone grinding you adding more pleasure

 

[Brodie888]

Yeah I tried dildo before but didnt get anything out of it. I assumed a real dick and someone grinding you adding more pleasure

In that case I would suggest a vibrator and learn where your prostate is.

Just like women vaginally, most can't orgasm from thrusting alone. Men need prostate and penile stimulation at the same time.

 

[Brodie888]

A penis tends to be less rigid but as you have control of the dildo you have a better idea of if you are hitting the right places.

Some tops have never bottomed and have no idea. So in those cases, you are better being on top controlling the angle.

 

[deleted22398441]

In summary: amazing or painful or both but great. The crucial thing is to relax. I've bottomed for a lot of big dick guys and found that it all comes down to how well they can locate the prostate as to whether I cum. Regardless though I think it can be enjoyable, there's something amazing about the feeling of another person inside you that a dildo can't replicate. I'm vers myself and have probably topped/bottomed an equal amount. I'd say that bottoming if you are relaxed can be extremely pleasurable. The best thing I can say for advise it to echo what Brodie888 says about using a vibrator to learn about your prostate - you'll get to understand how you can really get the most out of bottoming - a real dick is better but also the whole bottoming thing is not for everyone.

 

[MeatStickSupreme]

For me, bottoming has the potential to be very pleasurable but it depends on preparations and setting expectations. Compared to regular penis based stimulation there are several differences with anal and prostate sensations.

When you stimulate your dick, either with masturbation or during sex your pleasure builds up to a definite point of climax. You keep jerking or thrusting until you build up to a point, your balls get tense, your dick gets extra hard and you start feeling the orgasmic contractions in and around the base of your dick, and then you cum.

Bottoming is different though. Its more subtle than an ejaculatory orgasm. As you stimulate your anus and prostate, either by manual play or during sex, you have this sort of tightness, tension and warmth that starts in your ass and pelvis and radiates throughout your whole body. It takes a lot long than penis based stimulation to build up though, on the order of several minutes up to an hour or more. There is no peak or final point of orgasm either. Its something that keeps building the longer you go at it. The pleasure also comes in waves that can be as far apart as a few seconds to a couple of minutes. The more waves you ride though the more intense the next ones get. At the end of a session you may be feeling waves of tension and warmth through your entire body, you may be moaning, grunting, uncontrollably, thrusting or jerking, involuntarily kegeling, breathing hard or even shaking. The primary thing to note about bottoming and anal play its its something you must open up to and submit to. Unlike ejaculatory orgasm where you can just stroke harder and faster and you know that you will get to a point of orgasm, the pleasure you get from bottoming depends on whether youre able to relax, whether you have the right chemistry with the person you are with and other factors. Every person is different and even every session has differences in them.

The biggest hurdle to finding pleasure in bottoming is the anxiety most first timers face about having an...accident, which leads to them being tense back there. Overcoming that is about cleaning and preparation, so to get your best experiences, start out by using the bathroom, douching beforehand and taking a shower.

Next is about going slow, starting small and using lots of lube (if you think youre using too much, add a little more). This stage is especially important if youre a new timer. Start with fingers (trim your nails) then move to smaller toys. Then when youre ready go for a dick. Finding someone who is patient and gentle is critical. Unless youre seasoned, going rough and hard is not going to be fun.

But if you start with an open mindset, relaxation and patience, you can experience some fantastic, earth shattering, spiritual and moving experiences that can change your entire sexual worldview

 

[Krobbie1954]

For me, bottoming has the potential to be very pleasurable but it depends on preparations and setting expectations. Compared to regular penis based stimulation there are several differences with anal and prostate sensations.

When you stimulate your dick, either with masturbation or during sex your pleasure builds up to a definite point of climax. You keep jerking or thrusting until you build up to a point, your balls get tense, your dick gets extra hard and you start feeling the orgasmic contractions in and around the base of your dick, and then you cum.

Bottoming is different though. Its more subtle than an ejaculatory orgasm. As you stimulate your anus and prostate, either by manual play or during sex, you have this sort of tightness, tension and warmth that starts in your ass and pelvis and radiates throughout your whole body. It takes a lot long than penis based stimulation to build up though, on the order of several minutes up to an hour or more. There is no peak or final point of orgasm either. Its something that keeps building the longer you go at it. The pleasure also comes in waves that can be as far apart as a few seconds to a couple of minutes. The more waves you ride though the more intense the next ones get. At the end of a session you may be feeling waves of tension and warmth through your entire body, you may be moaning, grunting, uncontrollably, thrusting or jerking, involuntarily kegeling, breathing hard or even shaking. The primary thing to note about bottoming and anal play its its something you must open up to and submit to. Unlike ejaculatory orgasm where you can just stroke harder and faster and you know that you will get to a point of orgasm, the pleasure you get from bottoming depends on whether youre able to relax, whether you have the right chemistry with the person you are with and other factors. Every person is different and even every session has differences in them.

The biggest hurdle to finding pleasure in bottoming is the anxiety most first timers face about having an...accident, which leads to them being tense back there. Overcoming that is about cleaning and preparation, so to get your best experiences, start out by using the bathroom, douching beforehand and taking a shower.

Next is about going slow, starting small and using lots of lube (if you think youre using too much, add a little more). This stage is especially important if youre a new timer. Start with fingers (trim your nails) then move to smaller toys. Then when youre ready go for a dick. Finding someone who is patient and gentle is critical. Unless youre seasoned, going rough and hard is not going to be fun.

But if you start with an open mindset, relaxation and patience, you can experience some fantastic, earth shattering, spiritual and moving experiences that can change your entire sexual worldview

That is really good, reasoned advice. As a bottom I wholeheartedly agree with your summation.

 

[chrisrobin]

For me, bottoming has the potential to be very pleasurable but it depends on preparations and setting expectations. Compared to regular penis based stimulation there are several differences with anal and prostate sensations.

When you stimulate your dick, either with masturbation or during sex your pleasure builds up to a definite point of climax. You keep jerking or thrusting until you build up to a point, your balls get tense, your dick gets extra hard and you start feeling the orgasmic contractions in and around the base of your dick, and then you cum.

Bottoming is different though. Its more subtle than an ejaculatory orgasm. As you stimulate your anus and prostate, either by manual play or during sex, you have this sort of tightness, tension and warmth that starts in your ass and pelvis and radiates throughout your whole body. It takes a lot long than penis based stimulation to build up though, on the order of several minutes up to an hour or more. There is no peak or final point of orgasm either. Its something that keeps building the longer you go at it. The pleasure also comes in waves that can be as far apart as a few seconds to a couple of minutes. The more waves you ride though the more intense the next ones get. At the end of a session you may be feeling waves of tension and warmth through your entire body, you may be moaning, grunting, uncontrollably, thrusting or jerking, involuntarily kegeling, breathing hard or even shaking. The primary thing to note about bottoming and anal play its its something you must open up to and submit to. Unlike ejaculatory orgasm where you can just stroke harder and faster and you know that you will get to a point of orgasm, the pleasure you get from bottoming depends on whether youre able to relax, whether you have the right chemistry with the person you are with and other factors. Every person is different and even every session has differences in them.

The biggest hurdle to finding pleasure in bottoming is the anxiety most first timers face about having an...accident, which leads to them being tense back there. Overcoming that is about cleaning and preparation, so to get your best experiences, start out by using the bathroom, douching beforehand and taking a shower.

Next is about going slow, starting small and using lots of lube (if you think youre using too much, add a little more). This stage is especially important if youre a new timer. Start with fingers (trim your nails) then move to smaller toys. Then when youre ready go for a dick. Finding someone who is patient and gentle is critical. Unless youre seasoned, going rough and hard is not going to be fun.

But if you start with an open mindset, relaxation and patience, you can experience some fantastic, earth shattering, spiritual and moving experiences that can change your entire sexual worldview

Good advice all round.
I find that I enjoy bottoming most when there isn't a time slot that needs to be filled. A quick stand-up fuck in the woods can be stimulating but nothing like a long naked protracted session when time stands still and I relax and enjoy everything my fucker is giving me. Every inch of penetration enjoyed, every small contraction of my anus round his cock gives pleasures that swim through my body. I know that if I am enjoying the experience, and totally relaxed my pleasure will spread to the guy who is about to fill me with his cum, so, when after and both sated we lie in a sweaty huddle of total satisfaction

 

[Krobbie1954]

Good advice all round.
I find that I enjoy bottoming most when there isn't a time slot that needs to be filled. A quick stand-up fuck in the woods can be stimulating but nothing like a long naked protracted session when time stands still and I relax and enjoy everything my fucker is giving me. Every inch of penetration enjoyed, every small contraction of my anus round his cock gives pleasures that swim through my body. I know that if I am enjoying the experience, and totally relaxed my pleasure will spread to the guy who is about to fill me with his cum, so, when after and both sated we lie in a sweaty huddle of total satisfaction

Totally agree. A quickie is never as good as long passionate fuck.

 

[Brodie888]

Something to add that hasn't been mentioned here yet in much detail is that it's not just about the physical sensation.

An often ignored part is the emotional component. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable enough for a man to be inside of you, filling you. Seeing the pleasure on his face as your hole grips his penis as you orgasm. Surrendering yourself to him as he ejaculates inside of you.

 

[Shyguy312]

Nothing like being worked up and horny, if your partner is the same, a naked fuck is incredible.

 

[Krobbie1954]

Something to add that hasn't been mentioned here yet in much detail is that it's not just about the physical sensation.

An often ignored part is the emotional component. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable enough for a man to be inside of you, filling you. Seeing the pleasure on his face as your hole grips his penis as you orgasm. Surrendering yourself to him as he ejaculates inside of you.

True that. Cheers!

 

[Krobbie1954]

Nothing like being worked up and horny, if your partner is the same, a naked fuck is incredible.

When both parties are hot for each other I agree, nothing more enjoyable. Cheers Shyguy312

 

[Brodie888]

If I had to be honest about what my number one purpose in life was, I would say it would be as somewhere for men to ejaculate into. No question. Everything else pales in comparison.

 

[Krobbie1954]

If I had to be honest about what my number one purpose in life was, I would say it would be as somewhere for men to ejaculate into. No question. Everything else pales in comparison.

You go guy! ;-)