Black Men

NCbear & Marley, I feel both of y'all on the fascination of black men. I don't get it. It is dehumanizing. I asked sort of that same question a couple of weeks ago and it was a thread killer. I was really lookin' for some insight but I let it go, because it wasn't being thought out. It'll be a mystery until death, lol.

I think it's coming from some Whites' projections of fears and desires onto some Blacks, honestly. Look at the absurdist episode in "The Color Purple" where the group of men try to help the crazy driver, and she thinks they're out to attack her. Is it just me, or does she seem disappointed not to be ravished in the front yard on a snowy day? :eyes rolling up to the ceiling:

NCbear (who wonders when all that crap will be purged from our collective national psyche--if ever)
 
I completely agree. And the healing process is for all.

NCbear (who thinks more frank and open discussion on this topic would be a good thing for the entire country)
I think that an open forum to discuss some of the things that we think about as human beings and the ways we behave could be enough to start a ripple of change. The only issue that I see now with something that is having those people who don't want to change. We all know that you can't anybody. It's something that they have to got to want to for themselves.

For all of the enlightened ones, it was just make us feel better on the inside having said SOMETHING and know it was heard. Maybe it'll happen before we did. Something like that would nice for a part of history that eventually will repeat itself.
 
I think it's coming from some Whites' projections of fears and desires onto some Blacks, honestly. Look at the absurdist episode in "The Color Purple" where the group of men try to help the crazy driver, and she thinks they're out to attack her. Is it just me, or does she seem disappointed not to be ravished in the front yard on a snowy day? :eyes rolling up to the ceiling:

NCbear (who wonders when all that crap will be purged from our collective national psyche--if ever)
Ok, I didn't remember the scene at first so I just called my cousin to replay it in my head. She knows "The Color Purple" like the back of her hand. Yeah, disappointment was all over her. That scene really shows that fear and fascination within those few minutes well.
 
I'm here!

Here's the some reasons black men aren't on this site.

1. I think alot of black men (latino) are still into video games and not into the social network sites.

2. LPSG ain't ready for that much black dick

3. Hey I love the the idea that there's a lot of horse hung whites (just discovered a asian on here) on here that disspell the myth of who is the owner of a horse hung cock!






Where are all of the black male members of lpsg?
 
I'm here!

Here's the some reasons black men aren't on this site.

1. I think alot of black men (latino) are still into video games and not into the social network sites.

2. LPSG ain't ready for that much black dick

3. Hey I love the the idea that there's a lot of horse hung whites (just discovered a asian on here) on here that disspell the myth of who is the owner of a horse hung cock!


With Facebook & Twitter being so popular, I would hope that more would catch on. I love # 2. I think LPSG can handle a few more.
 
I for one would very much like to hear from more people who are from groups that have been (and in many cases continue to be) underrepresented online.

NCbear (who's surprised by which of my high-school classmates have and don't have Facebook pages :biggrin1:)
 
Randomness from the top:

When I was a young man, my uncles on both sides of my family used to abuse us. I don't mean literal abuse. I just mean that 'making a little boy tough' abuse that only an uncle can provide. Those of us that were timid used to take it personally--like they hated us. That's not the case at all. When they were little boys, they got NOTHING from their dads so I guess that we could be grateful for the abuse. Yeah, their fathers were great providers but as far as someone that they could TALK to...it wasn't going down. Which brings me to the comment that one of my favorite uncles made earlier this evening.

We were talking about the distance that had been created within our family over the years for whatever reasons. He had mentioned something, hurtful in my opinion, that his oldest son said to him some years ago. My eye brows clenched closer together and I said to my favorite uncle, "That must've hurt your feelings." He replied, "I don't have feelings." He was serious too. So, I listened to him talk about why he didn't have any feelings and was empathetic with him. See, when the men in my life made sacrifices or did things, they always had a reason for it. At the time, my uncles behavior wasn't any of my cousin's business and he wasn't trusting enough to give my uncle his way. My cousin just figured that his dad was fucked up because he was totally thinking about himself instead of what his dad was going through--having to love a wife, provide for his children, take care of his extended family, which they all do time and time again to the best of their ability.

Unc--not having feelings has cost him most of THEM, but I'm still around for sure because I know better. See, them saying that they don't have feelings is just like a defense mechanism. With them, it's a man thing. Per Mo' Better Blues: A D-I-C-K thang. Those fuckers have feelings. If he didn't, he wouldn't have damn near cried when he saw me walk through the door of his kitchen after nearly 3 years (out of town and such; I'm a mover). So, when they say that they don't have feelings, I believe them because they need me to. It's just like me saying "I don't care". It's just a bold-faced lie. Because we all know that they'll rip the skin off of their bodies for us if need be. That's a bomb ass uncle if you ask me:cool:.
 
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