or just touched in general. i don't like it. i don't want someone hands on me whether they were coming on to me or not. Like at clubs and stuff and the majority of people that do this are gay. why? anyone else feel this way?
or just touched in general. i don't like it. i don't want someone hands on me whether they were coming on to me or not. Like at clubs and stuff and the majority of people that do this are gay. why? anyone else feel this way?
I don't like getting groped without my permission either and have had to stop myself from clocking folks in the jaw because of it. In any event, you probably think the majority of people who do it are gay because...I dont know- youre gay and frequent gay clubs?
I don't like getting groped without my permission either and have had to stop myself from clocking folks in the jaw because of it. In any event, you probably think the majority of people who do it are gay because...I dont know- youre gay and frequent gay clubs?
I agree with both of you. I really think some gay guys think its okay to "check your equipment out" without permission. I don't like it. It's like they are trying to size you up. I'm kind of small when flaccid and literally a guy once grabbed me and practically yelled..."man you've got a small dick." WTF is wrong with some people.
I guess I suffer from some lack of sensitivity on this matter. I don't understand the problem. I'm not one to just randomly "reach out and touch someone," but it has happened to me many times over the last 20+ years. Yes, some of the guys were a bit smarmy, but it certainly never offended me. We are tactile creature, and our sense of touch is particularly important when judging a potential mate. I don't think we can change millions of years of conditioning, so I choose to not let it bother me.
Of course if some cutie grabs my junk, he better expect that I'm going to grab a handful of his @ss.
well its not just the club but the gym too.
My personal space is almost non-existant...
How soon they forget.Not sure if I've had my knob groped - not that I can remember anyway.
I'm sorry but i have self respect. no one puts a hand on me.
Could be because you look like a Barbie doll, and people cant stop themselves from wanting to play with you :wink:
Hey, no need to be sorry dude. It's your body & you're entitled to set the rules about who touches you and where/when.
I dont really think its a self respect issue though. If I was to feel you up at a bar, it doesn't mean I have no self respect, but it might be an indication I dont have a lot of respect for you.
Then again, everyone does something they shouldnt at sometime, so I wouldnt get too pissed about it. Just let them know in a firm but friendly manner that their advances are not welcome.