This is a great question!
And may the last person standing here win. lol.
To start - my great grandmother's cook was amazing.
That cook was a woman.
My grandfather and father were amazing cooks and very
improversational in the kitchen.
My mother (to put it politely) put her talents and abilities to
use in places other than the kitchen.
I love to cook and entertain and have been told I am very good
at it. Beyond being told I am good at it, I enjoy the pleasure I observe
on my guests faces.
A woman I have known for many years is remarkable in the kitchen. And even
then, she will ask me to make it all better and up the ante to make her dishes delectable moreso than what they already were.
I think men might cook more to taste rather than recipe, might take more risks, while women are very methodical and rely more on recipes?
I cannot conclusively proffer who is a better cook based on gender. It is fantastic that everyone loves to cook and enjoys it. May we all be so lucky to enjoy a deliciously prepared meal by whomever may be responsible for its creation.