What shitty, abusive or scammy behavior? All people have said here is that they were in an open relationship and he preferred the other one. When you go to an open relationship, thats wha happen.if you're indifferent or just don't care, just say that. calling out people for shitty, abusive, or scammy behavior is not a sign of jealousy. it's a sign of being observant
Being observant is ok, but to say the same thing over and over and over again on the same situation is just being a hater.