Honestly, I really don't know how to respond to your reply. On one hand, I can understunderstand your feeling, but people are entitle to their own preferences. Different people have different taste and flavor. It would be wrong for you, me, or anyone to say otherwise.
In a way, I can relate to DeAngelo Jackson in that I am physically (and sexually) attracted to people outside my ethnicity. I am Asian, but as soon as I hit puberty at the age of 12, I have always find black men very physically attractive. I guess you can say I have a very strong "preference" for black men. But does that mean I think less of Asian, white, or Latino men? Heck no! My feelings, as far as companionship and respect for others are the same for everyone regardless of ethnicity. I just happen to only find black physically attractive. My questions for you are: is it wrong for me to feel that way? And should I feel guilty for not finding Asian or white men physically attractive?
On the other hand, I've seen a number of Asian women dating white men exclusively (or in your case, black men who only date white women) because they think the European physical features are superior than their own ethnicities, and that their offsprings would look "prettier" with lighter skins, blond hair, and have caucasian features, then I have a huge problem with that. Keep in mind that I am an advocate of any interracial relationship, but I do know some people who feel that way.