Big guys, are you an exhibitionist?

[Marinoff]

Just had an experience in a public shopping mall men's toilets, where the sinks are placed directly along the corridor with urinals. The closest one did not have a divider on its left side, and the mirror gives a direct view to it.

A tall man who was on the phone took this stall, and was casually flopping his big soft brown cock, at first probably for getting the few drops out, but went on a bit longer than I thought is typical. Clearly straight, not soliciting, and not aware that someone is seeing him (as far as I can tell)

Big guys, do you feel like you like to show off a bit? As this is ask a straight man, what do you feel you get out of it / why do you feel like doing it?

It's another story why straight men might want to see other dudes big pieces but that's another story

 

[verybored]

I can hang pretty well sometimes and while I’m not huge, the urge to show off is there but not in a men’s room really. Or really in a room full of guys in general but maybe I sort of understand the want of others.

 

[Marinoff]

Just had an experience in a public shopping mall men's toilets, where the sinks are placed directly along the corridor with urinals. The closest one did not have a divider on its left side, and the mirror gives a direct view to it.

A tall man who was on the phone took this stall, and was casually flopping his big soft brown cock, at first probably for getting the few drops out, but went on a bit longer than I thought is typical. Clearly straight, not soliciting, and not aware that someone is seeing him (as far as I can tell)

Big guys, do you feel like you like to show off a bit? As this is ask a straight man, what do you feel you get out of it / why do you feel like doing it?

It's another story why straight men might want to see other dudes big pieces but that's another story

Another experience to support this was a guy at work who also joins me in the changing room for cyclists. Most people would wrap up and take off the towel at the shower stall, but this one guy who had a big softie was more than once walking through the room butt naked. Clearly not the place he'd be looking to get action, and straight as far as I can tell too!

 

[DicksOfHazard]

I have a big softie. At a urinal, my habit is to pull it out and let it hang while peeing. I don't know if guys look at it. Only one guy made a comment. I had a slight chub and he just commented on its size.

I've used small communal showers, 3 or 4 showerheads, so there's maybe 1 or 2 other guys and the only comment was from a guy saying he wished his was at least half as big mine.

I know one guy told his wife. I was friends with them. They talked about sex like people talk about the weather or a tv show. I was visiting them one day and during the chatting he proudly said he only dated his wife in highschool. She replied because she was the only girl that would sleep with him and added that wouldn't have happened if I would have been at their school. He asked why. She said because he said I have a big dick. (It was her idea of a joke. She and I never hooked up.)

 

[Marinoff]

I have a big softie. At a urinal, my habit is to pull it out and let it hang while peeing. I don't know if guys look at it. Only one guy made a comment. I had a slight chub and he just commented on its size.

I've used small communal showers, 3 or 4 showerheads, so there's maybe 1 or 2 other guys and the only comment was from a guy saying he wished his was at least half as big mine.

I know one guy told his wife. I was friends with them. They talked about sex like people talk about the weather or a tv show. I was visiting them one day and during the chatting he proudly said he only dated his wife in highschool. She replied because she was the only girl that would sleep with him and added that wouldn't have happened if I would have been at their school. He asked why. She said because he said I have a big dick. (It was her idea of a joke. She and I never hooked up.)

Do you feel you wanted other people to see? Sounds like all of this is just normal exposure anyone else would have done, just not received comments

 

[AussieScooter]

I am a big guy and I love showing off when I can. Urinals can be super fun and I stand (and hold) in such a way that you can’t miss seeing my cock. But my most favourite time ever was going to a nudist beach and stripping off…. I NEED to do this again soon.

 

[Marinoff]

I am a big guy and I love showing off when I can. Urinals can be super fun and I stand (and hold) in such a way that you can’t miss seeing my cock. But my most favourite time ever was going to a nudist beach and stripping off…. I NEED to do this again soon.

As a straight guy why do you love showing off? What do you get out of it showing to other men?

 

[lapdog2001]

Big guys, do you feel like you like to show off a bit? As this is ask a straight man, what do you feel you get out of it / why do you feel like doing it?

I'm a grow-er, not a show-er, so there's nothing to 'show off' unless I'm aroused. Even if I was well hung in a flaccid state, I would never, ever show off except in private with the woman I'm with. I don't look at other guy's penises while using the Men's room and no guy has ever checked me out while using a Men's room.

Despite the thousands of stories here on LPSG, I've never, ever seen anyone at any time, showing off in a Men's room!!! (at any point in 40+ years of utilizing public restrooms!!!)

 

[aaron1976]

When I first realized I was on the bigger side I was a little self-conscious at first, but over time I went in the opposite direction and became more of an exhibitionist. I'm also uncut and live in the US so it felt like I was always getting extra eyes on me when showering after workouts/sports. When I finally said "fuck it, who cares" I realized I actually liked the attention. I don't get guys telling me I'm huge all the time and I don't have women drooling staring at my crotch-- it's the little reactions that make me enjoy showing off some. It's subtle, but you can tell when a woman notices your bulge in sweatpants and smiles or when a guy peeks out of his peripheral in the locker room to see what you're packing. As a straight guy I of course love seeing women get turned on by my size, and I also like seeing other guys have a little bit of dick envy. It's probably a little bit of an alpha thing, but I enjoy it.

 

[Marinoff]

I'm a grow-er, not a show-er, so there's nothing to 'show off' unless I'm aroused. Even if I was well hung in a flaccid state, I would never, ever show off except in private with the woman I'm with. I don't look at other guy's penises while using the Men's room and no guy has ever checked me out while using a Men's room.

Despite the thousands of stories here on LPSG, I've never, ever seen anyone at any time, showing off in a Men's room!!! (at any point in 40+ years of utilizing public restrooms!!!)

Don't get me wrong, it's very rare. I've never seen this in an Anglo-Saxon country for sure, and bathrooms are usually designed to be a little more discreet as well

 

[Marinoff]

When I first realized I was on the bigger side I was a little self-conscious at first, but over time I went in the opposite direction and became more of an exhibitionist. I'm also uncut and live in the US so it felt like I was always getting extra eyes on me when showering after workouts/sports. When I finally said "fuck it, who cares" I realized I actually liked the attention. I don't get guys telling me I'm huge all the time and I don't have women drooling staring at my crotch-- it's the little reactions that make me enjoy showing off some. It's subtle, but you can tell when a woman notices your bulge in sweatpants and smiles or when a guy peeks out of his peripheral in the locker room to see what you're packing. As a straight guy I of course love seeing women get turned on by my size, and I also like seeing other guys have a little bit of dick envy. It's probably a little bit of an alpha thing, but I enjoy it.

Would you say it's just a little ego boost you'd enjoy as a motivation for showing off a little

 

[locutusofborg]

I'm a grow-er, not a show-er, so there's nothing to 'show off' unless I'm aroused. Even if I was well hung in a flaccid state, I would never, ever show off except in private with the woman I'm with. I don't look at other guy's penises while using the Men's room and no guy has ever checked me out while using a Men's room.

Despite the thousands of stories here on LPSG, I've never, ever seen anyone at any time, showing off in a Men's room!!! (at any point in 40+ years of utilizing public restrooms!!!)

You can’t really say you wouldn’t do it, because you don’t have a big dick to know. Having a big softie changes what you’d be like

I’ve defo seen people showing off in the UK, but then public toilets in the UK are super cruisy

 

[aaron1976]

Would you say it's just a little ego boost you'd enjoy as a motivation for showing off a little

Sure, that's probably pretty accurate.

 

[lapdog2001]

Don't get me wrong, it's very rare. I've never seen this in an Anglo-Saxon country for sure, and bathrooms are usually designed to be a little more discreet as well

I've actually used the troth style urinals that used to be in old sports stadiums! This 'show off' behavior is mostly fantasy and those who do it in the real world are reported and typically arrested for lewd behavior.
At least here in the US

 

[aaron1976]

I've actually used the troth style urinals that used to be in old sports stadiums! This 'show off' behavior is mostly fantasy and those who do it in the real world are reported and typically arrested for lewd behavior.
At least here in the US

I'm curious, when you think of exhibitionism/showing off what are you thinking that involves? I consider myself an exhibitionist because I enjoy being naked in appropriate settings, letting my bulge show in some pants/shorts, etc. I guess what I'm saying is that for me being an exhibitionist is not about having a big "LOOK AT MY DICK" kind of attitude-- it's more about being comfortable with my dick be seen if/when the time comes. To go off the men's room example, I would never stand five feet back from the urinal to take a leak so my dick would get seen by strangers. That would be weird as hell to me. I also don't crowd up on the urinal when there's no dividers or a trough to hide my package. I just do what any normal guy would do at home. Same with the locker room. I don't do laps around the changing area while naked or try to chub myself up in the showers, I just go at a normal pace and don't fly through showering/changing or try to keep my manhood covered. So maybe we all have different ideas of what exhibitionism and showing off look like in practice.

 

[Marinoff]

I've actually used the troth style urinals that used to be in old sports stadiums! This 'show off' behavior is mostly fantasy and those who do it in the real world are reported and typically arrested for lewd behavior.
At least here in the US

Would echo @aaron1976, "showing off" here still means a subtle thing that may be more than what an average guy would do, definitely more than what a shy guy could do, but definitely staying in acceptable boundaries.

Walking through changing room naked with no towel eg is not illegal or definitely sexual, but also pushing at the boundaries

 

[bigbucky]

I used to work out at the local "Y", and shower afterwards, and would carry myself "full" in the shower, but towel up, no parading around. it was weird how guys treated each other once they knew who was hung and who was not.

 

[Mike hung]

I'll flop it until any drops of pee are drained sure, I don't want to have any seepage after I've put my cock away but it's not really an exhibition ritual it's just being practical and clean.
Dividers aren't a thing over here in the UK either, urinals may be individual bowls on a wall, one long trough or even just a porcelain gutter in the floor with the older ones.
There just isn't the stigma over here that you seem to have in America, no weird unwritten rules about leaving big gaps either, you just step up to the urinals shoulder to shoulder with everyone else and take a slash and maybe exchange small talk in the process.

 

[Marinoff]

I used to work out at the local "Y", and shower afterwards, and would carry myself "full" in the shower, but towel up, no parading around. it was weird how guys treated each other once they knew who was hung and who was not.

Carry full in the shower meaning what? And how was the treatment different after

 

[Marinoff]

I'll flop it until any drops of pee are drained sure, I don't want to have any seepage after I've put my cock away but it's not really an exhibition ritual it's just being practical and clean.
Dividers aren't a thing over here in the UK either, urinals may be individual bowls on a wall, one long trough or even just a porcelain gutter in the floor with the older ones.
There just isn't the stigma over here that you seem to have in America, no weird unwritten rules about leaving big gaps either, you just step up to the urinals shoulder to shoulder with everyone else and take a slash and maybe exchange small talk in the process.

Semi true about the UK. Older buildings tend to have no dividers and newer usually do build them in. Unless it's really full or in a pub I don't see people do shoulder to shoulder. Maybe this is a London phenomenon but as far as I know