I had an interesting experience at a bathhouse recently. I went with a black friend (I’m white) and noticed that when we played in public, more people were interested in me and my cock rather than him and his cock. I’m well hung (7.5 inches), but he’s huge - almost 9 inches. I’m also older and fitter (he’s a bit overweight). As a size queen I didn’t understand why my cock got more attention, but I guess there could be other factors at play. I guess a question for the black guys especially - do you experience discrimination or perhaps less attention than you expect at a bathhouse? I guess I’ve always been interested in guys different than me - whether that is race, physical size (muscles or height), or other differences so i don’t understand this….
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I haven't been in a bathhouse but I have definitely noticed bias over the years. I don't think it's conscious discrimination or anything. See most men tend to look at and admire those who look similar to themselves. I'm assuming most the men in that bathhouse was white? If so then it makes sense for them to be more interested in you than him unfortunately. It's great that you have interest in men outside of your own attributes but it's quite uncommon for men to do so.
I've noticed the same phenomenon on reddit r/MassiveCock. Sometimes there are black guys dicks that are huge but get about 2 or 3 upvotes. Meanwhile a white man's dick that's significantly smaller get upwards of 1K upvotes.
You also mentioned you are fitter than the black guy. That is also a big deterent, being overweight. Even if it's just a little overweight, it's too much for most so there's disinterest/repulsion.
Of course these are just my thoughts on the matter. I may be completely wrong but just what I tend to notice over years of online interactions.
I've noticed the same phenomenon on reddit r/MassiveCock. Sometimes there are black guys dicks that are huge but get about 2 or 3 upvotes. Meanwhile a white man's dick that's significantly smaller get upwards of 1K upvotes.
You also mentioned you are fitter than the black guy. That is also a big deterent, being overweight. Even if it's just a little overweight, it's too much for most so there's disinterest/repulsion.
Of course these are just my thoughts on the matter. I may be completely wrong but just what I tend to notice over years of online interactions.
I was going to mention the issues with porn as well. Well hung white guys do seem to get a lot of attention, while obviously bigger black guys - even those who are ridiculously ripped - seem to be almost ignored or thrown into a category like thug porn or some such.
There is a ton of truth to this.
Speaking as someone who has worked in the adult industry a long time, I can say that porn has historically has been incredibly biased (ahem, systemically racist). The reasons for it are pretty incidental and they're not all horrible, but they do re-enforce horrible attitudes. I think it has to do with assumed defaults and a lot white/Eurocentric niche sorting. Kind of like the idea of the 'other' that revolves around m/f white, non-kink, close in age, standardized formulas and fetishizes everything else around a loose series of really odd or outdated social taboos.
I think things are evolving a bit in the past few years, but inclusivity is woefully behind in the adult entertainment realm.
What is odd is that I spoke to someone who also was in the porn industry about the standard porn industry create and he basically deflected all responsibility to "the clientele". Saying the only reason they make porn that is categorized as "thug porn" because that's what the viewers want. But it's also almost only what we get so how could we show interest in something else?
Same thing with porn star penis size stats. Over inflated numbers for stats are a direct result of trying to one up each other or pull attention. "HotGuy1 rams SexyTwink2 with his 11 inch rod of steel" or some bs. But then the common folk think that's actually an 11 inch penis. But that's a whole different topic lol.
I get way too much attention in a bathhouse. I do feel most non black men really only see me as a fetish my color for one then it can go either way. For my body (I'm a bodybuilder) or my dick (9"x7")
What gets attention is the out of the ordinary.
An older ripped white guy with an above average cock IS going to get noticed! Most of them are fat, out of shape, and what cock they do have is engulfed by their fat pad. Lol
An overweight black guy with good equipment is less impressive. Has nothing to do with race.
An older ripped white guy with an above average cock IS going to get noticed! Most of them are fat, out of shape, and what cock they do have is engulfed by their fat pad. Lol
An overweight black guy with good equipment is less impressive. Has nothing to do with race.
Hmm... By that logic, black men are out of the ordinary so should get attention.
Like I hypothesized, it isn't any conscious bias. Just most men tend to gravitate to those who look similarly as themselves. Race has something to do with it but not on a grand level and not purposefully.
But yes, I mostly think it's because of fitness level. Fit = Yum. Overweight = Pass.
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you are going to get noticed anywhere you go with your amazing body and cock... can't stop looking!
I must admit I like interracial porn, but I have no preference as to who is dominant. Black guy dominating a white guy, white guy being deepthroated….it all gets me going. (Not into anything crazy - usually watch guys being blown…watching the guy being sucked is what gets me off.)
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I think the same goes for younger guys. I mean an 18 year old with a big dick would get a lot of attention since he's young and you dont expect that size, maybe even more attention than a 40 year old with a bigger one. Just an example
Sadly among the gay community there's a large flux of discrimination for black gay men, there's a lot of "white and latinos to the front" type people or "asian and white to the front" type people but there's rarely any "black men to the front" unless there's a mention of "bbc" in which black men are often wanted for a temporary 'big' toy to play with until the aforementioned comes along.
that's all many black men get seen as, a temporary fetish by men of other racial categories and it honestly sucks.
that's all many black men get seen as, a temporary fetish by men of other racial categories and it honestly sucks.
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What city were you in? Is it diverse? Just curious if maybe the guys haven't had as much exposure to black guys.
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I (white and 7") went to a black sex club once and was completely and totally ignored. One other white guy was there and it looked like he was being ignored as well. In the dark room, I was on my knees and a guy would walk up and as I went for his cock he'd feel my hair and walk away. I guess it was a place just for black guys who just wanted to hook up with black guys.
That happens yeah, so many black guys get rejected due to their skin color that many of them will stick to their own that actually want them, it sucks for the small few that make the attempt but if it happens so much it becomes a thing that just sticks.
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I would imagine that it's possible for everything said already to be true in one instance or another. I know people who fit every category mentioned above. In some cases, you're too light, then too dark. Too old, then too young. Too fat, then not fat enough. Too straight, then too gay. Too tall, then too short. People also want one thing today and another tomorrow.
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