I work in a sex shop, so I'm kind of prejudiced. I have bought toys and sex wear on line, but if you have a good well-stocked sex shop in your town check it out. I'm not talking about a sleaze joint, I'm talking about a sexy, serious place with an informed staff. There are benefits for example in being able to have a real look at the amazing variety of butt plugs on the market and being able to ask for advice. The same with seeking help on buying the right lube, or with getting informed advice if you want to get serious about cock rings by switching to metal where size is all important.