interesting question.... go "meet" as in date? Or like go stare and stalk regular dudes just tryin to get their work out and shower on...? big difference. uhhh if you are lookin for a muscular bf, i guess try a gay gym or maybe just try networking, and even chatting online, but if you are some creep lookin to scope out dudes, just take it elsewhere cuz i can tell you a LOT of people don't like that, and pick up on it very quickly.